Rudynate

You must hang with the wrong crowd.

I have friends who always have a nice brunch on Jan. 6. I like to have people over for St. Lucy's day - December 13, I think.

I'm a huge fan of black men. I could go on and on about why I find them so sexy, but I do. I actually made a conscious decision recently to have more black men in my life.

I wondered whether that was a serious question. You'd be a VERY busy escort if it was logarithmic.

As does almost any service professional.

I think it's sublime. I go into a zone when I have my face in a guy's ass. I like to get rimmed too, but I get bored easily unless the guy is really good at it. I hired a guy recently who was superb at rimming.

For many years, I slept nude, then got in the habit of sleeping in underwear. I've recently gone back to sleeping nude after reading that it is supposed to be more healthful than wearing clothes to bed.

That's a good point. I'm not an upscale client. If I had a serious fetish for "real" straight guys, I might be. I just adore men - all sorts of them.

Do you think you're the first one to have figured that out? Everybody knows that. It's promotion, puffery, advertising, etc. etc There are guys who say they're straight that aren't straight, guys who say they're 32 when they're 42, guys who say they are wealthy who live paycheck-to-paycheck, etc., etc. I think it's funny you're so preoccupied with something that everybody knows and that they just roll with. It's an age-old phenomenon.

The only reason to hire is because you want to. If you want to tell yourself that your hiring to check out the competiton, fine, but, in reality, if you ever do it, it will because you want to. And its pretty fucking great to think it over, select just the guy for you, hire him and let him make you happy. Sex for hire is different from unpaid sex. I have a partner - we have sex several times a month. I have FBs that I get together with from time to time without paying. But I still hire. It's a singular experience.

If you're not a millionaire, then your statement that you experience yourself as a millionaire is self-delusion. You could however aspire to being a millionaire. But aspiration and being are different mindsets.

I think you are articulating a fantasy rather than a system of classification.

What is the difference between a "real" straight guy and someone "straight-identified?" Are you saying that a "straight-identified" guy is a gay or bi guy who is misrepresenting himself as straight? In present use, when we say that some "identifies" as a certain gender or orientation, it means that they experience themselves as being of that gender or orientation. To me, someone who experiences himself as straight is "really" straight.

Viagra=penile implant is a false equivalency. Viagra is a drug, that, once taken, is completely undetectable. In order for Viagra to work, the person taking it has to experience sexual arousal. The penile implant is a medical device that allows the user to achieve an erection, whether the user is sexually aroused or not, simply by deploying the implant. I imagine use of pde5 inhibitors is very common among escorts, and I don't care. I might have an issue with a penile implant. Just sayin'.

Mindfulness training. There are a couple very famous books on it. The titles escape me.

Is it overwhelm?

Right - just like that.

One of my all-time best experiences with an escort. We both agreed that another date was just a question of "when," not "if." Haven't had bandwidth since, though.

Not long ago, I got together with a guy who alerted me at the time I booked that he would be wearing a Holter monitor because he was being evaluated for a-fib. I said that was fine with me. The day of the appointment, he texted me a photograph of the device taped in place on his chest. It was a tiny thing the size of a small wristwatch -absolutely no issue for me. Nonetheless, I appreciated his being completely candid and transparent.

If you're frantic for air, I can see that it wouldn't work for you.

I really like deep-throating and getting face-fucked, and I don't like to ruin the mood. When I need some air, I press gently on his stomach or his torso with the flat of my hand. I've never yet encountered a guy who didn't back off after that signal.

To me, that's a fairly major thing. I would like to have been given an opportunity to decide in advance whether that was something I was willing to experience. I think it's wise to mention in your profile. A mention in your profile will automatically weed those prospects who might have a problem with it.

Life has a psychological effect. The post upthread about peaches was so apt. Everyone encounters the reality, in one way or another, that not everybody likes peaches. I certainly agree, nonetheless, that it doesn't cost anything for everyone to be a little nicer to each other. Escorts, because their looks are part of their stock in trade, are particularly exposed. I would hope that an escort who is really bothered by negative feedback about his appearance would either recognize that, every time it happens, it's an opportunity to grow a thicker hide, or realize that he is not cut out for a line of work where his looks are subject to such close scrutiny.

They might have been in a hurry. Prepping for bottoming isn't something you rush.

Hose out well.