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I know a few older guys in NYC who are gay. They often recant stories of multiple bars here in the City where 50% of the place was eager young escorts and the other half admirers. Seems to me that in-person interaction was far more efficient than today's headless torsos. (Unless of course you're a size queen..and you need to SEE the goods up front) 😂

There was a party promoter in NYC who had a strict door policy of under 40 y.o. muscle guys only. The room was packed with gorgeous guys. I can't image how you could possibly hold-off from cumming ! Never occurred to me that some guys only have one load ! I just assumed ( back then) that they had a problem trying to ejaculate. What a curse to have to hold it in. I suppose with providers, they are far less turned on and the problem is more frequently getting hard / not cumming too fast.

Thanks ! I must have made a mistake on the spelling when I first did a search. Now I see the conversations.

Of course I did that first . Didn't turn up anything . Maybe there's a variation he was using previously?

Ok...so WHO has his phone number ?

Yes. Every last one. Are you always pompous and condescending or only when you drink ?

I'm guessing the dude probably IS actually mostly straight. Always a bad sign when sexual partner needs porn to get hard.

Anyone have experience with JacobTop ? https://rent.men/JacobTop/#platinum Currently in LA - Coming to NYC Jan 23 to Feb 1 Beautiful guy...but $ 400 an hour is pricey for a blind date.

I remember when lunch was $3.59 and gas was $2.00 a gallon.

Yup. I'm hypoglycemic. I basically do Keto most of the week to keep my book sugar regulated. I do vegetarian once a week as a "cleanse". I wouldn't last a month on a vegan diet.

That easy. Instagram influencers are all con artists. You want to lose weight ? Consult a professional nutritionist.

He quoted me $300. Apparently I got the "hot daddy" discount. He's working on a floating scale.

I never quoted Freud. You can stick to your antiquated scientific studies from the 80s. The fact of the matter is that current psychological theory embraces the idea of human sexuality as far more fluid than your charts from my childhood are showing. More importantly young people in their 20s are PRACTICING sexual fluidity and tossing out the labels. Nobody identifies as just "gay" anymore. It's all about bi / poly / and fluid. Where's your chart from 2022 ?

I started the thread, genius.

Totally agree

He's very pretty. Sounds high maintenance. Like all the pretty girls 😂

Santa Monica Blvd. In LA used to have as many boys for hire hanging out in the street as there are on three cities worth of guys on Rent.men. Sex work has always been an easy buck when you're young and pretty. You make more in an hour than the suckers on minimum wage make working 8 hours.

Pity. Because I would totally fuck the real guy.

Although I agree with the rest of your statement...I think you're jumping to conclusions here. I am 51, soon to be 52 and I can still cum at least three times a day. In my younger years, I would attend orgies where seven times in a row was my max. So I'm sure there are plenty of providers who can manage more than one load a day. As for the rest, yes. Don't ever directly discuss sex in exchange for money.

I understand that Japanese people who eat a diet rich in seafood, vegetables and fruit, typically lead long, healthy lives.

I hire people for a massage and if I like them and want "another massage"....I use that opportunity after the first session to discuss shared sexual interests. Be sure to tip generously even if it was just a massage. In case you want some extra attention on a second meet. If you're only available for one session then it's tricky navigating the absolute legality of the situation

It's never a good idea to document a conversation that sounds like you are paying someone for sex. You can discuss your sexual interests and preferences with an escort but you can't specifically hire someone to do that. Legally you hire an escort for time spent with you...so technically the escort's interest in a sexual connection is at their discretion. I know this pisses off people here in the forum who poo-poo the obvious obfuscation of the arrangement but everyone really should be aware of the risk for both parties about sex-for-money conversations. Especially when they're documented and can be used as evidence against you and your provider.

You've made your antiquated point over and over and over. I get that you are disgusted by heteronormality. The thread isn't about you. Let's hear from some more sexually fluid people in the forum. That is the more current and interesting subject that we are discussing.

Yup. It's pretty horrifying. I'm guessing her mental state is deteriorating and she can't understanding what she's doing anymore. Like I said a museum exhibit would be a more respectful way to pay respect to her career than trotting out this sad old horse for a last roundabout in public.

No. It's not. I am saying that is ONE factor in how people end up choosing their sexuality. I do believe it influenced me to a degree. Although I don't recall being particularly disturbed about being called "gay" in my 20's I think I find more comfort in blending in publicly while remaining sexually fluid in private