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Why bother "working" for it when you can snap a few pix and make thousands by just giving people a peek at the goods.

Tony Danza was one of my early homo-erotic fantasies. Something definitely sexy about him during his "TAXI" TV show days.

Absolutely. If I'm in the mood to "leave happy", I ask if they do "erotic" massage. Sensual is always very vague. ( not that the term erotic is much more specific )..but its harder to pretend about expectations

There are providers who are very good looking but uncomfortable engaging in sexual activity with randoms...so they inhabit a market niche somewhere in the middle of massage and escorting when you ( the client ) pay for their handsome company and they ( the provider ) get away with doing as little as possible

No one likes being forced into something they don't want to do....but I'd say there were plenty of more horrible things I've experienced in my life. I also had the common sense to confront the person who roofied me shortly afterwards and got my revenge by publicly exposing him. So it was over and done with no emotional scars.

I think it does give me insight to how people do ( or don't ) process sexual abuse For example I never said they were "horrible". You made that assumption because you jumped to a conclusion about the circumstances .

It's all self medicating. People drink to get away from bad feelings. People eat because it makes them happier. People smoke because it calms them down. People do drugs to make the world go away. Anxiety and depression are extremely common and rarely identified and treated.

I've been sexually assaulted twice as a young man. So pretty familiar with the difference between actual sexual assault and next day regret.

Which is why I did neither.

Your obvious ignorance about the history and culture of the Playboy Mansion doesn't change the reality of the situation. Sympathetic feelings toward scammers and liars makes you look naive. I suggest you learn a bit more about the issue before you start commenting

Interesting theory ...and why were the Asian guys at the Web turned off by that when everyone else was chasing after it ? I always assumed it was a hustler bar.

Precisely.

I had little experience with gay culture at that point. Being a young blond ex-wrestler I was accustomed to having my pick of the litter. I was completely invisible there. Way to young to have the fat wallet these cute Asian boys were after. 😉

Jeezus ...his backside is a piece of art.

There is never any "misunderstanding" about sex at the Playboy Mansion. No one has ever walked through those gates shocked to discover that sex with rich and famous people was part of the invitation. That is what is SO disingenuous about claiming sexual impropriety. You're there to have sex. So don't act shocked when it happens.

Exactly. "Intimate". When you're hiring a sex worker you're getting sex, not a boyfriend. You need to be hiring escorts who specifically offer a "boyfriend experience".

Everyone was taking Quaaludes in the 80s. Hardly shocking.

Yes and no. That is the interesting thing about humans. The majority will always agree about physical beauty. But yes...there's an exception to every rule.

I will pass. Not my scene. Would rather die quietly at home while watching Netflix than grinding up against a bunch of meth addicts in pink leather thongs.

Absolutely true. Just sayin. He's cute...but not $ 400 cute. I'm sure there's a sucker out there who finds him to be the most beautiful man on the planet and $ 400 is a bargain. While he waits for that guy...he's flipping burgers at Five Guys for minimum wage....doesn't make good economic sense.

Exactly. This constant whining that women do about next morning regret being the same as rape is beyond ridiculous and juvenile in it's emotional turmoil. Grown ups leave when they don't like the room they're in.

Dan Stevens is good in everything he does.

From what I read about these cruises they always have to cart away a few dead bodies from drug overdoses...so what's a few extra Covid deaths in the name of fun 🙄 ?

Although I agree with the above statement I would also like to point out that there is a flip side to this idea of stereotyping. In my experience as a young man in an all white community ...the girls I grew up with were uptight about sex but down in Philadelphia the black girls were far more approachable and fun in bed. As I became active with men I found the same to be true. Rather than fetishizing black men I just assume they are going to be better in bed. I think with all sexuality it's about what your mind attached to in your formative years...and you can't really grow out of that much once you're set. I never had a problem stepping out side the box when I was growing up....so I developed a more sex positive outlook and wasn't beholden to negative stereotypes. Too many people grow up in a very narrow world view and they never let go of that.

I remember going there when I was young. Not one Asian guy gave me a second glance...( At a time when I was accustomed to nearly everyone looking... ) Only the older daddies were getting the attention. Quite a culture shock for me. I had no idea how all that worked. Was so much the opposite of what I understood at that time.