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To me tonsil raping, is having your tongue deep enough into your partner's throat that you touch the back of his throat with your tongue. When you're both into each other that much, it can be great. But, as I said, that sort of connection is rare. So, practically speaking, it's kind of gross.

When you're with somebody who doesn't kiss, it isn't awful. Tonsil raping is great if the connection is very passionate, to the extent that both partners want to eat each other alive. But those experiences are singular. So, for the most part, it's off the table. If somebody wanted to start that way, it would be totally obnoxious.

I agree. I think it's pretty sexy. I'll play along.

Don't discount the human factor in escorting. In general, not just with escorts, you often encounter interesting rules people have about kissing. The one I like, is with closeted guys, or bi guys or whatever, is as long as they don't kiss they're not gay. They can even take it up the ass, and as long they don't kiss, they're not gay.

Fisting.

Maybe you just have a tender hole and need to go slow. Maybe you need a different lube. I know that FF bottoms all have strong individual preferences in the type of lube they use. Some even create their own blends of various gels and oils.

Only three years between procedures? What's up with that?

I'd clean out and go back to the hot stud that made you want it so bad. He sounds like a keeper. Just make sure he knows you're a beginner.

I don't know anything about Orlando.Is there any reason to go to Orlando, besides Disney World and Maxx?

If I were ever to go to Orlando, Maxx would be my "Top" priority.

I get a lot of compliments on my build from young straight guys. But they always qualify them with "for your age."

I get hit on by men around my own age a lot. Which is great. I didn't notice it until I became one of them, but there's a large population of successful, in-shape, well-kept men in their 50s - 60s who chase after each other instead of chasing after young men. I'm finding I really enjoy this group. Now and again, somebody in their 20s - 30s hits on me online. I have an interesting flirtation going on right now. A classicly tall, dark and handsome real estate broker, around 60, who I assumed was straight. But I'm not sure he is anymore. We've had lunch a couple of times and he sends me flirty emails. We've talked about doing a deal together.

Before they disappeared, he had a lot of great massage reviews. I might be going to New York late this fall. Andres could be on my list of things to do.

It also helps if you can find materials that are deliberately slowly-spoken. From time to time, I listen to the the slowly-spoken German news on Deutsche Welle. Then I listen to it again at normal speed.

That's what I use as background music - KDFC.

I'm speechless.

Me too, R & B is my favorite sex music. For general background music, I like classical, particularly any of Mozart's piano concertos.

The guy I knew wisely realized that he had a shelf life as a model, left modeling, got an MBA. The last time I talked to him, he was happily working away as a product manager in Silicon Valley.

I've known many waiter/models, actor/models and model wannabes. I've known one real model - the real thing - he was a runway model for Armani in the early 90's, lived in Milan, traveled the world. It always puzzled me how he became a model. He was a nice-looking guy, for sure, but not the kind of nice-looking one usually associates with models of international stature. He was a redhead, maybe that had something to do with it.

I took a 3-week immersion course in German quite a long time ago. When I flew back to the US, I sat next to a German woman who was going to visit relatives for Thanksgiving. When I told her what I had just completed, she switched to German and wouldn't speak English and kept reminding me to speak German. We talked the entire 10 hours back to the US. I was toasted by the end of the flight.

I had completely forgotten about sex as a learning modality for foreign languages. I lived in Europe long enough ago so that it wasn't uncommon to end up in bed with someone who didn't speak a word of English. It was always fun to pick up a few words of his language in the time you spent together.

It's a difficult sound to master for speakers of English.

I think the Dutch, as a whole, may speak English better than any other national group on the continent. The Danes might be just about as good. And Dutch men, well . . .

I think it is. A young Dutch woman demonstrated it for me, and it sounded like someone who had bad post-nasal drip trying to clear his/her throat. Dutch is supposed to be easy for native speakers to learn because the words can be so similar to English words, and the grammar is not much more complicated than English grammar. I remember when I was in high school learning Latin, the grammar was so complicated that I thought, "No wonder this is dead language."

Krankenschwester and Krankenhaus may be my two favorite words in the German language. To a native speaker of English, they are inherently funny just because of their sound, and they are doubly funny when you know that they mean "nurse" and "hospital." And then "Krankenwagen" for "ambulance" is pretty funny too. There is that sound in Dutch, the one that the Dutch say only a native Dutch speaker can get right. I had a friend years ago who was a doctor. He went to medical school in Amsterdam and had a Dutch wife. He spoke Dutch very well, I loved to listen to him. He said it wasn't a difficult language to learn at all.