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COVID is much more contagious than HIV.

I don’t take it at all lightly. It’s something over which I have no control, other than to keep my husband and me as safe as possible.

Certainly other countries responded much more constructively than the US did, but I submit that, by definition, a pandemic is “out of control.”

When were they ever under control?

Since I’m into hole sex, fuck yes!

I’m a cool sleeper. In warm weather, I cover myself with a single microfiber sheet. Spring and fall, I add a light cotton blanket. Dead of winter, add a light bedspread

It runs the gamut. On IG, I chat with guys from all over the world looking for daddies. The one commonality is that they want a man considerably older than they are. Sometimes they're tops, sometimes they're bottoms. I had an older friend, in his 80's, who had a relationship with a younger Turkish man in his 40s who had a wife and 5 children and he was a top. My friend wore himself out commuting between San Francisco and Istanbul. I believe that many of the guys on IG are fortune hunters. My friend died not long ago. Not sure if the Turk cashed in or not.

I began to notice Some years ago, I began to notice that younger men treated me deferentially. At first it was disconcerting, but I soon learned to like it.

whatever works

Actually maybe I did embrace it. I had this following of young guys who were fascinated by the level of fitness I maintain in spite of my age. They were full of questions and wanted workout tips and such. My coach says that people are inspired by me. It took getting used to but I soon learned to really like the attention. Now I’m that gyms are closed, I miss my crowd of college-age admirers.

Coming up - the shoot is scheduled for a week from today. The prep for it has me completely toasted. I get up, work for a couple hours, go back to bed, get up in the afternoon, work for a couple hours.

I don't know that I ever "embraced" it. At some point, I just realized I was a daddy.

I've started wearing jockstraps instead of underwear. I really enjoy the little racy feeling I get from a jock strap. I bought a couple packages of four black ones on Amazon just recently.

Thanks for the kind words

In a hotel or a spa, I have never once had a therapeutic massage become something more. In these settings, I 've had plenty of massages from strong attractive men, but they never jumped the rails. Really , though, a legit massage from a friendly, good-looking man who knows his craft is hard to beat. OTOH, it happens frequently with gay providers working in their own studios. It's always nice when it happens, but I don't really look for it to happen.

A little bite of dark chocolate is nice or some kind of trail mix with m&ms

many many years ago, I worked in a bathhouse and I do have my share of stories to tell.

But, OTOH, Canada, just across the border from the US, in which the coronavirus is completely out of control, has an extremely low incidence of new cases.

I am often the sort that leaps before he looks.

But if you can't handle the ten incher - that's a very good indication you need a smaller one. It isn't rocket science.

Oh - come on. It's one of those things you just do. If it hurts too much, you know you went too fast, and back off a little.

The Steamworks in Berkeley is open and thriving. About 5 years ago I went on a weekday afternoon and was astonished at the crowd - both the numbers and the quality.

If you are telling people you are putting them on you ignore list, I think you are misusing it because you are using it abusively. The only people who make it onto my ignore list are those that I find are incorrigibly stupid. I would never tell them that they are on it because I'm not trying to punish them. I'm just not interested in what they have to say.

I would with the right guy - It waoou I wouldn't want to "go out" with a trans man because I'm not looking for romance. I would like to have sex with a transman because it allow me to act on a compelling fantasy I have -fucking a man with a vagina.

I think its pretty apparent that he has. At the very least he's had hair transplantation. I don't think he's had a full face lift but maybe a mini-face lift and some additional work around his eyes. The work shows when he smiles.