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What does that actually mean? That you reject a celebrity endorsement out-of-hand because it's a celebrity endorsement, or that you routinely ignore them, or that you are willing to consider them as possible sources of valuable information?

I've heard of putting an alka-setzer up somebody's butt and then giving them an enema. Never tried it.

Alcohol up the butt is supposed to be a very fast route of administration. Did he get really loaded?

Rubbing alcohol on a guys hole? Sounds awful.

I smoked a lot when I was young. Didn't touch it all for years and years. Started again as a means of coping with chronic pain. For a few years, I got high a few times a month. Recently, I've lost interest in it. Realized I prefer being clear-headed for the most part.

A friend of a friend died via assisted suicide recently. He was in his mid-80s, had end stage kidney disease and was facing going on dialysis.

If, in the spirit of being an independent thinker, you reflexively choose the viewpoint opposite a celebrity's, you are being as much of an automaton as you would be if you thought, "Well, if X thinks it, it must be so." You are allowing yourself to be used by your view of yourself as an independent thinker.

But you've still allowed the celebrity's viewpoint to determine yours.

I really like to tongue-fuck a guy. It works best if his hole is already stretched from fucking or fisting. When his hole is stretched, you can get your tongue way up there. Sends me into another world.

I like their explanation better - much sexier.

He may have loved her, but that isn't why he was doing these things she ordered him to do that appeared to be against his nature. His nature was to be submissive. Having sex with men at her insistence, even though he wasn't wired that way, was an act of deep submission, and I suspect the two of them found it extremely gratifying.

Why? He wasn't her victim. He was her slave, by his own choice.

Air quotes for sure. He could have walked away any time. I never doubted that the relationship was consensual.

Many years ago, I knew a straight married couple who lived BDSM all the time. She was the dom, he was the sub. They lived in leather and maintained their dom/sub dynamic all the time. He was an impossibly hot tall bearded biker type. She started making him have sex with other guys, but he was very resistant. I saw him alone in a bar once and was trying to chat him up. He was very uncomfortable, said his wife had ordered him to go in and pick somebody up. I would see them at parties. He wanted to hang on her, but she would order him to circulate and act like a man instead of being such a pussy.

At 65, of course I'm older than my hires, but sometimes not by much, since I love daddies. I hardly think about age. I just relate to everybody as a contemporary. I have a friend who is 85, and he feels like my contemporary. Some younger men relate to me as an older man, but most dont.

so he's into assplay

I was wondering if your mind hadn't skipped a track.

I got it years ago and they gave it in split doses.

Why not get the Hep A and Hep B vaccines?

It's been around for some time now. I think I got it about two years ago.

It isn't just businesses. If someone gets drunk while a guest in your home, you can be held responsible. I think it's a reasonable policy. What it means is that it isn't OK to keep giving someone who is obviously inebriated more to drink and then allowing them to go out and do things like operating a motor vehicle. It isn't too much to ask that the providers of alcoholic beverages exercise judgment and moderation in the interest of public safety.

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Very sensible.

The laws regarding sales and service of alcohol could be really weird. I grew up in New York State. When I was a kid, restaurants couldn't serve alcohol until 1PM on Sunday. If you had been drinking at the bar at a restaurant and you moved to a table, it was against the law for you to carry your own drink, a restaurant employee had to carry it for you. When I lived in Colorado, bars had to close at 12pm on Sunday. The only alcoholic beverage stores could sell on Sunday was 3.2 beer. 18 year olds could drink 3.2 beer, but nothing else. There were actually bars that sold only soft drinks and 3.2 to cater to the 18-21 crowd. The laws were truly wacky.

Same-My mother sent me to the store for cigarettes all the time. It was against the law to sell cigarettes to minors, but nobody cared.