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A few weeks ago, I went to see a massage guy. I knew something was going to happen because his profile said "mutual touch encouraged." I had no idea I was going to get fucked senseless, but that's just what happened. He said, "I knew I was going to fuck you the moment you walked in." I said, in all honesty,"Nobody has EVER fucked me the way you just did." I want back a week later and he did it again. He could get to be a habit.

Well, "remission" isn't in the average person's vocabulary. It certainly wasn't part of mine.

Well of course they go into remission on steroids. The steroids are suppressing the inflammation. To me, "remission" means no inflammation and no steroids. If steroids are part of the path to no inflammation and no steroids, I can live with that.

I'm certainly hoping it will go into remission, sooner rather than later, but my rheumatologist isn't quite as certain as you are - he says that "some people" do go into remission.

Sorry to hear that. My father had a similar problem, He had a nosebleed that wouldn't stop. His doc's office told me to take him to the ER, where they found that his platelet count was nearly undetectable, He had to have platelet transfusions and went through a long ordeal with corticosteroids.

As a very young man, I can vaguely remember a whole string of experiences that were very forgettable - it seemed like I was a magnet for guys who were lousy sex. I was beginning to think that sex was actually like that. Fortunately, the right guy came along and showed me what sex could be.

I have seen photos of Gwyneth Paltrow without makeup . She's unrecognizable.

Women are helped greatly by makeup. I notice both of your "sparkly" celebrities are men and both the ordinary-looking ones are women. Post-pandemic, I have noticed quite a few women going without makeup and lots of others wearing less. Maybe women are realizing they don't need to paint themselves up beyond recognition. And I read recently that the mask-like look women achieve from foundation is on the way out and a more natural look is taking its place.

A guy doesn't have to be "handsome" for me to think he's totally hot. I thought Jason Momoa was over the top hot in Game of Thrones. Ryan Gosling is forgettable. Chris Pine, totally forgettable. I never liked Johnny Depp. Tom Cruise is facially attractive, but that build - he should never appear shirtless. Chris Helmsworth is not bad facially, but again, the build is a liability. My current fave is a Spanish star - Miguel Angel Silvestre - he's the male lead in a Spanish series we've been binge-watching on Netflix called "Velvet."

Yes, it was. Ahh, the freedom of being an outlaw.

It's generally a humorless time, but we also socialize differently than we used to. I remember those bitchy queens who would hold court and keep a room full of people absolutely in stitches. It was as though they were comics doing a routine. Anybody and everybody was a target, nobody escaped, it was politically incorrect and hysterically funny. We don't stand around anymore in large groups, everyone chatting and clutching a drink. The bitchy queens were almost always heavy drinkers, so they have probably all died from liver disease. But gay men have assimilated and they act differently. Years ago, that bitchy queen humor was called "Mary" humor. Gay men don't call each other "Mary" any more, or "girl" and they don't make jokes about broken wrists. So a lot of what you miss is an artifact of the outlaw status that gay men used to have. Assimilation seems to have its price - gay men have started acting like everybody else. As this has occurred, Gadar has become more and more unreliable. It's very common to meet a guy, and you simply cant tell whether he is gay or straight. I actually kind of like it - everybody is a mystery.

I don't know these guys and I certainly defer to the opinions of members who do know them. I would say, not knowing any more about them than I do, I would definitely choose Dutch PR- he is so extraordinarily cute.

I got my first shot at the beginning of the month at SFGH - short line, fill out some paperwork, bingo! Out of there in around 30 min.

I had a recipe for baked ratatouille that I got out of a Sunset cookbook decades ago. No matter the season, it was my go-to dish for potlucks. Didn't seem to matter how many people were there, it always disappeared.

I use dishwasher pods on the sanitary cycle to disinfect the washer every few weeks. I had some white sheets that had blood stains that I thought were set because they had already been washed. I threw them in with the dishwasher pods and they came out looking brand new.

I'm pretty ripe myself and I have a new FB who doesn't like to shower. The combination of his and mine isn't for everybody, but for me, it's just intoxicating. I love smelling like him for a day afterward.

I got so scattered and forgetful during the pandemic that it was scary. I would ask my self "how can I work? Not like this." But I'm mostly back to normal. That was a horrible thing we went through.

So sorry to hear this. I hope you have a speedy recovery.

I did the same. Some of the photos on my IG profile from summer 2020 get more "likes" than any others. I did a professional photo shoot in September of 2020. My avatar is from the photo shoot.

I suppose lots of pics that are redundant is too many pics. But I love to view pics of really fit guys. I'm much less likely to hire if there are only a few pics that don't show much. One thing I have noticed on hook-up sites is that guys often have an idea of their physique that just doesn't match reality. Often a guy describes himself as average when he actually has a great physique. Other guys describe themselves as "muscular" and I just think "denial is a wonderful thing."

But not Benjamin.

Guys who like dirty fucking aren't that unusual.

Right - If you have collected something from them, then you have some leverage. If they dick you around, you're going to keep their money and they will lose their investment. When I have trouble collecting from a client - I stop. I tell them that I have stopped and I will not start until they've paid me what they owe me, I remind them how much they already have invested in the matter and I make sure that they understand they are going to lose that investment if they don't pay in a timely manner. I used to do all this nicely, but I don't anymore - I turn into a real bastard if they owe me money.

You have no leverage. Forget about it.