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I'm 53 years old and I still have no idea how to measure a cock. I'm an architect so I have a fairly good eye for distance and yet everyone claims to be 8 inches. So I ask 8 inches from WHERE? Your ass hole ?

Do gay men have bigger dicks ? They all claim to have 8 inches.

Wasn't that "Larchmont Lockjaw" ? 🤔

You score points @BenjaminNicholas for knowing who Bunny Bixler is.

In MY experience there are MANY many men out there who are bisexual but very private about that fact. Even sex workers can be closeted enough that they don't want their friends to know they swing both ways.

Read the article posted by @azdr0710. It's another example of private equity firms going in, raping the shit out of a company and leaving it for dead. These people have no ethics and don't give a damn about the hundreds of employees they leave in the dust and the thousands of loyal customers they disappoint when they destroy a company with predatory financial schemes.

I think we may all be reading the original question in different ways. By "advertising for ladies only" I read this as they are advertising in the section under providers for women and don't have additional advertising in the men's section. I don't think it means he's specifically advertising as "I ONLY sleep with women".

Although @ICTJOCK does not seem to agree I would say that you @Simon Suraci make a valid point about the difference between the traditions of escorting and sex work. I think the point that seems to most bother ICTJOCK is the DEGREE of deliberate deception that he finds inappropriate. For that I do commend him for keeping a moral compass that draws a line where he sees maliciousness.

Only if you're forcing their hand. Doesn't hurt to ASK. Voluntary engagements aren't rape. (In spite of what some "me-too" cry babies want to claim).

Funny...but I wouldn't say SO far off from the approach that one might make if trying to coax a straight (str8) provider to bend the rules enough to let you get him off. I'm one of those guys who does prefer "straight"-ish men..so coaxing has long been part of my playbook. Flattery to start: "I've been looking for an m4m escort but I keep coming back to YOUR photos because you're just so sexy/handsome and masculine. I just can't find anyone on the gay sites who is masculine enough for me." Finances to close: "Just wanted to reach out just in case you might be open to a little man-on-man time with someone who's generosity would be in line with your making this special exception to your usual range of clientele." Back to flattery: If not; that's Kool. I understand. Have a great evening. And keep up whatever it is you're doing. You look incredible.

Precisely. When I was in my 20s I was a regular at all the sex parties in NYC. I would easily have had sex with at least 30 people in one night. Bath houses too. Minimum 5 or 6 guys in one evening. I am of course rounding up. I didn't keep an abacus going. 😜

I think this just speaks to his skill. A good "escort" who knows how to provide the true boyfriend experience. It's like a great film with great actors. If I get drawn in enough I will cry during a powerful scene, in spite of the fact that it's not real. We can often lose ourselves in emotional moments. That's part of being human.

Oh my. So sorry for that damper on the fun. Thankful for my high school sex education teachers filling us in on the dangers of HIV in the 80s.

I've been with thousands of men. I still have no idea what is what when it comes to dick size. But I haven't bottomed in ages....so it's not really important to me.

You make a good point. Yes...I was probably equating a nude beach with an opportunity to check out the possibilities. Two of the locations were adjacent to gay beaches, so you can't blame me for conflating.

Online forums allow for a more raw unfiltered opinion. There's a lot of frustration on both sides about poor service / fake profiles and overly demanding clients. So not necessarily being "mean" as much as being honest about their hurt feelings.

I was at a strip club after a birthday party with some gay friends. One of the dancers "Vito" was particularly attractive to me, so I went to the lounge to have another peek after his performance. He came over and flirted with me and asked if I wanted a "private show". I apologized and said I wasn't prepared for hiring anyone and only had about $40 cash with me. He said that's enough for a "sample". So we went to a nearby hotel and the sample ended up being the two of us fucking for hours. Afterwards, he claimed he didn't want any money. He approached me because I was hot. However in my mind, this was how he made his living and I did agree to pay what I had...so I left the $40 on the dresser. I was only in my early 20s and definitely didn't "need" to hire ..but the idea of being able to get what I want without the usual endless chatting up someone, buying drinks and pondering IF they looked good naked (This is pre-internet) really appealed to me. So when I got older the simplicity of the hire became more of a regular habit.

Although both countries have had a history of abuse among young providers I wouldn't assume the whole scene is filled with sex slavery. Particularly Thailand where homosexuality is very open. In Morocco, the pimps are providing a degree of discretion to the young provider as well as the client in a country that publicly condemns homosexuality. So I wouldn't assume the providers are frequently doing anything against their will simply becasue there's a handler involved in the transactions..

How do you guys know the other persons size ? Do you bring a tape measure to the hook up or you just believe what's on their rent.men profile 🤔 ?

I remember Uncle Charlie's. The old one on Greenwich was more of a hook up spot for 20 to 30 somethings than a place for intelligent conversation. I also didn't know that the name still survives. Personally, I never spent a lot of time in gay bars because in NYC you can meet interesting people everywhere and I've met plenty of gay men in mainstream bars, cocktail lounges, restaurants and even dive bars that weren't specifically a "gay bar".

Inflation is always blamed on politics...but LOTS of factors, come into play. Primarily manipulation of the dollar by Federal Reserve which is not actually an agency of the US Government in spite of its name. (A fact many don't know .) Inflation from 2019 to 2024 has increased all prices 20% to 25%. So to sell for the same value you definitely need to charge $1.25 not $1.00 or your profits will dwindle as your expenses increase.

Thank God. There's so little common sense in the news these days.

Every nude beach I've ever visited was 99% full of people I regretted seeing naked. So yeah...younger, fit attractive people aren't going to be hanging with grandma and her saggy tits dragging on the sand.

Thanks for sharing. I will be in London next week. Definitely something I'd like to check out. Sargent is my favorite portrait painter.

I suppose that's a matter of what YOU call "comfortable". A salary of $114K doesn't get you much in NYC. If you're happy living in Queens, eating fast food and making a trip to Disneyland once a year...I suppose you'd be happy. I'm sure a lot of young handsome men who are escorting have aspirations to a few more luxuries in life.