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Actually maybe I did embrace it. I had this following of young guys who were fascinated by the level of fitness I maintain in spite of my age. They were full of questions and wanted workout tips and such. My coach says that people are inspired by me. It took getting used to but I soon learned to really like the attention. Now I’m that gyms are closed, I miss my crowd of college-age admirers.

Coming up - the shoot is scheduled for a week from today. The prep for it has me completely toasted. I get up, work for a couple hours, go back to bed, get up in the afternoon, work for a couple hours.

I don't know that I ever "embraced" it. At some point, I just realized I was a daddy.

I've started wearing jockstraps instead of underwear. I really enjoy the little racy feeling I get from a jock strap. I bought a couple packages of four black ones on Amazon just recently.

Thanks for the kind words

In a hotel or a spa, I have never once had a therapeutic massage become something more. In these settings, I 've had plenty of massages from strong attractive men, but they never jumped the rails. Really , though, a legit massage from a friendly, good-looking man who knows his craft is hard to beat. OTOH, it happens frequently with gay providers working in their own studios. It's always nice when it happens, but I don't really look for it to happen.

A little bite of dark chocolate is nice or some kind of trail mix with m&ms

many many years ago, I worked in a bathhouse and I do have my share of stories to tell.

But, OTOH, Canada, just across the border from the US, in which the coronavirus is completely out of control, has an extremely low incidence of new cases.

I am often the sort that leaps before he looks.

But if you can't handle the ten incher - that's a very good indication you need a smaller one. It isn't rocket science.

Oh - come on. It's one of those things you just do. If it hurts too much, you know you went too fast, and back off a little.

The Steamworks in Berkeley is open and thriving. About 5 years ago I went on a weekday afternoon and was astonished at the crowd - both the numbers and the quality.

If you are telling people you are putting them on you ignore list, I think you are misusing it because you are using it abusively. The only people who make it onto my ignore list are those that I find are incorrigibly stupid. I would never tell them that they are on it because I'm not trying to punish them. I'm just not interested in what they have to say.

I would with the right guy - It waoou I wouldn't want to "go out" with a trans man because I'm not looking for romance. I would like to have sex with a transman because it allow me to act on a compelling fantasy I have -fucking a man with a vagina.

I think its pretty apparent that he has. At the very least he's had hair transplantation. I don't think he's had a full face lift but maybe a mini-face lift and some additional work around his eyes. The work shows when he smiles.

I just don't offer advice very much at all. Once in a while if the issue is really compelling I may give unsolicited advice, but it's extremely rare. One would think that people would appreciate being told the truth but that's not always the case. For myself, I would rather someone stayed out of it until I invite their opinion.

Is it worth giving that much thought to?

I have quite a few kinks. Some of the things people think of as kinks, to me aren't kinks. Armpits, to me, aren't a kink. I would call being into armpits "nasty," but not really kinky. My main kink is fist-fucking and I love it - it's the best sex there is. I also like WS, giving and receiving. Love gut-punching and wrestling, muscle worship, sounds, catheters. I have dabbled in bondage and I have rape fantasies. I also like rough, passionate vanilla sex

I had the opposite happen. Somebody who I've often thought of hiring hit me up on a hookup site. I said no because I'm laying low for the time being. If things ever change, I'll get back in touch with him. If he says no, I wouldn't let that stop me from hiring him.

Id say it depends on how bad you want him. If you want him bad enough, you'll pay. If not, you won't. I don't think there's any guiding principle here.

Not so - I'm hairy and I love hairy and I think its fairly common for hairy guys to be into other hairy guys

Since I 've done a lot of work in the hospitality industry, I have had a lot of encounters with celebrities. I can't say it has made much of a difference in my life. I will say that one of my most interesting encounters was with Tammy Wynette. She came in a restaurant where I worked with a large group of relatives and family members. She was dressed in frilly lacy white dress trimmed with pink bows that looked like a little girl's party dress - it was completely incongruous on an aging C&W star with a whisky voice. She was very nice - talked and smoked literally non-stop - it was impossible to keep her ash tray emptied. One time, I was catching a flight at SFO and ran into Ed Marinaro of the Hill Street Blues. We looked at each other, our eyes locked for a split second, he saw that I recognized him and that was that. He looked absolutely scrumptious in a nice western outfit - cowboy hat, plaid ranch jacket, jeans and western boots.

I wonder about that all the time. What, if anything, is going on inside our cats' heads?

Not on Netflix but Amazon - "Rocco Schiavone." An Italian crime drama featuring a crochety, endearing detective named Rocco who is a widower. We loved every episode. Three seasons, but we could only locate the first season.