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When @RubMyThighs shared his encounter . .it was the stereotypical all show/ no substance personality of many Iranian-Americans. So didnt surprise me.

The consensus seems to be that cuteblondboy does his best to provide entertaining companionship to his clients...and THAT is the most important quality for a provider of sexual services. You will never get anyone to agree on looks....so stop trying to insist. When I find someone attractive . .thats how I tend to phrase it. Its my PERSONAL observation / not a universal truth. I agree with @Jostar. He's maybe a 4 to me. But I'm not hiring him to suck MY dick... @PhileasFogg is paying to suck HIS own... And as long as we stick to the merit of this young fellow's personality and ability to suck a good dick, you have no argument from me. I remember in High School there were two fat, unattractive girls who were sisters. Nobody wanted to fuck them, but they both had great personalities and we always invited them to parties because they were a lot of fun. Today they are both married. so eventually they found someone who either likes fat women or just doesnt care and valued their personality over their looks.

Making sure the stereotypes all fit.

The only time I didnt get upset about a bait-n-switch is when the person who opened the door was actually better looking than the photo he had posted (of someone else who looked similar).

Its a pity. The fellow who's photos he's using is quite sexy. I would be very disappointed if someone played bait-n-switch with me.

Did he provide you with REAL photos before you hired him, or you just don't care what people look like ?

What am I missing ? Pear shaped twunk with brown hair ( again ) . RED hair on his RM account. This whole subject has me scratching my head over the commentary by @TJMSand @PhileasFogg about what a "beauty" this (fake) blonde is. 🤔 He may be a VERY nice young man...but sorry. When I am PAYING for sex, I am paying for someone who beats the average in the looks department. Beauty is CLEARLY in the eye of the beholder on this one !

The fact that people agree with one another doesn't make them the same person. I simply agree with @Peter Eater that the "beauty" comment was a bit laughable. Peter and I are not the same person. Just both amused by the enthusiasm over someone so "meh".

No..that's just me being very American and speaking in absolutes. 😄 I didn't mean an ACTUAL 99%. I am deliberately exaggerating to make a point. But thank you for pointing out that there is a larger and larger group of countries who are becoming more progressive toward the profession. The below map shows that "MOST" of the countries where it's entirely LEGAL are not in Europe but in South America. Looking at this map it appears that in terms of area, the prohibition is about 70% although much of that is sparsely populated, so probably more of a 50/50 split.

"Good face, good hands, good instincts." ... I am guessing that erotic massage is the primary business entry point here. Then beyond that it's YRMV

Handsome and fit. No takers ? Do I need to be the guinea-pig ? Totally my type.

What is the controvery ? Not his photos ?

Was he also "30" ten years ago ?

Looks like Central casting for middle-aged-suburban-dad. The "30 years old" stat is comical.

Umm...no. Finding someone to be "hot" is ALWAYS a matter of OPINION. THIS particular fellow is a grand example of that FACT. While YOU are head-over-heels in love with this guy, there are others in the crowd here completely mystified by the "he's hot" statement, including me. You couldn't PAY me to fuck this kid. Now THAT doesnt make him UNattractive...it just highlights the idea of physical attraction as being completely subjective OPINION and never "fact." One man's "yum" is another man's "yuck".

Thanks. Thats an interesting perspective. Makes me think about Jacob Elordi who went through a chubby phase as a teen. Not attractive at all. You'd have never guessed he would grow up to be a heart-throb.

You'll never get everyone to agree on looks. One man's "yum" is another man's "yuck". I don't think fitness makes someone more "handsome"...but it definitley makes them more fuckable.

Not a "probably". There is DEFINITELY risk involved outside your very fortunate situation. Escorting is common all over the globe and illegal all over the globe. Discretion is key in 99% of markets.

No need to apologize. Just saying that its not "surprising". Everyone has different tastes in men.

Agreed. It would be more efficient @CheckCar if you would at minimum define what sort of provider you enjoy. There are many many listings of men who include body-to-body in their repertoire.

@Jamie21 Your comfort in your own environment of legal prostitution in your country, is giving you a false perception of how dangerous it is for your fellow providers in countries where the laws are selectively enforced. YES, people get away with it daily. BUT the risk is far more than a myth. THIS is very much WHY so many providers of sexual services advertise as masseurs rather than simply openly advertising as escorts.

Not even negligible. Multiple foreign providers have been banned from the US because of their open communications about sex4sale.

Not everyone here has a daddy/bear fetish.

Not exactly the epicenter of gay escort activity. I am assuming, that while living in his parent's basement he has more money to travel.

Miami is full of hot providers.