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I watched two episodes and couldn't stomach any more. Dated and contrived and begging this question: Is every gay man in NYC supposed to be a cliché mincing queen ? ( With the exception of Tuc Watkins ). Curious what the gays think... Is this stuff comforting and familiar or the gay version of black-face ?

Strange definition of "well off" when your staff needs a tip jar. I always tip the help myself at the end of the evening. I may not even be as wealthy as your friend.

Delicious to disgusting. Sad how some people get obsessed with body art as if this will do anything to improve your looks. It doesn't.

I'm assuming this is a rhetorical question, considering it's in such bad taste it begs the question WHO are you hanging around that's this tacky ?

More and more ..I am noticing that various apps don't work on Firefox. Google is trying to corner the market so that nothing works without them. Which means an eventual plot to make you PAY for these services that you've enjoyed for free all these years

Was visiting yesterday to help a friend move. Spoke to him briefly. Seems a pleasant fellow. Booking a massage for tomorrow.

10 minutes ..but THAT depends on whether you've met a playmate on the way through the meat-rack. 😉 and stopped for some quick sandy sex.

Yes. For now. But not for long.

Also on RENT.MEN https://rent.men/TopFreak_malik/ Nice looking guy.

"Usually very hot"....except when he's not in the mood, I suppose.

I learned my lesson in Europe many years ago when I tipped the front desk at a small hotel in Barcelona for unlocking the door to the hotel when I got back in after a late night of partying. He threw the coins on the floor back in my direction. Apparently such token gestures are offensive in certain places.

Doms for hire are generally understanding about newbies and their limits. I'm sure an aversion to actual bondage doesn't preclude a dungeon from welcoming your cash

Lonliness can be incredibly painful and confusing for some. Sadly most Americans have an aversion to psychological help when they need it most. Alcohol, drugs and "hired company," are not unusual first choices to try and cover the pain.

A simple google search brought up this resource for BDSM enthusiasts in Southern California: https://www.socabondage.com/community-resources.html

There must be some listings for BDSM masters who have a fully equipped dungeon in LA who might have this in their toy kit

"Normal" ? What's "normal" to you ? I'm sure there are plenty of people who share YOUR own level of normalcy in the matter. If you enjoy your career as a professional escort then date an escort. Then your ideas of normal will match. Alternatively if you enjoy the company of older men... switch your priority to finding an equally lonely older man with money and offer him a committed relationship in exchange for taking care of you. Relationships don't need to be two people of the same age to be "normal". You simply need two people who care about each other to cure lonliness.

I remember when Abe Vigoda used to die in the news but wasnt actually dead for years

Are you disappointed by the massage or the erotic part, or both ?

Back in NYC. $200 for an hour of excellent deep tissue work. Highly recommended for his massage skills

I did not

Certain fetish play such as "race play" can actually help heal emotional wounds by facing your fear in the context of an exciting sexual encounter. Fear intensifies orgasm and by regularly mixing sex with fear, the negative eventually gets associated with the positive. Anyone who is skilled in BDSM is adept at using a person's fear to deliver a rewarding experience.

Thank you for sharing. And might I say...a beautiful example of self awareness. A person's sexuality can often be a separate place to escape to where we explore feelings that we don't encounter in our daily lives.

I was reading the caption at the start of this conversation. Which says "Pornstar Performer ". azdr0710 filled me in about the general nature of that text

Interesting how gay men take ownership of everything that isn't heterosexual. "Queer" ?? Animals are sexual. People are sexual Society alone breaks a line between homosexual and heterosexual and society hates when you blur that line. #Little boxes