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Well, I privately told @PhileasFogg yesterday that, “I predict that Eric’s ad will vanish within 24 hours,” and I also sarcastically asked a few entries above just how long Eric may hang around given that “Nicholas” reviewed him on Thursday. Drum roll please …………………..

Well, that’s only a very short commute to New Orleans and back, huh? 😃

It also doesn’t help that, when “Nicholas” brought back his reviews, notice how the attached reviews have two different screen names, yet the lead photos for each are identical!

“Nicholas” just may be having trouble corresponding with “Eric” to try to figure out just how best to respond 😃. He (Nicholas) may be receptive to a collective collection of cash from all of us as an incentive to cease meeting with providers. After all, at the rate “he’s” going with “them” all leaving the profession within days of “him” meeting with “them,” we soon won’t have any providers left on RM 😃.

The collective power of this forum is astounding!! Great find @Ghadd!!

Yep. That's because "they" all left the profession. "Nicholas" must scare off a bunch of providers!! That HAS to be a record.....Have a RM Premium account for a month, meet with four (4) providers, and they ALL decide to leave the profession after meeting with him! Wonder just how long "Eric" will hang around since he reviewed him only yesterday!

UPDATE: Those four previous reviews of https://rent.men/Nicholaschangas/reviews have suddenly resurfaced. Here are the links: https://rent.men/Kevinnthomas https://rent.men/Anthonysmithh https://rent.men/AntonioJennings https://rent.men/Jonahzakim I can only assume that "Nicholas" thought it looked even more incriminating for the reviews to vanish!! That's a bunch of providers to suddenly leave the business after "Nicholas" reviewed them :).

Thanks, @PhileasFogg!! I’m glad to know my intuition was correct and even verified by your excellent investigative skills!

Facts: 1. This gentleman, https://rent.men/Ericwilliamss, showed up on RM late yesterday evening as being "in" New Orleans and ostensibly being in my home city tomorrow (Friday). 2. His ad is only eight (8) days old. 3. He has only one review; moreover, that one reviewer, https://rent.men/Nicholaschangas, has had a RM Premium account for just over one (1) month. 4. That one reviewer, as of yesterday, showed a total of five (5) reviews during that one month (of providers all over the U. S.), the most recent of which was (is) Eric Williamss. 5. Of those five reviews, four (4) were links for providers which evidenced the fact that the provider was no longer available on Rent Men (but the screen indicating he was previously). I wish I had screen saved those four, but trust me, there were five reviews, the first four of which all indicated providers who had left the profession during that one month period after Nicholaschangas reviewed them. 6. As of this morning, Nicholaschangas has removed all of the four (4) other reviews he submitted, leaving only EricWillaimss' review. 7. I reached out to Eric last night, provided a link to my own RM profile, and inquired if he may wish to meet when he's in my city (ostensibly, tomorrow, Friday). 8. Eric responded saying, "I'm available sir." 9. I responded (being highly, highly suspicious given all I've relayed above), "Okay. Text me once you have arrived in my city." 10. Eric responded within seconds indicating that he was "already in" my city. 11. I am ceasing all communication as I've "been around the block" long enough to know that the potential for scammer and/or fraud is sky high AND it's all too easy (i.e. suddenly already in my city). I welcome any other members' thoughts and contributions.

I hope everyone enjoyed a Happy Easter Sunday! Mine was utterly fantastic just as is the case for any day I get to meet with Ian as I just did! Now it’s back to the bus for a return trip back home!!

Well, NOW someone can give feedback, and that someone is ME, and he was absolutely fantastic!! He just left my hotel room, and we had a great time!! He was very prompt and professional in all communication, and he noted right off the bat that we had “common interests.” That makes a meeting all the more fun when you know the provider is enjoying the activity you’re engaging in! I highly recommend and definitely will be repeating because Amtrak is very convenient for me being able to get to Birmingham!!

Was just wondering if anyone has anything to report on ChillGND in Huntsville, Alabama: https://rent.men/ChillGND Thanks.

Bump. Just curious since five months have now passed as to whether anyone may have reached out recently. Thanks.

Maybe this is coincidence and maybe not, but beyond Danny’s ad suddenly vanishing overnight, so did this providers who listed my home city about 80 miles Northwest of NO: https://rentmen.jp/Calvinleeee Both were Native American. I opted not to reach out to either one because both were smokers and both listed PNP under items “into.” In fact, Danny placed PNP in his written commentary in stressing how “party friendly” he was. Maybe it’s all coincidence, but I find it interesting both allegedly visited South Louisiana for the first time, and both decided to kill their ads within the last 24 hours.

Another one bites the dust!

Just my observation…More and more providers seem to dead end their careers after short to intermediate stays in The Big Easy. It’s a tough market both for providers and clients! A bunch of longer-term providers, some of whom I’ve met, have chosen to let their ads expire just in the last 60-90 days with no sign whatsoever of any intent to resurrect them.

That’s certainly the case for me too, and I’ve been following NO ads for over two decades. I still do but only to see if a visiting provider has appeal to me. I’ve lucked up this year with two who have, but recent history over the last 6-8 years dictates that’s likely to be it for 2026!

That added information speaks volumes! So here we have a provider who has one review from one client who just so happened to join RentMen a month ago and who, after submitting a review on Kevinnthomas (shown as Baltimore, Maryland), was studious enough to notice that Kevinnthomas changed his name and, voila, that client who joined RentMen a month ago with a premium membership costing all of $9.95 for a month, resubmits an identical review applicable for the new screen name right after the screen name is changed! Now that is one more studious “client!” I’ve seen this movie before with a provider from Dallas, and the story line goes the “client” does not renew the RM premium membership after that initial month and just never seems to ever reactivate the premium aspect of the membership for purposes of reviewing any other provider. We can see if this movie has a different finale, but my money says it’s a rerun of the script written by a Dallas provider (but perhaps aired by other providers), where the brand new RM reviewer “client” just paid $9.95, issued a review (like here, the provider’s first one) then went cold silent and never renewed his RM premium subscription 😃.

Yep!! And I’m one of them. I am presently on a bus heading back home after yet another fantastic meeting with him a few hours ago!!

Well, as I said, nothing ventured, nothing gained! I reached out to him yesterday, and he was very courteous, prompt, and respectful in his responsive texts. He strongly touts his massaging skills and quotes message rates in his opening correspondence. Nevertheless, if you ask him for other services, he’s happy to give a “yes” or “no.” Ny RM profile outlines the ONLY three acts I like (worshipping feet, face sitting, and being spanked). His English is decent, but he admits that he struggles with “longer words.” Accordingly, I think he had either a translator or perhaps ChatGPT to clarify for him because he texted me back this: BDSM preference (receiving spanking) • Foot worship • Face-sitting • He emphasizes that At any rate, we agreed to terms within 30 minutes yesterday, and we just met with me enjoying a fantastic time with him. I asked him to please text me the next time he’s in the Big Easy, and he said he would. I will certainly meet with him again then. He was so gracious in all correspondence both text and verbal, but he definitely demonstrated that, once he sensed I enjoy having a strap and paddle applied with vigor if the “chemistry” is right (and it is for me when someone like him is the deliverer), he was very much up to the task!! A 5-star R/M review should appear from me later today.

I think this is likely a major shot in the dark but, as they say, nothing ventured, nothing gained. Anybody with anything to report on ManSense, who is, at least for now, in New Orleans?: https://rent.men/ManSense Thanks.

“Super-hot” is in the eye of the beholder. I’ve seen guys raved about on this forum that I couldn’t be paid enough money by the U. S. Treasury to agree to meet with. I never say anything like that publicly about any provider because I think doing so is classless, and we all know we all have different tastes. You’re correct to point out that location is key though. New Orleans is a tough market both for providers and clients. It does have one relatively new client who has possibly raised the whole city’s GDP by 0.13% through his hiring 😄, but I’ve heard from from several providers that they never plan to come back because New Orleans locals are, and I’m quoting, “cheapskates.” One provider (with whom I met and happily agreed to his $350 hourly rate because I viewed him as “super hot”), said he was flooded with texts such as, “Hey, will you let me suck you off for $20?” So, in New Orleans, unless you’ve got tons of well-heeled visitors for a big event like the Super Bowl, quoting $500 will get you laughed right out of town (with the possible exception of our new resident whom I just referenced 😄).

I totally agree!! Ian_Twink is my dream come true, and I’ve consistently said he is the absolute best I’ve ever encountered in 22 years of hiring. Even having said that, had he quoted me a very high rate (he quoted me a very reasonable rate, especially for someone of his caliber), it would have given me pause because I also have the cost of a 16-hour (round trip) travel venture to see him, thus also triggering a need for two nights hotel. As it is, I always give him a nice tip because his rate is very reasonable and he brings joy to me that I had given up feeling like I could ever experience again. We’ve met about 7-8 times since first meeting in mid September of last year. Two of those meetings have been when he visits Houston, which dramatically reduces my time (can go and return the same day) and cost (he hosts because he’s seeing other regular clients). So, for me, that initial quote is critical and, as long as it’s reasonable, I’ve always had the goal of a long-term recurring series of encounters. @PhileasFogg, whom I’ve gotten to know very well since he relocated to Nee Orleans, has described me as “fiercely loyal” to the providers with whom I meet, and he is correct. Right now, I am Ian_Twink and him only unless a provider visits New Orleans with a huge “wow factor,” which I’m presently lucking up with in that Sebastian_Leon is here through Mardi Gras (2/17). I’ve met with him twice in the last two weeks and I tend to do so twice more before he heads back to his fortunate and lucky clients in Boston.

How could anybody possibly be offended by that response? In the Aleman case I reference above, he told me that he was leaving New Orleans and would be near me in less than two hours. I was in an important meeting and stepped into the hallway to text with him. I excused myself under the belief that we could meet if I let the others know I was going to exit the meeting for good. I quickly texted him that I needed to know his rate. His response?: I am driving to you from Texas, so can you do $500?” My response (he would be passing within two minutes of me if he had been truthful with me about leaving New Orleans, which is where his location showed on RM , which prompted me reaching out to him in the first place): “Absolutely not! Just keep on driving.” He replied: “I can do $300 if you’re still interested?” I replied: “I don’t see anything productive coming from us meeting,” and I returned to the meeting. I did not like the rate drop, but I especially did not like the point-blank falsehood about where he was! i have used bold emphasis on this account of the incident which I did not do on my original post. The vast majority of my working career, I was a fraud investigator for the Federal Government. We trained extensively to pay close attention to detail and to pick up on inconsistent statements. Perhaps I made an unwarranted assumption that the members of this group would readily pick up on that deception, but I can only assume that was not the case based on the absolute lambasting I took from the post. I gave everyone 30 hours to get it out of their systems, after which I caused the post to vanish by deleting it. I guess as a 12-year member of this forum and that being the only time anything like that has ever happened with any post I’ve ever made, maybe that’s not bad. Nevertheless, the commentaries made about me and the incredible piling on that ensued from the outset of the post until I deleted the post were certainly not appreciated by me in the slightest bit, and it stalled me from posting the first word to this forum for about seven weeks thereafter.

Just my own approach: Once quoted a rate, I either agree or decline. On a couple of occasions, a provider has immediately dropped the rate (which I neither expected nor wanted), with one dropping it almost in half. When that happened about seven months ago entailing ale_aleman who’d also been VERY deceitful with me about where he even was when we began corresponding two hours prior, I did respond in a terse manner. Thereafter, I was utterly lampooned by members of this forum (about 32 such entries with high fives and one member praising another member for “calling it like I see it” regarding me — he “called” a very obvious ball a strike — and one member posting a tutorial on rate negotiation which I neither asked for nor wanted). Accordingly, I deleted the entire post. The only comment I thought that was appropriate did come from @Jamie21, who basically said rate negotiation is very unlikely to result in a pleasing and fulfilling subsequent meeting. I did feel vindicated when @johnwhatelse made this post on the individual in question. You do what you feel comfortable with, but for me, a final “yes” or “no” upon being quoted a rate has served me well for 22 years, and I plan to stick with that firm policy no matter how many unsolicited (and unwanted) tutorials on “rate negotiation” may surface on any future post which I originate.