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LOL!! I can see why.

It is a screening test, not a diagnostic test. If one recognizes the test's limitations, it can be very useful to identify men in need of further testing. If someone has a high PSA, the test should always be repeated, because so many things can cause it to be elevated. Two high readings in a row means the guy is a candidate for either a biopsy or a free PSA test.

As a 8 or 9 yo kid, I would get a boner standing at the record counter in Newberry's looking at pics of Elvis on his album covers.

I almost forgot my all-time favorite - Doug McClure https://www.picsofcelebrities.com/celebrity/doug-mcclure/pictures/large/doug-mcclure-pictures.jpg

I was delirious over Dick Cavett.

Years ago, when Julia Roberts and Benjamin Bratt were an item, they settled here in SF. They were pretty visible, you'd see them everywhere.

I agree. There are no cookie-cutter solutions to life's difficult dilemmas. His therapist should be helping him to achieve an outcome that's right for him. His ideal outcome may differ from one that you might read about in your college psychology textbook.

Years ago, I read an article about relationships. I don't remember where. The author's point was that the conventional wisdom that people in a relationship shouldn't have any secrets from each other wasn't necessarily so - that comfort with each other was at least as important as truthfulness with each other. And that holding back a few secrets, if it positively affected the comfort level, might not be such a bad thing.

I like it all. I love hairy guys - even REALLY hairy guys, and I used to be attracted pretty much exclusively to hairy guys. Then I began to appreciate guys who were naturally smooth. Then I began to appreciate guys who were shaved. One thing I love is a guy who is stubbly after shaving and its starting to grow out. I love a stubbly chest and/or stomach, and I'm crazy about stubbly forearms. I like shaved balls and shaved holes. And I like a dick that is shaved completely clean. And I like it when a guy has completely shaved his pubes. I also like most variations of the foregoing. One thing I can't abide is when a guy has shaved his eyebrows, although I do like it when somebody has cut notches in one or both of his eyebrows.

Jazz or blues, especially Chicago blues.

Sure, there are plenty of built Asians. Just not many escorting. Asian men tend have beautiful legs - big calves and sinewy quads and hamstrings. I have also noticed how many old Asian guys still look great in a pair of blue jeans, even in their 70s.

He was kind of shallow and new-agey. I remember we were talking about Chinese immigrants that work in massage places in malls and I said I got foot massages regularly in one of those kind of places and that I made it a point to tip well. And I said I wanted to show my appreciation for a service that I found valuable and he lectured me about not feeling like I needed to take care of them, because they were there completely by their own choice, etc. etc.

I saw him 7-8 years ago. I enjoyed it. At the time he was tall, dark, handsome and lean. The massage was OK, but not stellar, the sex was enjoyable, but not memorable. He was nice, somewhat chatty. The experience did feel a little programmed, but I thought - Oh well, maybe that's LA.

I saw him once years ago. I found him very attractive - tall, dark, handsome, lean. The massage wasn't bad, but not stellar and the erotic part was enjoyable but not memorable. I remember we talked alot all the way through the massage and he was fun to talk to.

I've toyed with impact play. Many years ago, I had a FB who introduced me to gut-punching. He had fabulous flat tight abs, and he liked my abs, so we would get together occasionally and punch each other in the gut to see who could take more. It was very erotic. Haven't ever done with anyone else. Another time, I had a studly a brown-leather top work me over with a heavy rawhide belt. Again, very erotic, but I haven't done it since. Some of those things I would be a little afraid to try now because I take a prescription blood thinner - I bruise pretty readily.

People need sex - that's all there is to it. It's one of the most important things in life. Living without it just isn't a reasonable option.

Occasionally, if a piece of mail looks important, one asks the other if it is OK to open it.

The thing that struck me is his going through your bags, opening your mail, etc. That signified a fundamental lack of communication that made him feel entitled to invade your privacy. My partner and I are married, we've been together for nearly 25 years. In spite of that, neither of us would ever look at the other's checkbook, cellphone, dresser drawers, closets, billfold, pockets, bags, etc. We are deeply respectful of each other's privacy. If either want's to know something, we just ask. I agree, some counseling is in order, with an eye to establishing a new level of communication between the two of you.

I used to go to occasional BDSM parties. Scenes like that weren't uncommon.

Once I traded massages with a professional. When giving me feedback on the massage I gave him, he said it "wasn't unpleasant." Definitely a case of damning with faint praise.

Escorts - in SF? Not really. If you search escorts in SF on RM and filter for ethnicity=Asian, you get 4 hits. If you filter additionally for body build=muscular, you get a single hit, for a masseur.

I don't know many Asians well, but most appear to be very into family. A lot of what whites take for granted in the way of personal autonomy doesn't even seem available to Asians because family obligations are felt so keenly. I know one young Asian guy pretty well from my gym - American-born Chinese. His parents are foreign-born and he lives with them. He's about 20 years old and we talk all the time mostly about working out, but really about anything. He asks me for advice all the time - on fitness and working out, about his career, etc. He could be gay, but I'm not sure. He's working at muscling out - doing lots of squats and deadlifts - it's giving him a nice perky bubble butt which I am fascinated by.

There just don't seem to be many. I go to a gym where the membership may be more than half Asian and the place is full of spectacularly muscled young Asian men, nearly all of them straight. One just doesn't see many muscled gay men who are Asian. And there just don't seem to be many Asian escorts, muscled or otherwise.

And students smoked in class, flicking their ashes and grinding their cigarettes out on the floor of the lecture hall. It's easy to forget how pervasive smoking was. Everybody smoked everywhere - work places, stores, movie theaters, restaurants, hospitals (yes, hospitals). They lit up without asking when they were guests in the home of others, assuming that it was OK. It wasn't really that long ago - it only changed in the 80s.

Mormons always dress for church. There's a Mormon church down the street from me. On Sunday, a bunch of families with the dads dressed in dark suits and white shirts and moms dressed in their best clothes invades the neighborhood. The women don't wear hats, though.