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My usual approach is to ask the guy, after a private dance, if he ever sees guys outside the club. They've never acted offended when I said that, a few have declined but most have said yes.

This is many years ago, when I was still in my mid-20's. I went to this one guy in the Hollywood Hills, who was Italian. He was really hot. Mid-30's and good looking with a hairy thick body. He gave my back and neck a great massage - I remember cause I fell asleep and that's rare for me. I woke up a bit groggy when he asked me to flip over. That's when I noticed he had taken off his shorts. He proceeded to climb on top of me, his balls in my face and he started massaging my thighs. Before I could react - I was still kind of out of it, he put his mouth on my cock - and I came almost immediately. He swallowed every drop. (This is when I was so reckless and against better judgment didn't think about what I could catch from all these activities - but thankfully I left unscathed). He then proceeded to continue massaging me legs while straddling my face, with his hard cock bouncing against my chest and leaking pre-cum. I started to rim his beautiful asshole - man he smelled good - and I remember how his taint throbbed against my chin. Then he came all over my chest and I came pretty violently again. We showered together with deep kisses but I was too wasted to get it on another time. I tried to reach him a couple weeks later for a repeat - but he said he had moved away. I did drive by his place and there was another car in the driveway. Not sure if he had, but I got the message. Still the benchmark for the best massage for me, and fodder for many jerk off sessions through the years.

I’m a mature gay male, who was not HWP, a face only a mother could love, and most certainly not gifted in the penis department. Two years ago I made the leap and hired an escort. He was much younger than me, and incredibly beautiful (yes, I know, WTF was I thinking?). He was also incredibly kind, sweet and understanding. And while I felt like the most disgusting thing on earth, he made me feel otherwise when I was with him. You’re not being stupid at all. Look for someone who seems genuine, has multiple positive reviews both on Rentmen and Daddy’s, and take the plunge.

Insert Mocha rant here

Can we ban this guy? I'm getting really sick of this shit. This forum used to be a fun, civil place. I don't want to come here and have to keep reading this bitter fucking nonsense.

At the gym I go to, there's a hot young Latino trainer that I just drool over every time I see. We make eye contact and smile and nod at each other but I'd never had the nerve to ask him if he does private sessions. Now after reading this thread, maybe I will.

How do you usually go about approaching them?

I had a trainer at my gym for two years
But he was straight and living with his girl friend. Saw him naked in the shower once and had to use my towel to hide my erection. Nearly shot a load.

I got very lucky.....
 
a much-trusted provider (escort), knowing what type dude I like, introduced me to an easy-going, local straight buddy of his who used to escort for dudes (still has a couple long-time regulars only), now did a lot of dancing/stripping gigs for women, and was transitioning to a mainstream career .....we had a couple very vanilla "escort" sessions first, then it all turned very rapidly into only "trainer" territory as I realized his dedication to health, diet, and fitness might work for me.....I'd been nearly desperate for somebody with the right vibe to help me navigate the gym, set me up with a comprehensive, effective workout plan, offer some recipes and menus, motivate me - and this guy had just that specific vibe I needed that kicked my ass in gear......
 
you'll have to look around and keep trying to find the guy who really clicks with you....AND who is ready to reliably help you at the gym......he's there and I hope you're getting some PM advice

I know this is an older post, but I would like to add my thoughts.
 
For medical reasons, by my early 20's I was over 300 pounds. The gay world is very superficial, and I couldn't get a date. By 23, I was still a virgin, and that's when I started hiring escorts. I probably try about 6 new escorts a year, one every other month or so, and have done so for the last 15 years, and I have had many regulars, although I travel so much for work it makes it difficult for anything regular.
 
I learned early on to always tell them my weight and make sure that they were okay with it. When hiring an escort, I do it not only for the sex, but to feel sexy myself. Any escort can get a guy off, that's just the basics. An exceptional escort will make you feel like the sexiest man alive while you are with him. He will make you feel like you are the only person in the world that matters to him. It's a feeling that I don't get from anyone in the real world, and one why I enjoy the company of a great escort so much.
 
I have found that if I don't prepare them for what to expect, then I often find disappointment in the meeting. I had escorts turn me away at the door, which is exactly the opposite of the confidence boost I wanted. I've had escorts take me in, but not want to touch me, basically they touched as little as possible, had me jerk myself off, took my money, and shoved me out the door. I've had escorts who couldn't get hard, which makes it difficult for them to fuck me. This was all when I was in my early 20's, and a lot of my paycheck went to hiring them. Then I got lucky and hired Cameron Taylor. I warned him that I was 350 lbs, and he told me that was fine, but for the first time he made me feel like the sexiest man alive.
 
There's nothing better than seeing a smile at the door rather than disappointment. There's nothing better than an escort who can't keep their hands off you. There's nothing better than an escort who is hard the instant he sees you. And sure, this may take a little prep on their part. I find the more information I give them, the better prepared they are for the appointment, and the better time I have.
I have escorts flat out tell me that they aren't interested when I've told them my weight, and I do appreciate that. It means that they aren't wasting my time or money for a less than perfect experience.
I've had escorts who simply didn't return my text or email after I told them I was heavy. Sure I was disappointed, but not as disappointed as I would have been paying their rate and having a bad experience.
 
My vote is always tell them, If they are good at what they will do, it will only help them prepare a more pleasurable experience. If they turn you away, you are better off anyways.

I finally took the plunge and contacted him. We met. Pics are real.

Heath Hutchins-a model. But I probably would have liked him better before he became a model. He's 6'2" and about 170. But before he became a model he was a lifelong athlete. He was a placekicker for the University of Mississippi. His playing weight was 220. To fit into the clothes he has to model he lost 50 pounds of muscle.
 
http://bigdonsboys.com/handsomest/pages_49_52/images/06_02_heath_hutchins_0006.jpg
 
Gman

If it's a CNN news guy it all Will Ripley for me!!!

How about Ryan Reynolds or Ryan Goslng?

I personally like this type of scene. But I happen to be a voyeur, so because of my fetish I enjoy having an escort or porn star and then hiring somebody he would really like to be with so that I can watch (and possibly interact at moments) if I so desire. I do explain the rules of the game to the escorts I hire. And most are delighted and it ends up being not nearly as odd as it sounds. Though I must admit I don't care for it when they suggest their real life bf/husband. But I can't explain why. I guess I want to see lust and not the love and bond of their intimate and personal life together.

The best way for me to experience the hiring process at this point is to choose a guy I'm interested in and hire a man with whom he'd like to roll around and watch them. Have you ever done this? Hire the guy you like & work out logistics later?

Here's Ellis MCreadie today, MscleLovr. Doesn't look too "grizzled" to me!! I'd take him in a heartbeat!! http://soulartistmanagementblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/MG_0206.jpghttp://www.projectq.us/images/galleries/14188/projectq_morning_fix_ellis__mccreadie_02__large.jpghttp://4.bp.blogspot.com/_-8aXe06g8Og/S7xgDc1Y1DI/AAAAAAAABf0/Y4KloJfuwr4/s1600/EllisMcCreadie01.jpghttp://soulartistmanagementblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/L1240446.jpghttp://soulartistmanagementblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/Ellis-2204-500x360.jpg

True story. I was at a hotel in Tucson AZ and hired a gentlemen caller for a midnight appointment. The next morning, I called Uber for a ride to the airport and the driver was my playmate from the night before. Fortunately, I was traveling alone and it was not awkward at all. Only Uber driver I have seen naked.