novaman

Many years ago a guy wearing an earing would turn heads, now no one cares.     

I never said he wasn't stupid for opening himself up to being exposed.    I do believe in a certain amount of discretion and respect should be used by both the client and provider.   

I never said he wasn't stupid for opening himself up to being exposed.    I do believe in a certain amount of discretion and respect should be used by both the client and provider.   

Well I completely understand his reaction to what you did.   You weren't helping his business at all.   Anyone that wanted to contact him could through Rentmen.    He never posted anything on his IG page about being available for what you're interested in.   Creeper in you're profile name is very appropriate for you.   Don't try and justify your actions.  What you did was wrong and deep down I think you know that.

Well I completely understand his reaction to what you did.   You weren't helping his business at all.   Anyone that wanted to contact him could through Rentmen.    He never posted anything on his IG page about being available for what you're interested in.   Creeper in you're profile name is very appropriate for you.   Don't try and justify your actions.  What you did was wrong and deep down I think you know that.

I think he's new to Rentmen, not just new to Detroit, but just in case, has anyone met up with him or have any info?
 
https://rent.men/Jarhead_Cross

Met up yesterday, great experience! I was a nervous wreck; this was my first meet up with a provider since the disaster that was Leomuscle (aka Riomuscle). Handsome college jock! I can't get that sight of him in his birthday suit standing in the bathroom. G.O.R.G.E.O.U.S.
He only started this a short while back and he has his head on his shoulders. I think I am going to make him my regular, I'm getting too old for the treasure hunting.

I've planned to write this message for nearly a month and I've sat down to put my thoughts to "paper" more than a dozen times.  Each time that I've done so however...  I found what I wrote to be inadequate.  Nothing that I've been able to write has adequately reflected what I feel actually deserves to be said.  
So instead I’m just going to write for a few moments and say what I would if we were having lunch together.

I never had the opportunity to meet you previously.  Living on the east coast, I was never really out in your neck of the woods so we never had a chance to meet face to face.  However I've had an opportunity to watch you and your impact on the community as a whole.  
You were a mentor and a friend to hundreds upon hundreds of people.  And while you could have the temper of a devil at times, you was fiercely loyal and would do anything for those around you.  
I'll always remember the Grinch that would make it's appearance at Christmas...   

I'll also remember you telling me that I should not take this too seriously.  That I should instead just go with the flow and enjoy life.  
Over the last year, my level of respect for you has gone up dramatically.  I've had a chance to see first hand everything that you used to do on your own.  Doing it all myself would have been virtually impossible... without @Cooper and the rest of our moderating team, I would have most likely thrown in the towel long ago.  Your energy seemed to be endless, so it was especially hard for me to know we lost you to COVID.  I had always pictured you going on forever as you had always been larger than life to me.  
Daddy...  I hope that I've made you proud.  While I can certainly never be "you", I pray that you've been able to rest peacefully knowing the thing you worked so hard to support continues to live on.  
One day when it's my turn to leave this earth, I hope we can reminisce together and raise a glass to celebrate a legacy.  

In your own words, Daddy: Blessed Be~ 

Well I completely understand his reaction to what you did.   You weren't helping his business at all.   Anyone that wanted to contact him could through Rentmen.    He never posted anything on his IG page about being available for what you're interested in.   Creeper in you're profile name is very appropriate for you.   Don't try and justify your actions.  What you did was wrong and deep down I think you know that.

Well I completely understand his reaction to what you did.   You weren't helping his business at all.   Anyone that wanted to contact him could through Rentmen.    He never posted anything on his IG page about being available for what you're interested in.   Creeper in you're profile name is very appropriate for you.   Don't try and justify your actions.  What you did was wrong and deep down I think you know that.

I think the OP meant one round of texting a day with five or six individual messages per.......

https://rentmen.eu/TristanBaldwin

Feeling the way you do you are obviously doing the right thing.  GOOD LUCK

Before I begin, I want to say that these are my opinions based on personal experiences. After 10 years of hiring men, I can say that I’m totally giving up on it. I’m in my 30’s, so I guess I’m a little pickier, but of the 100+ men I’ve hired over the years, I can honestly only think of 3-4 that were actually worth it. Most of the time, the guy does not look nearly as good as his pictures ( not as muscular, older than advertised, different body pics used, etc.). Most of these guys I could likely meet for free. Somewhere down the line, hiring men became an addiction because I’ve suffered from low self esteem most of my life and any sort of rejection would put me in a funk.   I’m realizing now that spending so much money just to avoid my fears is not helping me in the long run.
 
I feel so ashamed to have spent so much money over the years for companionship I basically could have received for free had I stuck to a workout routine. 
I will say that the worst escorts are usually the Eastern European/Russian ones or the South American ones. They’re usually the rudest and more likely to have misleading pictures/ show disinterest.
I don’t mean to offend anyone with my post. They’re my experiences and options.
 
 

I would be sceptical.  The cock pics appear to be from different guys and/or are heavily photoshopped.  Not a good start.
 

My favorite breakfast joints are the ones with waitresses in white starched outfits who keep the coffee cup full and who call me "hun". 
Providers who call me "hun"?  Not so much. 

Be gentle.  Most people don't even realize what they are saying as they say it!  

Maybe the escorts want to be respectful and provide discretion and privacy to the client, by not asking for or saying your name. (I never tell escorts my real first name anyway, I always use a pseudonym.) Versus with a masseur you might not need that level of discretion. 

Give them a freakin’ break. I think ur expectations are too high. It’s trade. 😉. Would a trick remember ur name?  He’s not your boyfriend, lover or husband. (Exception: you form a bond and/or u see each other frequently). Peace out. 

I don't mind it, even though I know it's a completely phony term of endearment.
I also like "Bud."

I was at the gym the other day and went to the dry sauna after my workout.  Another dark, muscular guy came in right after me.  After some suggestive touchings of our dicks above the towel, I nodded him to move closer to my corner which is hidden from view.  Some dick touching was involved and he asked me to follow him in the shower stall.  We had a full session in the otherwise empty shower hall.  Public sex is such a turn on! Anyway, I was checking out RM a few days after, and whose profile do I see? Score!!  Nice. to know I still got it. lol.  I would have paid to live out that scene again. 😉

Well I completely understand his reaction to what you did.   You weren't helping his business at all.   Anyone that wanted to contact him could through Rentmen.    He never posted anything on his IG page about being available for what you're interested in.   Creeper in you're profile name is very appropriate for you.   Don't try and justify your actions.  What you did was wrong and deep down I think you know that.

Well I completely understand his reaction to what you did.   You weren't helping his business at all.   Anyone that wanted to contact him could through Rentmen.    He never posted anything on his IG page about being available for what you're interested in.   Creeper in you're profile name is very appropriate for you.   Don't try and justify your actions.  What you did was wrong and deep down I think you know that.

Well I completely understand his reaction to what you did.   You weren't helping his business at all.   Anyone that wanted to contact him could through Rentmen.    He never posted anything on his IG page about being available for what you're interested in.   Creeper in you're profile name is very appropriate for you.   Don't try and justify your actions.  What you did was wrong and deep down I think you know that.