To me, "boyfriend experience" implies a longer encounter, multiple hours and involves a lot of kissing, giving and receiving of affection, mostly vanilla sex and a fair amount of time devoted to chat and cuddling etc. To me, a one-hour appointment is kind of a quickie, and therefore its difficult to pour everything into it that someone might hope for in a BFE. I don't think of a BFE as including much in the way of BDSM or other kink, although I did read in an escort's profile the other day that he specializes in the "BDSM-BFE ."