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I've met a few FTM people on Grindr. I agree, there's something very sexy about being with a handsome guy who you can fuck from the front in a nice warm wet pussy instead of going up the back door. The kink factor is an added turn on for me...maybe sad for the FTM about being the subject of a fetish, but such is their life they choose.

Even if you had Grindr, I don't believe there's a way to search from someone. Or am I wrong ? It's not like the old meet-up sites where you had a proper profile. You sort of need to just bump into people on Grindr. If you find them that way you can "favorite" them, but if you don't there is no other way to track them down.

Brilliantly put. ⭐ Thanks for sharing that.

@fiachraharp on Instagram. Very handsome Irish musician. Very talented in more than one way.

That happened to me once at a bathhouse years ago. I came across this adorable kid with silky smooth skin and an ass that wouldn't quit. A bit smaller than me, I tossed him around the room, pig-fucking him like an animal until he looked up at me and said " I love you ". Lost my hard-on immediately. It was just too sad.

He's a sweetheart. Glad he's doing well.

I was a wrestler in High School. I wanted to fuck most of the guys on the team. But in my mind - sporty guys aren't gay...so.i never dreamed of making a move on one of them. Many years later one of my team mates came out of the closet and declared himself "gay" after being married to a woman for decades and raising two kids. I asked him how long he felt he was gay...He answered "since high school". I questioned that response saying I would have never guessed ! He said "oh yeah, I hooked up with a lot of guys in high school". Again I found this surprising and asked "with who"? He answered me and said he'd sucked off half the boys on the wrestling team !!! 😱

The young people I know don't seem to claim to have "reinvented" anything but they do always seem opposed to strict gay/straight labels. Even when I say I'm bisexual they will counter with "but what does that mean" ? My understanding is that "picking a team" to have a relationship is very last century. The "poly" concept for many young people is about keeping their possibilities open at all times and never settling down. Let's see how that looks when they're 40. I do enjoy the more open minded attitude about liking the person, not the parts. I was always wired that way, but had absolutely no role models for how to manage that socially. I wandered around in the dark until I figured things out. These kids are all rather supportive of the "you do you" concept and don't judge any combination of sexual adventures.

For only $ 1,700. you could invest in an Alam Wernick blow up doll. Or for those on a budget you can buy just a rubber version of his asshole or dick....

"emotional connection" is not a menu item. It requires frequent research and trial and error experiments.

Wise decision . Just wasn't working .

No.

Make friends with a provider and that might happen. You're not going to get instant gratification on every hire. Keep trying.

I've had some great times with providers even though penetration was not in the mix.

How awful. So many young men dying of sudden heart attacks lately !

Because it was . The only way to your goal of an emotional connection is to work toward an emotional connection with someone. That means meeting up with someone more than once, tipping generously and forming a comfortable relationship that isn't just - *I pay you cash / you suck my dick*

Three years is indeed a short experiment. It will be interesting to see if anyone benefits from removing the fear of prosecution for their drug habit and reaches out for help.

Wrap him up. I'll take this one 💗

I've been to Spas in Thailand (that double as brothels) that let you meet all their staff before you choose your "masseur". I have to say it is very nice to have choices but part of me felt gross as I had obviously rejected so many cute young guys who smiled at me in hopes that I might be their next customer. Not so sure I would do that again, although they are probably numb to any feelings of humiliation after a few days of this custom.

My incident occurred years ago. All my friends have been robbed, some violently in Rio and all prior to 2010. I don't know anyone who goes to Rio anymore. It's just too dangerous no matter how savvy you are. I navigated NYC in the late 80s crack epidemic better.

I think everyone would do better with an escort if they would lower their expectations and go with the flow. If you enjoyed the overall experience and the company of your provider, you can write your ideal script on a second meet.

Thank you. Keep in mind, many masseurs who offer "erotic" services on Rentmen are still offering their services as a MASSEUR, not a sex worker. So anything that transpired between two consenting adults outside of the massage was their private business, and not part of the services rendered.

No "erotic" massage. Pity. He's pretty do-able.

Most everyone I know who's been to Rio, has a story like that. I used to think it was just them being careless or flashing expensive jewelry but when I was attacked, it became clear, that merely being American was justification to be robbed. I am well traveled and know better than to dress up and wear jewelry, watches and my wife only carries a cheap little bag. In spite of that we were targeted anyway. Brazen daylight robbery in a high end neighborhood. It's little wonder every building in Rio has gigantic THICK iron bars over their windows and doors ! I was most disappointed in that everyone in the neighborhood ducked inside when they heard the gun, and not a single person came over to help pick up my wife from the pavement after the little favela boys sped off on their bikes. I thought that was actually the most bizarre issue with the event. No one offered to help even after the culprits were gone.

You would think that was the case...but we were walking in broad daylight in Leblon..not far from all the luxury boutiques. The kid shot his gun in the air with reckless abandon and everyone just ran into the surrounding buildings and closed the door as if this was a familiar routine.