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As a newbie you're excused. But in the future a bit of discretion is appreciated on the site. Masseurs are paid for massage and anything else that transpired should be mentioned in private conversation to protect the practicioner from crossing legal boundaries. This is part of the reason site rules include "no reviews" here on the discussion board.

When I was in High School, I was a wrestler and played Soccer. Only slept with girls but had same-sex fantasies about a couple of the more sculpted guys on my wrestling team. We had gang showers back in those days, and there was no modesty in the locker room...so you always got a full view of everyone naked. Had a couple of friends in my social group who I could tell were gay ( but nobody really discussed that openly ). ZERO interest in them. ( too effeminate ) Never approached any of my team mates, assuming that I was the only weirdo ( bisexual )...& didn't even know that was a thing outside of my own reality. Plus would have probably gotten gay-bashed for trying...so kept my same sex interests to myself and continued to fuck girls. To this day, that young sculpted athletic masculine male who I remember from High School and College is still attractive...(although I certainly don't chase after high school students today)....20 to 30 y.o. athletic and str8 acting does it for me best. No preferences about nationality/ skin color etc.

You guessed correctly. More escort than masseur.

His husband popped up on Rent.men at the same time...so pretty confident this is not a fake profile. He's been on and off Rent.men for years.

Good find. He's a cutie.

Well....Brazilian muscle gays have always been hustlers. That's nothing new. Either that or the extra hot ones get their needs met by being sugar babies to wealthy NY businessmen.

Yes. Similar problem. Very slow to return messages, making it impossible to nail down a date/time with him.

Harrisburg's gay presence is due to the VERY redneck nature of rural Pennsylvania surrounding the city. I would caution anyone thinking of cruising the streets of Harrisburg. Gay bashing is still a thing in the state.

Didn't get to meet Pedro because he's a flake. Tried booking him twice / failed twice. I might also mention the fact he is using the same photos from when I tried to meet up four years ago might make one hesitant to hire.

You are shopping for jock-type in the middle of fat potato land. Best to search around Philly and get transportation.

I only have ( some ) experience with Pedro who's been around for a while...and is always difficult to schedule....so personally I would call him a pass

Well...Barry Diller and Diane vonFurstenburg would be one example.

What a sad transformation. Pre-steroid "Stu" was a beauty.

"He has a fetish, not a type." I wasn't clear on your need to differentiate the two, so I thought maybe you considered one bad and one good ?

Correct. If memory serves, Abercrombie got around the fair labor laws by hiring them as models.

Ok..fair enough. Then I don't understand his criticism of studchaser and his questions about his penchant for straight men being a "fetish" , not a fantasy as if either are a problem.

And you are offended by people with sexual fetishes ?

I don't think the color of the cashier was the focus of Abercrombie. It was a lifestyle store. A lifestyle that blacks were never part of. They also didn't have old people or fat people working there. Those also didn't fit their brand. Same way a seafood restaurant probably doesnt sell burgers.

So is all preference inherently racist now ?

I do miss Bozo. If not for his politics - his sense of humor.

Over your head again.

A smile and a nod is an adequate and appropriate response to bumping into a SW in public. Nothing more.

Any massage professional who is hired for massage is paid for massage. So if you are always connecting on the sexual front and you wish to focus on that more...you aren't breaking any rules by asking...but the answer may likely be the rate is not the same and it should not be....so be prepared to pay it or lose your regular guy

I don't believe I did. I think you are looking for clarity in a a realm where fantasy and reality blend.

I don't doubt that to be true. But they are merely listening and don't know you or care about you enough to guide you through the sense of loss that comes with a break up.