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i know, but my regulars are away. And sometimes you just need BBC I agree with @BaronArtz there are better options in NYC for BBC

I have been caring for an elderly friend/former client for that last couple years. At 90 years old he was begging me to hire him an escort because he hadn't had sex for a few years since his heart attack and didnt want to die without having one last great shag!

Indoctrination of many kinds is annoying when they insist YOU are WRONG for not agreeing with them. Clearly none of that is good for business when you misjudge your audience. Personally, I dont have a problem with people having different ideological viewpoints from myself. I just shut down the conversation when it becomes about how WRONG I am and how right they are.

So he's both a sexual fantasy fuck AND a neighbor who you know and care about. BUT spending an extra $50 is unreasonable ??? 🤔 My bullshit-meter is going off the charts.

So weird. I have never had a single person who wasn't a very close friend (or a roommate) ask me this question. I find it shocking that anyone would be so invasive as to ask such a personal question of someone who they work with. At most people have asked " are you dating anyone"...(possibly digging around to see which way I swing). But even with THAT, I would give an evasive answer because I didnt even think THAT was everyone's business. It's not like I'm closeted. All my friends have known I swing both ways for years as does everyone in my family. (We are JUST getting into that discussion with my 18 year old kids.) I just think that unless youre VERY close to someone, these things are NONE OF THEIR BUSINESS

Most of the "jobs" I've had (I'm self employed for many years) were full of gay men. (I work in a creative field) so the assumption was always gay until proven otherwise. 😆

I know a few celebrities who lie about the actual details of their sex life. It's really NONE of anyone's business in the end...so WHY does someone feel obligated to confess to what they may not want people to know ?? 🤔 When I was single and someone asked if I had a girlfriend, I simply responded "NO..I'm too busy having random sex". I never told them that I was playing for both teams. Wasn't any of their business.. .and had I been a celebrity it would have been even LESS of their business.

I've found that Dentists, and Doctors always bill the insurance company far more than what they charge ME if I'm paying out-of-pocket. I'm self employed for many years now...so never pays for me to have an expensive health insurance policy with lots of coverage. They really dont end up paying for much when you need it. Cheaper to buy the cheapest insurance in case of being hospitalized and then pay the rest out of pocket.

Agreed. He's adorable. Thanks for sharing. Always nice to hear GOOD news about GOOD people. (And better news when they are also handsome ).

In his defense, not everyone who acts "really gay" is actually a homosexual. In this case, I guess they hit the nail on the head...but I've known many men over the years who *pinged* my gaydar but who chose to LIVE as a heterosexual man. As far as WHY someone like this feels obligated to share his lifestyle with the general public is beyond me. I miss the days when everyone (mostly) minded their own business and looked the other way. Why haven't we progressed as a society to the point where your sexuality is a NON issue ? WHY does everyone seem to be SO bent on sharing their pronouns and offering up admissions of taking it up the ass ?

More like Pharmaceutical Company advice if you're believing the CDC.

No one's kissing any rings. Just appealing to their core customers. Their investors thought they could take the company into a different demographic, but when you have more than 600 restaurants, you cant afford to piss off your existing customers while searching for new ones.

Looks like a young Arnold Schwarzenegger. Very Germanic in appearance. Both face and musculature.

He's "University Educated" ....which University teaches massage and dick sucking ? 🤔

They had a Pride page ? 🤔 Weren't they giving money to anti-gay groups in the recent past ? When did the company start trying to appeal to gays ?

Dental insurance is crap. Never covers anything substantial. I've spent over $10K on my teeth over the last 15 years.

YES. But I fucked my brains out with thousands of people over the past 30-some years...and never caught one STD. So...I would say mission accomplished.

Usually age and delicatness of facial features in men.

I assume everyone is HIV positive and act accordingly.

When you're DATING someone and you KNOW a person's status, you can determine risk based on these ideas. When you're fucking ( or getting fucked ) by a random escort who you DON'T KNOW. You need to throw away the whole concept of them being "untransmittable" and do your best to make sure that YOU are protected from the chance that they ARE TRANSMITTING hiv to your bloodstream. I would NEVER just assume someone is telling me the truth about their status. This is why I personally ( I know I'm old fashioned ) STILL use condoms for anal sex...and probably why I haven't bottomed in years and years.

No. It doesnt mean "anything goes". It means they are open to discussion about what works for YOU. You want a condom ? No problem. You are a bottom who wants to get bareback ? No problem You are a top who wants to dump a mystery load up his ass ? Thats gonna COST ya !

A refreshing change from the many people out there today, who LIVE to be offended by everything they don't agree with. Variety is the spice of life.

The risks are based on your own stats. If youre on PreP, youre risks are lower than if not. If youre a bottom, your risks are higher than if youre a top. Consult a doctor, not a forum full of gay men who take a LOT of risks to get laid.

As stated above ....NYC is a very competitive market. I would suggest you spend more time editing your profile. Its a little vague and a little less than enticing. You're a handsome man. You need to find the WORDS that bring the men to your door. Be a little more specific about your talents.

Well...shaving pubic hair is disgusting and people should stop doing it. Glad you are enjoying the pleasures of body-to-body gliding.