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Apparently his husband is still running a porn business (without underage content we can assume).

Derrick Dixon is hot. I can see the road to thirsty behavior.

Great ass. 🍑 I'd definitely go for it...but he seems to be gone already.

I am not debating you. Let it go. You have no reason to be here if you arent into race play and cant share any experiences.

Back when I was a young pup, I used to participate in a "frottage" group, as an alternative for people who were afraid of catching HIV. Physical sexual activity that was about as low risk as you're gonna get, by avoiding actual penetration. That said...over the years ive been pretty sexually active and attended dozens of sex parties (safe sex) and am fortunate to say I have never had an STI. (Although I DO test positive for hepatitis B without ever having had a reaction).

No I dont. You are interfering with a conversation about race play and trying to apply social justice ideologies that ignore the very core principles of race play. Stop being a Karen and move on. You keep taking the conversation off the subject to attack me personally. If you find race play morally repugnant, than this conversation is not for you.

The subject is "race play". Did you not understand what race play is ? 🤔

sub/DOM fetish is "race play" when you wrap stereotypes into the encounter for emotional pain and suffering. Think of it like riding a roller coaster. The more frightened you are...the more intense the fun. Yes, a black man "using you" COULD be orchestrated in such a way. The stereotype of black men being sexually aggressive and dangerous is a common theme in race play. Particularly when combined with cuckholding. A white couple encounters a muscular/masculine black man. He attacks the husband - restrains him and forces himnto watch while he has his way with the white woman. This was a popular theme at the swinger clubs when I was younger. In your case, he attacks you, holds you down and uses your body to pleasure himself while denying you any. Punishes you for having a hard-on and humiliated you for being gay. (Claiming that he is not).

OK Karen. Feel better now ? 🤣🤣🤣 Back to the subject. Blacks and Asians sometimes like to face their inferiority by having sex with a superior white person. It simultaneously makes them confront their shame and excites their senses to know a good looking white person had an orgasm in their company. That momentary reward makes them question their inferior status and makes them feel valuable. It's a fetish that isnt for everyone and it makes a lot of emotionally triggered white people uncomfortable in confronting these harsh realities.

NYC PRIDE is far from a "white" event. As a matter of fact, white people are the minority. I'm sure predominantly white communities have predominantly white Pride marches

Does anyone know if hes still with his husband ?

Was I "disparaging" or was I sharing my observations ? Prove my observations wrong and then perhaps they are disparaging. But if they are factual..they are merely facts.

Well...fortunately I married at 35 so I am not IN the dating pool. I get a lot of younger Asian women and Latino guys hitting on me all the time...so I could probably be pretty busy if I were single.

? I am referring to my younger years when I identified as gay...I hire now because I'm busy and I'm over 50. I don't recall ever hiring an Asian. Prefer the Mediterranean bloodlines. (Italian, Spanish, Greek, Middle Eastern, Israeli, or Black)

Ive dated a few black women. One who is still a close friend. Never had a drop of desire to date any of the Asian men who I fucked. But they all chased after me. Black women like to be in control...so I can see how that might not be compatible for a lot of men. Asian men like the white guy to be in control...which is fun in bed. But who wants to adopt a child in place of a boyfriend ?

Correct. Its called six degrees of separation. All gay people know each other or somebody who knows somebody who knows somebody who does. Anyway. Every Asian guy Ive ever fucked (even for five minutes at a sex club) idolized me, like he was just touched by God. That isnt coincidence. Every Asian guy who I offered to fuck a second time, wanted me to abuse him, humiliate him, overpowere him or piss on him. Again...too much for mere coincidence.

Never said they were "trained" to think so...but they just do.

I'm not quoting data from the internet. I am quoting observation from hanging around gay men for 30 years.

Well....they are both always on the bottom shelf of the dating pool with gay men. So they do share that in common.

You need to get out of the house more...

Both Asian and African-American Both groups suffer from varying degrees of being told they are inferior to white men. So both have a powerful connection to a situation where a white man objectifies them and uses them for sex.

For those of us in Nuuk, Greenland. (His current location).

Interesting. I was getting serious top-daddy vibes from the photos. Hes a sexy man. Hope you came twice. 😉

Thank you. (My kids give me enough drama). 🤣

In my experience in the world of kink..this is NOT terribly "niche" at all. Being a dominant top myself, I am approached by submissive fem-boys all the time on my Grindr account. It may not be the most common interest amongst all gay men..but it certainly isn't an unusual fetish within the community of kink players. All providers are accustomed to inquiry about interests. So I would advise that it NEVER hurts to ask. Some will be amenable and some may tell you no. But as they say: "There is a key for every hole out there somewhere." You just need to ask. I would start with providers who list multiple other fetish interests. Those gentlemen are the more likely to be open to your own personal requests even if its not on their own personal checklist of kinks.