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Saw her recently in person. That photo doesn't look like her. Although she has done some good plastic surgery so yeah she looks late 60s not 80s.

That statistic alone would demonstrate a higher ratio of homosexual molestation. If 75% are heterosexual and 25% are homosexual, and only 10% of the population is homosexual...That would mean gay men are significantly more likely to be a child molester. Where did you get that 75% statistic ?

Teenagers disappointed that they won't be jerking-off to THIS issue. Curious how much is photo-shop and how much is good plastic surgery. Personally if I were an 80 year old woman, I'd have gone for a less revealing swimsuit. Sagging old titties are a turn off.

I'm assuming the original post was targeting MENTAL HEALTH as the category for the health forum.

When I was in High School and College my gay friends thought I was just kool and open-minded because I would hang out with them. So, even the gays couldn't see my same sex attraction. So not so sure that's true. I think bisexuals have always had a better cover.

The public gallows was definitely being used as a deterrent more than a means to limit the prison population.

Today's weather: heavy rain and here's a pic of me in leather....

The subject of the thread is GAY in the 50s., not bisexual in the 50's.

The "gay" scene in Long Island is minimal compared to the bisexual community. There has always been a tremendous amount of married men who don't identify as gay but who DO like to get-off with guys. Therefore there always has to be a component of strong hetero-normative sexual visuals added for their degree of deniability about the possibility they might be gay. Book stores / video shops etc will be surrounded with straight porn while they suck dick. This is why many of these kinds of places are busier during the day. Most of these men need to get home to their wife and kids at night.

Again: I said NOTHING about comparative evidence to say that gays molest children more. Not did I "promote" a stereotype. I added information about WHERE the stereotype comes from. That's all. When discussing a subject of stereotypes, the analysis of origin may not be pretty. But yes...to be clear: this inappropriate behavior is separate from hetero or homo sexual identity. As a matter of fact, it's not unusual for heterosexual men to abuse boys. Making the predatory behavior something other than sexual attraction. The 1950s were a period of great social change after WWII where people were returning to a more puritanical behavioral model as a way to bind communities and shed "bad" players who didn't fit in. The evils of Nazism were viewed as a social virus that infected the German community. So anyone who was deemed an outsider was viewed as a potential threat. Especially considering most Americans in the 1950s were of German descent. Homosexuals were gaining visibility in the 1920s but had to go back into the closet by the 1950s. Any risk to the community (such as child molesting) was exaggerated as being part of homosexual behavior as a way to marginalize them. That's why the behavior became more associated with gays even though it's not necessarily any more common in gays than straights.

My understanding is that most families who identified homosexuality in their sons pushed them to join the priesthood as a way to sweep the issue under the carpet when they didn't marry and make grandchildren. But even there "relationships" are frowned upon so "mentoring" young boys ends up being a dirty secret place to get off. It's all very dysfunctional yet theres been no movement in the Vatican to call for change this weird custom.

Trading meth for sex is certainly "a thing" in parts of the US.

Interesting. The majority of people I grew up with are blond. Never noticed a difference. Anyways... I'm wandering off topic.

I think gay men and straight men have different agendas when it comes to pedophilia. Gay men (such as closeted Catholic priests) have access issues and turn to young horny boys who are just happy to get off. Straight men prey on little girls with shitty parents who don't provide a loving environment at home. I don't doubt the age issue is more easily swept under the carpet than the mix of homosexuality and pedophilia. I had a great-uncle who fooled around with a few of my male cousins. One day he offered to take me for a ride in his new convertible. I jumped in and my mother came storming out of the house screaming: "get OUT of that car NOW". When I look back; it was interesting that they all KNEW about him but hadn't ostracized him completely. Just kept an eye on his behavior. Uncle Jimmy was a product of the 1950s puritanical environment that forced people like him into the closet..and his needs were met in places he shouldn't have been looking .

I thought most of these kinds of places were all shut down during the AIDS epidemic. Interesting to know there's still one around Sounds like a giant ball of contagious diseases but would be interesting to wander around and watch.

"Boy next door vibe"? I don't think Tralier Parks are included in that meaning.

Baxter posts some interesting kink video clips on his Twitter from time to time @baxxxbox

I think the toxicity was more about certain people than the subject. Several regular hecklers seem to have disappeared along with the politics forum which has improved conversation across all topics.

I haven't come across it before but now that it's decriminalized and on its way to be legal in New York ..might as well add it to your menu.

Do you think blonds don't age well ?

I had a gay client who used to want to stop in there for a drink sometimes. ( Probably like 20 years ago ) I was surrounded immediately like wolves over a recent kill. Which I always found odd considering I was already WITH someone. I guess they were just hoping to be *next in line". 😉

Lots of pix of random body parts ...don't see the attraction here.

Absolutely. The death penalty should never be otherwise applied. Too many cases of jurors mistaking a good argument for overwhelming evidence.

Agreed. I feel the same. I was in Istanbul a few years back and was dying over the multitude of handsome Turkish men. Dying because I was traveling with my wife and kids ...so no opportunity to indulge. Wish I could find an excuse to get back there alone some time. Bucket list item.

Correct. How does that make MY comment "incorrect"? I never said anything about gays having a significantly higher inclination toward inappropriate relationships with underage youths.