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I've been to Flynn/Dirk for massage. He's a great guy, very friendly and sweet and he gave an outstanding therapeutic massage. And of course his looks and body are wonderful. At the end of the massage, he asked me if I wanted a happy ending. This, in my book, is not an erotic massage, and I always so "no" to it. It was a bit of a disappointment. I've been thinking about going back to him because he's so much bigger and muscular. I would like to see if he's any better at erotic massage than he was my first time. He also advertises muscle worship. That could be fun - massage/muscle worship with a big handsome muscleboy like him.

You might go away from the experience feeling very well-fucked and with some war wounds like scratches and bite marks.

When you bed a Croatian, you'd better be ready for it.

Marin Cilic - google says Croatian.

Yes - don't suck guys off when you have irritated gums or mouth ulcers. If you are doing what you can to mitigate your risk, it might also reduce your anxiety level.

You could lay off when you have inflamed gums, mouth ulcers, etc.

It's hot not to kiss sometimes - to get your faces within inches of each other, staring in each others eyes, smelling each other's breath and not to kiss. Sometimes quickies or anonymous encounters unfold in this way.

Only one of the times can I clearly trace it to an incident of oral sex, the one to which I referred in my original post. Of course, the other times may have been caused by oral sex.

Non-gonococcal urethritis. Before it was NGU, it was NSU -"non-specific urethritis." Now, they've decided it's chlamydia. Whatever it is, I've had it more times than I can count.

Guilty. Oh, I think you got hosed by the spellchecker - asymptotic??

I got what used to be called NGU in my dick from receiving oral. I guess they have decided that most cases of NGU were actually chlamydia. I remember they treated it with floxin - a first-generation fluoroquinolone. One course didn't do it - I had to have a second course - all from peeing down somebody's throat in a sex club.

Adam Russo has always been a possibility in the back of my mind. I guess I need to move him to "top of mind."

That's a good point. I have showed up for appointments with even high-profile, well-reviewed escorts. The profile pics show a ripped stud with single-digit bodyfat and the reality is a doughboy with 15 - 20% bodyfat. Its very irritating when that happens. I'm tempted to call things off, but never have.

He has always interested me. I seem to remember that, at one time, he and Jake Walker were boyfriends. I may take a chance on him.

In a thread about San Francisco escorts a few weeks ago, GBoi mentioned that Brett was very flaky and recommended having a backup plan. :

That is interesting. At 5'10", I confess to being a tall men's groupie. But I also love guys shorter than me with fireplug builds.

That's too bad. Standing next to a man whose taller than me is one best feelings there is.

I should have made myself clearer, sorry. It wouldn't surprise me if we saw more crimes like this . . . .somebody who snaps and says to himself, "We've been trying to work through a racist system to fight racism for decades, and what has it gotten us? We need to start kicking some ass."

You're the one who brought up the Panthers. The Dallas shooting was a criminal act for sure, and certainly not part of an organized protest. But it was a criminal act borne of an unprecedented level of frustration with the status quo.

Nor am I. I am simply noting the fact of it having happened.

E Even the Panthers weren't the kind of immediate, violent, eye-for-eye retribution we saw in Dallas the other day.

I don't think they've ever fought back in quite such a targeted way.

I've watched every episode, I love it. I even recommend it to people. Me, recommending a TV show, doesn't happen much.

We've been trying to legislate racism out of existence in the US for over a century, yet we still have cops murdering blacks and blacks getting so fed up that they are beginning to fight back.

I know that. But it's a change in perspective that any individual is capable of making. You change one mind and you've made some progress.