Rudynate

FF isn't for sissies.

Experienced FF bottoms develop a high level of skill at relaxing their holes.

Perhaps, but isn't the German word for fist, "Faust?"

I correspond with a few Europeans into FF. Germans, French, and Italians all seem to use the word "fist," the French, referring to the activity in general, say "le fist."

In my 20's, I had a crush on a woman old enough to be my mother. She was a very powerful dynamic woman, and I admired her deeply.

Test of what?

He There's an important distinction here. Active involvement is a different thing from sitting idly by. The law doesn't recognize an affirmative duty to come to someone's rescue. If she had known he was going to commit suicide and not done anything to prevent it, she wouldn't have done anything unlawful. She could have stood there looking in the window as he died, and she wouldn't have done anything unlawful. Active encouragement - whole 'nother thing. She acted with "reckless disregard of the safety and well-being of another."

You're ignoring their previous relationship. They had discussed it extensively, and she knew he wanted to do it. He had set the process in motion and then lost his nerve. The fact that she knew he wanted to do it and actively encouraged him over time exacerbates her culpability.

But she was convicted of involuntary manslaughter. The level of culpability required is that she acted with reckless disregard for his safety and well -being. She directed him to get back into the cab of a truck filled with CO, insisted on it, even. Need we say more?

A masseuse, being female, is unlikely to be hung, unless you mean that you're looking for a big-bosomed masseuse.

I occasionally see black escorts say in their ads that they're into race play.

You-In the dictionary? Under what listing?

Tell us what "enlightened" is.

I'd love to show them to you.

he said: If you don't like tats .......don't fuck guys with tats. You said: to each his own. How are they different?

Tattoos are like dogs in that way - excellent conversation pieces.

It was impolite of him to put you on the spot like that, but did he really "wast[e] no time ushering [you] out the door." You were leaving anyway, and maybe there was just nothing more to say.

I think the Chinese pictograph thing may be mostly an urban myth. Everybody seems to have a story about someone they know (of) who got a tattoo that included Chinese characters and who belatedly found out what the characters stood for. The guy is invariably an enormous muscle stud, usually non-white, or bikers, etc. and the characters say "I am a pussy" or something similar. The people who like to repeat these stories are usually members of the tattoo police who take every tattoo they see as a personal affront and would like to think of that as just punishment for having done the unthinkable, and also, for being big and powerful and belonging to a group at the margins.

I agree, that's something I don't understand - how somebody can walk into a tattoo studio and, on impulse, choose a design out of a book and have an artist whom they don't know tattoo them with their selected design. I would never have a text tattoo or a pictocraph in a foreign language, but that's just me. The only text tattoo I've ever seen that I liked was on a semi-famous performance artist here in San Francisco who I know slightly. Down one forearm, he has the word "Surrender." Down the other forearm he has the word "persevere." Wisdom for the ages.

I had the most enjoyable flirtation the other day. I was showering in the wet area at my gym before getting in the hot tub, I turned around and this tall handsome boy a third my age, sitting at the edge of the swimming pool, was looking at me with a big smile on his face, and I asked myself,"What is someone like him doing smiling at someone like me?" I had to find out, so I went over and said hi. He said he loved all my tats and wanted to hear about them. We spent a few minutes talking tats and went our separate ways. It was a really enjoyable encounter.

I really enjoy tattoo-bashing threads.

And you know this how?

But maybe they actually know what the Hebrew says. How do you tell the difference between "fake" enlightenment and "real" enlightenment? Are you enlightened? Are you expert at recognizing the enlightened?

That way too simple for the tattoo police.