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  1. Although not a new subject here (as others have so eloquently noted) but still interesting in some ways. I don't see the point in rehearsing the same 'I never send a deposit' viewpoints, nor do I see any point in a client starting a new thread to ask whether it was a good idea to pay one. No minds will be changed by any of that. What I do find interesting and potentially useful (not necessarily in influencing my behaviour) is to hear from providers who have reluctantly come to the conclusion that deposits might help with a problem they have at the time. Some posters here have noted @Daniel84's reasoning and offered suggestions to address specifically what he's had issues with. I suspect that's more useful than 'Just say no'. There have been other comments restating long held opinions thoughtfully, as replies to his concerns. Any provider who reluctantly start know that it's widely seen as a bad idea, so don't need people to tell them again, loudly. They want their rationale to be understood.
  2. Gentlemen, we are continuing to hide some posts to review them. If we decide that they are appropriate as part of this discussion we will make them available again for members to view. Thank you for your continued cooperation.
  3. 'Correct' in this context means 'conforming to appropriate social standards, proper' for a given situation. Obviously the context of being an escort is different from being at a debutant ball (although an escort could mean that they can be 'correct' in any situation).
  4. Almost five years ago, on 30 December 2019, a NSW Rural Fire Service truck being used fighting a fire near the Victorian border went to drive through what the driver thought was a simple wall of flames. There was no 'other side'. Instead, it was a fire storm that overturned the 10-tonne truck and killed Sam McPaul, a young volunteer firefighter whose wife was expecting their third child. What had killed him was a manifestation of fire-generated weather, a phenomenon the extremes of which, fire tornados, had first been observed in the massive 2003 Canberra fires that had destroyed 500 homes and killed four people. This Canberra event was one of several weather events that had been game changers, in what they represented, the science involved or the way in which emergency responses were organised. They are the basis of a new ABC podcast series The Weather That Changed Us. The ABC is also broadcasting them, and the Canberra episode, and specifically a description told by the driver of that truck almost 17 years later was what I woke up to on the radio this Sunday morning. There are six episodes of the podcast, with links from this page (there are links to another podcast series below these six): The Weather That Changed Us with Tyne Logan - ABC listen WWW.ABC.NET.AU Australia experiences all kinds of extreme weather from cyclones and fires to floods and heat. For those who lived... Nate Byrne is the breakfast weather announcer on ABC News TV, and something of a science geek. Here he is with a short video on fire tornados produced by the Bureau of Meteorology: And yes, that's his usual energy level as an announcer. And a news piece about the anniversary of that 2019 event: Five years on, honouring the fallen volunteer firefighters after Black Summer | About Regional ABOUTREGIONAL.COM.AU A memorial and pin oak-lined avenue of honour on a stretch of road that follows the Murray River, near Jingellic,…
  5. Am I alone in thinking that @Vegas_Millennial knows exactly what he has read, understands exactly what the terms meant, and has a specific meaning in mind when he writes here? Or writes 'her'. How some others read the words he puts in his posts seems to miss his intentions in what he writes.
  6. It is! Although I don't recall Sault Ste Marie being on the historic version of the Kangaroo Route. And interestingly, Makassar is more significant for first nations people in the Top End than places like Singapore that were on early versions of the route. When colonists arrived in the region around Darwin in the mid 19th Century, the local people already had a name for white people. It was (and still is) Balanda (or Ballander), which is derived form Hollander, and brought to them by Makassan traders and fishers.
  7. I'm sure civility in your responses to @Cdog123 would always be appreciated, and not just by him, but also by other forum members. Note that the thread has now been moved to the Questions About Hiring forum from the Spa.
  8. There's not really any need to delete it, it will just fade away if no one else posts anything to it. It may have some value as a point of future reference if anyone else were to search the forum for information.
  9. I have to disagree. To start with, completely acceptable is not a subset of somewhat acceptable, they are separate subsets of the total group of people polled. This commentary is talking about one age cohort of the overall number of respondents, those aged from 18 to 29. 'That group' referred to this cohort, not the subset of it that thought his actions were somewhat acceptable. The 41% figure is the total number in that age cohort who made either of those two responses (it's additive of the 17% and 24% for the two responses). So yes, 41% of respondents aged from 18 to 29 thought his actions were either acceptable or somewhat acceptable. This was not a calculation where multiplication of percentages was relevant. If the premise of your 17% of 24% calculation had been correct, 4% would have not have been the proportion of all respondents who thought his actions were completely acceptable. It would have been the proportion of respondents who were both aged from 18 and 29 and found his actions completely acceptable. Perhaps the percentages of all respondents who shared that assessment is different, but that was not the point of the post that was made, nor were any relevant numbers cited.
  10. Weird? I would have said 'normal'. But you laid it on with a trowel this time.
  11. Oh, is it the first of April already?
  12. So saying the link between cooking one's goose and ensuring failure is apt? (I still have memories of my 1979 Christmas attempt.)
  13. In 2020, Dominique Pelicot, a man from a village in rural Provence was arrested for filming up women's skirts. In examining his phone and later his other devices the police uncovered 20,000 videos and photographs of men having sex with his comatose wife of 40 years, Gisèle (his then wife, it should be added). She had no idea that it had happened and police had to work out whether it would even be possible to tell her, with the trauma it might induce. They did tell her. Police identified 50 men who had raped Gisèle at Dominique's invitation. He had drugged her for that purpose over the years since 2011. The day he was arrested for filming those women in public, was the last time Gisèle saw Dominique until the trial. This week the court reached its verdict. All 51 men were convicted of rape and other crimes, Dominique was sentence to 20 years and the other 50 received gaol terms of 3 to 15 years. Gisèle had waived her right to anonymity and sat through the trial, a remarkable ordeal for her to endure, but in the process became something of a global cause célèbre. By rejecting anonymity she has reduced, at least for now, the some of stigma many women face as the victims of such crimes. It's to be hoped that Gisèle can retire into the quiet life she once led, in the knowledge that she was an inspiration to many women around the world. Or if she chooses, become an advocate for a cause that she unwittingly inspired.
  14. No body said he was, the quote was 'If you truly believe that .. then ...' A world of difference.
  15. I've noticed but I don't see the point of it.
  16. Why are you posting this, it's not even Christmas yet!
  17. Left field. Left-right out-field to be precise.
  18. Timeless music (and other forms of art) can survive adaptation, style changes and the imagination of new performers. Purists gonna gripe, others will celebrate its new context.
  19. Exactly!
  20. True, but they worked that out hundreds of years ago (and directly in Europe not, I think, from observing native Americans directly). I seem to remember an account of Franklin or Jefferson bringing tomato seeds to the US from Europe as food plants, completing the circle as it were. Whether the idea of pizza developed with tomato or that was a later addition I don't know, I'm just happy it ended up being part of the mix.
  21. It was 30° here today, quite the relief after a solid week in the high 30s, my car uses 6 or 7 litres per 100km, and yes it's a 200km drive from here in Tumut to Canberra. I'm 187cm tall but 8 inches is still 8 inches*. * When it's measuring rain, it's 200mm.
  22. Couple's feud ends 'peacefully' after boyfriend says Reddit ruled that he wasn't the asshole – The Chaser CHASER.COM.AU "Once I told her that I had strangers online judge her, she stopped talking and walked away. Clearly she realised I am... (The Chaser started life as a satirical program on ABC TV and branched into this Onion-like web site.)
  23. You're absolutely right, and much of it, at least here, is contradicted by other posters. And looking back at the threads about you over the years, there has been a lot of non-gratuitous love for you here! I'm sure, having seen you comment here, there will be members checking, or rechecking your RM ad
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