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Gorgeous picture. I have stuffed my dick with a variety of implements and its very erotic. As the implement slides in, I get a very stiff boner. I would love to try it with a partner with real sounds. I had a cystoscopy a couple years ago and, surprisingly, found it really enjoyable. The uro used a blunt syringe to pump a local anesthetic into my dick, followed by a syringe full of lube. The scope slid in nearly painlessly. The feeling of the scope snaking around in my bladder was very pleasurable.

Some also inject themselves with insulin for the anabolic effect. A side-effect is that it causes visceral fat to accumulate.

I don't think I have ever seen a straight escort. I'm very curious, though, and probably will at some time. He would have to be someone who is fully interactive though - I like it all, the more the better. Because TH appears to be fully interactive, he might be a good candidate.

But isn't he just saying that TH may not be for everybody? Maybe the reviewer meant chemistry on the part of the client, rather than chemistry on the part of the escort. The fact that he's mostly straight and appears to perform well with men would suggest that chemistry isn't a problem for him. The thing about the review that would send up a red flag for me was " I'm not much into kissing or anal with anybody and I had a fantastic time with TH." That might suggest that the escort's repertoire is limited and that you should keep your expectations low. Nonetheless, I think TH is a total stud and I wouldn't be surprised to find that he's a very sweet guy.

I feel the same way. Not my normal type, but I'm very curious about him.

That may be true. However, an alcoholic who is living sober successfully would never give away responsibility for his/her sobriety to anyone else. A person whose relationship with an escort has gone awry has no less of a responsibility to manage the situation.

What an angel.

Alcoholics attain mastery over their obsession by never picking up the first drink, a day at a time.

But he has total control over how he behaves. In controlling his behavior, he can achieve a degree of mastery of his feelings, as you found.

This is such an important point. A grown man doesn't wake up and suddenly realize that life just isn't worth living if he can't live it with his escort. If he falls madly in love, it's because he allowed it to happen. He started seeing too much of the escort, he discarded boundaries that should have been allowed to remain in place, etc., etc.

Exactly.

I said "I love you"to an escort once. It was just a misstep. I didn't really mean "I LOVE YOU." I meant more that I loved what we did together, or loved our time together, or some such. He is a special man, but I'm not in love with him.

I have an enjoyable Christmas Day ritual - I go to the Jewish Community Center to work out. In addition to the goyim like me who visit once a year, the place is packed with nice Jewish boys, many of which would be entirely suitable for presentation to mom.

I think emailed him from his website. He responded almost immediately. Then we exchanged cell phone numbers and texts.

I got together with him a few weeks ago. We played, essentially non-stop, for several hours.

You might try Tyger. He's in his late 40's. Skill, imagination, very agreeable disposition.

Another thought that just occurred to me is that people don't necessarily become wiser as they age. Client #1, at least in the area of sexual prowess, may not have been getting any wiser than the 20-somethings he was emulating, while client #2 had come to terms with his limitations. This conversation reminds me a bit of my mother. As a young adult, I came to realize she was extremely status-conscious - always concerned with knowing the right people, having the right job, living in the right part of town, having the right silverware, etc. and she was extremely dissatisfied because there was so much about our life that wasn't "right." I assumed that as she got older she would become wiser, stop pressuring herself and achieve some peace of mind. She never did - just craved status and its trappings more and more the older she got.

Some also go for really tall men.

Late middle age (or early old age) is an interesting territory to negotiate. You have to be careful not to give in to the pressure to apologize for getting old and to stay out of the way of younger people. But you also have to not delude yourself about the fact, that yes, you really are getting old. "Aging gracefully" cuts two ways. It can mean behaving the way other people think you should be acting at your age, or it can mean being the best you can be, for your age. I was more than 60 years old when I got my first tattoo. I realized I was finally old enough to get tattooed if I felt like it. A youngish straight guy who I am friendly with asked me if I might be having a mid-life crisis. I just smiled, shrugged my shoulders and said, "Could be."

India is a major medical tourism destination.

I have Kaiser - they won't do it. They don't think it is a proven treatment. If I could get an IR at Kaiser to do it, my co-pay would be $100.00, I think.

What a gorgeous guy!

I need a venous angioplasty and stent. India seems to be the place for that. In the US it would cost ~$100K. In India it would cost around $10K.

I started looking into medical tourism ~10 years ago because I wasn't happy with the cost of available treatment options in the US for a condition I had. Even then, Belgium was a major destination. Back then, I read, most of the medical tourists to Belgium were Brits unhappy with their National Health Service.

It's nice to know that the Belgian healthcare system otherwise gets gold stars. Now if they can just do something about the time patients have to wait for appointments. There was a study published a couple of years ago that revealed that average cost of a particular surgical procedure in the US was ~$80,000.00. The same procedure could be had in Belgium for less then $20,000.00. And that cost, I believe, included expenses for travel to and from Belgium from the US.