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Did I say it was ? Again...you keep writing your own narratives. I asked nicely to stop. So I will ask again. Please stop.

Absolutely. That's an excellent point. Culturally some parts of the US were behind others. Would you mind sharing ( out of curiosity ) where YOU grew up, Tygerscent ? Your personal story reeks of late 60's Bay Area culture...so curious when and where your lovely childhood took place. Thanks

I agree. Your responses are always off on a tangent....so it doesn't really contribute anything to what I said. Please just respond to other people if you can't actually respond to what I said. That would be nice. thanks

Again...you ignored my last response. I specifically wrote that YOU ARE FREE TO DISAGREE WITH MY OPINION. My issue is that are off on wild tangents in response to MY opinions, (and not Unicorn's) about things I didn't say. Disagree all you like, but don't keep responding to ME unless you read what I wrote first, and respond to THAT. It would keep things moving along in a mature adult conversational manner. Thanks

Unlike gay people ...It's not unusual for bisexual people to keep their sexual identity to themselves. As a matter of fact, Kinsey Institute noted recently that less than 15% of bisexual people are "out". This is understandable. At least in MY experience, the gay community is certainly not very welcoming. I've been called a closet case multiple times over many years by gay men. It seems to really irritate many gays that some people CAN and DO make decisions about their sexual identity. It screws with their "born this way" narrative.

No. When I start a conversational thread, I don't need to "fit" anything. Its already my point I am making. What I am saying is that you have responded to at least five of my comments recently with statements that have nearly nothing to do with what I just said. Taking the conversation into a completely different direction of your own It's called "conversational hijacking" ..It doesn't matter if you speak 20 languages...it's still an annoying habit. Happy to discuss ..I don't need to agree ..but it would be nice if you first understood the point I made first before you respond to something I didn't say.

"May be" ? Um....bisexuality is more common than pure absolute homosexuality.

I was talking about bisexuality. Once again...you didn't read what I wrote before you responded.

I don't think anyone over 50 grew up understanding those concepts. In the 70's ...People married and raised families....if you didn't you were "queer". Nothing in the middle was ever discussed. I spent most of my childhood thinking I was unique in my complete dismissal of gender factoring in to who I found attractive. I announced on my first day of Kindergarten to my mother that I met a girl who I thought was cute and a boy who I thought was good looking. My mother explained ..."you can like the boy as a friend but you only like girls for their looks." So being a good kid...I got the message and figured out a strategy that worked for me...KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT and go along with the script until nobody is looking.😉

Meth-brain, usually ..

When you aren't that into someone you might have more fun with them if they are with someone else. Don't take it as an insult. There's no predicting what someone is into.

Pittsburgh is an under served market. This is super-five-star-plus+plus material for that sleepy town.

With an ass like that ...I would hope he's at least JacobVERS.

What "facts" ? We are discussing accusations . No FACTS have been presented.

That, my friend, may be YOUR opinion. But the rest of us aren't so gullible. Nobody had these women chained in a basement. The fact that some of them regret their decisions is on them. Plenty of other women enjoyed the mansion and the people they met ( fucked ) there.

Italian Americans nearly always name children after their elders ..so yes .the same names get recycled over and over. My in-laws are Italian and there are multiple Anthony's because grandpa was Anthony. Somehow they all seem to know WHICH Anthony we are talking about in-spite of the fact there are six of them....Always baffles me, as the outsider.

"Forced".... Amazing the number of women at the mansion who were shackled in the dungeon and "forced" to perform sex acts and nobody seems to have spoken up until Hef was long dead.

Sad to hear this young man felt the need to change his appearances to appeal to a bunch of horny gay men. I would see him regularly when he was working at the Spa near Grand Central. His natural good looks and masculinity were all part of what was attractive about a session with him. His massage skills were on point. So many good things to say about him ....it's sad he felt he wasn't enough for some people.

No surprise there . 😆 Tangents do seem to be your conversational norm.

Looks like the sort of rough trade that used to hang around 42nd Street in the 70s.

I've identified as bisexual since the 8Os. But .. the minute I started hooking up with men on a regular basis I was called "gay". ( Even after I married and had kids ). Didn't matter ...once I penetrated a dude...I must be a homosexual. People are very binary in their thinking. They cant wrap their brains around a middle ground like bisexuality I believe nothing has changed in this "new" pansexual behavior. Only the acknowledgement that it exists.

He's at a motel in Maspeth.... Strange choice of location.

Professionally E-mail is still the preferred form of communication for my business. As mentioned above it's efficent in the way you can store, sort and search for messages. I try to engage clients through email for most agreements so there is no He said/ She said moments where someone remembers something that was agreed to differently. In my office all business transactions are email while text is used for quick check-ins, questions and short discussions

Obviously. Not sure why I needed this explanation.

In my experiences, bisexual doesn't make you any LESS attracted to men, but you are additionally attracted to women. "Str8" providers, however run the gambit from closet cases to out-n-out con artists who use the straight-boy fantasy to get you to offer extra cash for extras that are never gonna happen...because they did explain to you that they are straight.