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This is for the Escorts that have a booked client. Everything is set, what the client expects, time and place. When that day arrives. I usually text or email them several hours before to confirm our appointment The client tell you everything is a still on, and will give you the address closer to our appointment time. You pick out your clothes, shower, shave and do everything to be "Ready " for the reason you were hired.. Only to have that client not respond to any further communication.

 

Why is so difficult for a client to let the escort know something has changed and they will not be able to keep our appointment..... o_O

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Why is so difficult for a client to let the escort know something has changed and they will not be able to keep our appointment..... o_O

I can't think of any reason why somebody would rationally pick "not telling anything" as more polite than "just tell him and quickly apologize" (am I being too optimistic here?). Hence, typing or calling in this situation must be making some people feel uneasy.

 

The rest comes, as very usual in life, from a lack of actual consequences, for the client, for this or the other behaviour.

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Your scenario is a constant headache. To limit those occurrences, I confirm and re confirm:

1. Days prior (If traveling day of arrival in city)

2. Morning of

3. 2 hours prior

 

If they do in fact No Show, I save their number and it's highly unlikely I will ever meet with them. If I give them a 2nd chance, they'll be required to pay for their full session in advance. All of this is under the assumption it is a new client you've never seen.

 

If it's a regular, then that is completely different. Then again, a regular wouldn't stiff you, right? (Pun not intended)

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Yes this happens to me - youth and inexperience seem to be factors. “I forgot,” “I lost my phone,” etc.

I always tell them that if something comes up to please let me know - I don’t care if I’m told. Especially when I’m home a last minute cancellation is no big deal. But waiting for a no-show is a bummer. :confused:

I just realized this thread is about CLIENT no-shows. Oh well it goes both ways. :rolleyes:

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If it's a regular, then that is completely different. Then again, a regular wouldn't stiff you, right? (Pun not intended)

The chances that a regular client would decide to ditch you and do so by setting up an appointment and then flaking are low. It's more likely that there would be a good reason a regular was a no-show (I would have thought). Still, you never know. Why anyone, regular or not, would do that to you, I don't know. But I'm not 'anyone'.

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The chances that a regular client would decide to ditch you and do so by setting up an appointment and then flaking are low. It's more likely that there would be a good reason a regular was a no-show (I would have thought). Still, you never know. Why anyone, regular or not, would do that to you, I don't know. But I'm not 'anyone'.

Well if I fly to Australia, I'd need a damn good reason for a cancelation :rolleyes:

 

I believe the most common offenders are young people as mentioned above. They lack the understanding of respect and courtesy. I honestly don't care if I'm lied to about a cancellation reason. I just appreciate any heads up.

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Occasionally it's because of a true emergency. Often it's simply lack of respect.

 

I can't say that this ever happens to me anymore because I make my clients jump thru lots of hoops to book me in the first place (tends to weed out those who aren't serious), but it sure used to happen a lot when I was newer to escorting.

 

Nowadays, I would never consider an Outcall "confirmed" if I didn't have the address. I would neither hold the time in my schedule for the client nor spend any of my time preparing for the meeting without the address. Unless perhaps it was a regular and he had a very good reason for not knowing the address in advance.

 

In my opinion, if you're not ready to give me your address then you're not really serious about the booking.

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Occasionally it's because of a true emergency. Often it's simply lack of respect.

 

I can't say that this ever happens to me anymore because I make my clients jump thru lots of hoops to book me in the first place (tends to weed out those who aren't serious), but it sure used to happen a lot when I was newer to escorting.

 

Nowadays, I would never consider an Outcall "confirmed" if I didn't have the address. I would neither hold the time in my schedule for the client nor spend any of my time preparing for the meeting without the address. Unless perhaps it was a regular and he had a very good reason for not knowing the address in advance.

 

In my opinion, if you're not ready to give me your address then you're not really serious about the booking.

I agree with your address comments. For that reason I no longer answer blocked calls. There is no reason why I shouldn't know an address or phone number.

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I agree with your address comments. For that reason I no longer answer blocked calls. There is no reason why I shouldn't know an address or phone number.

 

Right, I can see how someone newer to escorting might not pick up on the subtlety of dangling that information to be given at some point in the future, but I think experience teaches most of us that when clients are not forthcoming with the information that we NEED to know for the logistics of the booking, it's usually a warning sign that something is off. Like maybe they're not really sure if they're serious about it or not.

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For the first time out with a new escort I tend to overdo the text messaging on confirmation early in the week the day before the morning of and when I'm leaving the office to meet them and when I've arrived at their place. It's exhausting and kind of out there but I feel it's courtesy and necessary with an escort that I know is counting on me to show. Once I've established a regular sort of thing I'm not as excessive. LoL..The area that gets harder is for out of town escorts coming to my city when I book weeks in advance. This is not ego talking but I have an important job and shit happens. I've had to cancel and their time here is usually on average 4 to 7 days. When I do cancel it's within a very decent amount of time.

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@VictorPowers ..... I do several confirmations, because being a bottom escort takes some effort. @FTM Zachary Prince ..great advice, if they don't want to give me the address when I ask, then I will not consider them being serious about booking.

As for the rest some good explanations... although the guy that prompted this thread was not young..actually 45 yrs old....

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