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If he's having anal sex with a man, he is officially no longer "straight". I am married to a woman for 15 years and have two kids. Outwardly "straight-acting" and few people would guess I was anything but straight. However, my habit of fucking cute muscle bottom men, makes me NOT straight. Call it sexually fluid but it's not "straight".

That came later in the evening ...(in the meat rack ).

Degree of deniability is your friend.

I think they do. I remember being on Fire Island one summer and marveling how at certain times of the day it was like they rang a bell and all the gays headed in one direction. (I was always swimming upstream) trying to figure out if there was actually a bell or you just knew what to do if you were gay.

So acknowledging that my own culture was way out of touch with their sexuality and that i admired the more evolved sexuality of black men and women in Philly is "racist" ? Do you ever take a minute to hear the bullshit that comes out of yourself ? Maybe you spend to much time looking for racism and not enough time making sense.

I would be interested to hear an expanded description of that comment. Feel free to PM. I used to see him regularly, but he had a fairly strong line drawn in the sand about anything erotic beyond a happy ending. I didn't mind, but I also wouldn't mind crossing that line if it's been re-drawn.

coriolis888 You don't seem to understand discretion when discussing this matter. With the world of meta-data I highly recommend that people NOT publish documented evidence of illegal activity.

OMG .. really ? is he blind ? ! 🙄

Personally, I don't. But that is a conversation probably best reserved for the re-opening of the political forum. Without getting political, I think this movement toward more and more labels only serve to separate us further, not keep us together as a community.

When I first read the headline...I thought "well who doesn't embellish their resumé ? Then I read the article and realized this was quite a bit more than that !! ...Just like the line in the sand you are looking for...it's something we always navigate with masseur/escort ads. Everyone wants to make the best impression but the frequent use of photo filters makes the advertising all the more deceptive. Claims of "highly educated" + "speaks six languages" and age shaving by ten years ( or more ) are becoming all the more common as everyone competes with someone else's exaggerations.

An interesting statement ... My experiences in trying to hook up in FTL was always that. Bars full of guys who looked like street-trash meth addicts. I always wondered where so many came from. Even the hotel where I stayed had a cocktail lounge full of skinny twinks with their older male companions.

I have no problem leaving payment on the table when we meet. I always refuse to send deposits before the actual meet up. Sorry you got a creep. Was he displeased with the service ? Where did he come from ? Providers should have a forum to warn others about psycho customers .

It's nice to finally feel represented. For the past few decades everything dealing with alternative lifestyle has been about gay.and lesbian characters. Virtually no representation for people who's sexuality is gender-blind.

It's interesting that I agree with your entire list and then you hit Absolutely Fabulous and you go off the rails for me. I find Saunders and Lumley hysterical ..but then I used work around fashion people so they are also very familiar.

Gabriel is the guy you date. Alfie is the guy you let cum in your mouth and fuck you up the ass bareback. Lucien Laviscount is so sexy...definitely more my type.

Not really following you In my last comment I said I was interested in the sexual dynamics of power. Using superior economic situation to get a straight guy to submit to your desires. What does that have to do with love ? 🤔

I do not...But then the people I hire probably have a larger degree of choice in their decisions and less desperation than the person you described. My inquiry was about the psychological nature of the turn-on. Wanted to know if it was more about easy access to someone with good looks or more of a power trip, where your money was getting someone to be an unwilling sex slave. Sexual power dynamics interest me because the first time I ever had sex with a man, I was handcuffed and manipulated into performing oral on a State Trooper. Thanks for your reply.

Always fascinating when someone advertises as a DOM TOP yet for the right price will go total sub-pussy-boy. Big turn on.

Legitimate question : Was it a turn-on to know that you were taking advantage of their lack of self esteem and desperation ?

The two are very similar in looks....so hard to tell which is which even when they do post pix of both.

The general consensus is that "sensual" is nudity and maybe a happy ending. "Erotic" is teasing, edging and most likely a happy ending. But nothing is written in stone and all is open for interpretation.

I know that prostitution is illegal in the United States, and I know it's therefore only legal to pay for TIME. What happens between two consenting adults while otherwise contracted for time spent is a private matter and not under any contract of exchange of money for sex.

Am I the only person who thinks Patricia Fields has lost her mind ? I used to work in ( and around) the fashion industry in the 90s. So the first seasons were exciting for me to see, with Pat's usual wild, daring in costume design. Unfortunately this season was one train-wreck after the other. I found it distracting that people who supposedly worked at a high end style company looked like Circus clowns most of the time. I had a hard time letting my mind believe this was real life because of that. I DO still however want "Alfie" to fuck me. 😉

No. This is the difference between a masseur and an escort. A masseur may bring you to orgasm but you should NOT assume erotic means sex. Not saying there aren't exceptions and that escorts don't advertise as masseurs ..I am saying by NO means should you take for granted that sexual services are offered when they check "Erotic" in their profile.

In Central PA people kept their own chickens for eggs. I remember when they started the sanitation laws that made this illegal unless you were a licensed farm. People thought this was an affront to their culture. Maybe they were right to protest. My grandparents chickens were certainly cared for far better than any factory farm.