Rudynate
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Is there a difference between"stagnant" and "stable?"
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I have never hired one and they do seem extremely rare, but I surely would love to hire one. I used to look on CL sometimes. I found that they often refer to themselves as "Desis, " so that might be a good search term for locating possible candidates. I have a big tattoo on my shoulder of Shiva Nataraja, which has been an excellent coversation piece for chatting up Desi men.
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My first hire twenty years ago was from a text ad in the backpages of a gay paper. I decided to take the plunge. He turned out to be everything I could have hoped for. We've become more risk-averse about hiring in the internet age, but isn't that part of the value proposition in information technology - more information equals better choices/decisions?
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The OP asked what effect "would" that have. In other words, he was eliciting true responses. He wasn't interested in people's notions of what effect it "should" have.
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It might be a good strategy for an extremely popular escort who wanted to manage demand.
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Not a dealbreaker, but it might pose an obstacle that I would rather not negotiate.
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I talk to a Latin daddy at my gym all the time. I think he's probably straight, so no possibility there. He has this big, blocky bearish body with big muscles, calves the size of hams, tattoos everywhere. He is so friendly and aproachable that we stand and talk and laugh for 10-15 minutes whenever we see each other. I always go away from it with a boner.
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Fucking beautiful. I would take a chance on him.
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I think when I saw him, I rimmed him. He seemed a little surprised and said he didn't do that with eveybody.
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San Francisco is 49 square miles surrounded by reality, so I know it isn't this way everywhere, but here, if you flirt with a straight guy, he may just flirt right back. Even though they're straight, the still enjoy the game.
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In fact, straight guys in the know are extra flattered by attention from gay men because they realize that we have higher standards of appearance.
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More and more straight guys are just flattered when a gay guy checks them out. But there are still those dinosaurs that are made uncomfortable by it.
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Years ago, a Popeye's store opened in my neighborhood. The manager was a tall goodlooking very well built man. Believe me, before my infatuation ran it's course, I ate a lot of fried chicken.
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I gave up skimpy speedos a long time ago, not because they no longer looked good, but because I realized I didn't have anything to prove. There's a lot of self-confidence to be found in not trying too hard. I really enjoy the full-cut speedo trunks.
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You'll just know.
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Early on, I loved the original series, but I thought it eventually jumped the shark. I might tune in for a look, but my expectations are low.
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I usually get off 1-2x day - with my partner, a FB or a hire maybe 2x week.
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I had a really nice butter keeper that I got at Williams Sonoma some time ago. It was porcelain and it was very heavy and had a heavy cover also. It kept the butter a little lower than room temperature so that it stayed a little bit firm and didn't get rancid. Alas, it got broken.
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I don't remember who, but a member on here confirmed that, yes, he can be deliciously dirty. I occasionally see him at the gym when he visits here. He looks great in person.
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I spent an afternoon with him and highly recommend him.
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I've noticed the trend toward lts of pics. I like it. You get a better sense of the guy and it's fun scrolling through all those pics.
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It's surprising what you can put up with with a little willingness. My first exposure to AA was at the York Street Club in Denver, somewhat famous in AA circles. Drag queens, bikers, investment bankers, skid row drunks soccer moms and bull dykes attended the same meetings and found a way to get along.
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Lots of people in AA have sort of a vague, quasi-agnostic idea of a higher power and it seems to work for them. I don't have a real clear idea of what a higher power is for me, and I haven't drank alcohol in over 35 years, so it seems to have worked, such as it is.
