adventurous old guy

1. Yes. Despite personal preferences mentioned, one hour is very common.
2. No. Some require it but most won't. In my experience, the best escorts I have met did not.
3. Ultimately you both are responsible for time. I will usually set a phone alarm. Also feel free to discuss with the escort if you prefer he keep track of your time.
4. I think a good goal is mutual climax, however, (in general) you do need to clarify this with your escort as some will not climax if they aren't asked. Some see multiple clients in a day etc.
5. This is a tricky one and very situational. In general you should pay the agreed upon fee in a short duration appointment as long as fraud/intentional deception isn't involved.

Two years ago in London, he and I overlapped by one day and I tried to hire him. He quoted me $600 USD, and when I asked him about time, his reply was along the lines of more than an hour, long enough to have a lot of fun, don't focus on that. And then he offered some thoughts about how it would go given that I had asked him to bottom. I won't be able to convey exactly how charming, professional and hot he made it sound, and it's a true regret that I couldn't make it work with my schedule during that one day of overlap.

An alternative approach is to move out of the US, but that's a little difficult at present.
 
And doesn't help if the objects of your desires live in the US!

LOL Can't remember who first shared with me, but it was someone here. Happy to pass along.?

LOL Can't remember who first shared with me, but it was someone here. Happy to pass along.?

I haven't met the guy (I think I'd like to!), but from many of the photos I'd say his legs are very nicely/well proportioned.
 
Side note: last night I saw a guy at a bar here locally working the door. he had the most amazing legs, and calves. I so just wanted to touch, massage, even nibble on (ha), them.... Nice legs are SO sexy.

Or why not hire people who can't because they no longer are employed because the businesses they were employed with to be a sort of "Mask Squad" that is empowered to write tickets that have penalties. The squad person would take a photo of the person without a mask - sort of like pictures of parking violations. Then have administrative hearings if a person wants one where the picture is part of the evidence to show that the person was not wearing a mask on such and such a day. The person could try to prove they were or they could simply pay the ticket. It could then be appealed to the circuit court if the person wanted to dispute the decision of the administrative tribunal. There we have due process.

I love Mayor Lightfoot's attitude. She channels an effective combo of no-nonsense parent, former prosecutor and (for those of us raised Catholic) that nun from grade school who always made you think you were going to go to hell if you misbehaved, lol. When I go out, I count the number of people wearing masks. Its been around 50/50 in my neighborhood for weeks, with younger people much more likely to be the ones without. But when the Mayor scolds and threatens as she did yesterday, there's usually an uptick. That's leadership. ?

all new pictures posted on his ad today.......we got him on the run!.....yay, I get to post this again:
 

Like flies on shit!!

New ad in Chicago today. Intel anyone? TGTBT?
 
https://rentmen.eu/BigTroubleMaker

New ad in Chicago today. Intel anyone? TGTBT?
 
https://rentmen.eu/BigTroubleMaker

In defense of the "one hour in my hotel room" guys, I was often one of them. Here's why: Only hired when I traveled, and found it much more palatable to host at my hotel where I knew the sheets were clean, vis-a-vis wherever the service provider stayed, sometimes sharing a room with another, sometimes with the bed still unmade after whoever was there before me. As for time, I prefer longer too. But on a handful of occasions with a new provider, despite the set up communications, the man who showed up and I didn't click for one reason or another. So I learned to default to a one hour appt for a first meeting with an offer to go longer if we hit it off. Worked well for me in meeting "quality people" and often seemed to be appreciated by the provider too, given that I was an unknown to him as well.

In defense of the "one hour in my hotel room" guys, I was often one of them. Here's why: Only hired when I traveled, and found it much more palatable to host at my hotel where I knew the sheets were clean, vis-a-vis wherever the service provider stayed, sometimes sharing a room with another, sometimes with the bed still unmade after whoever was there before me. As for time, I prefer longer too. But on a handful of occasions with a new provider, despite the set up communications, the man who showed up and I didn't click for one reason or another. So I learned to default to a one hour appt for a first meeting with an offer to go longer if we hit it off. Worked well for me in meeting "quality people" and often seemed to be appreciated by the provider too, given that I was an unknown to him as well.

There are eight million stories in the naked city. This has been one of them."

I really enjoy watching providers and will often hire two at a time, or hire one to pick someone up on Grindr. I hired a beautiful top and we picked out a pretty great looking bottom on Grindr that was open to me watching the two of them. The bottom guy lives close to me but I’d consider out of my league.
 
They had an incredible romp, that was really fun to watch. The bottom didn’t know the top was being paid.
 
The bottom had been hitting me up on Grindr every few days asking if my buddy and I would come back, it was fun etc.
 
I finally leveled with him and told him that I hired the top because I enjoy watching hot men fuck in person, and that he probably wouldn’t be back as I like variety.
 
The bottom said he really enjoyed having me watchand asked if I wanted to come over for free and watch him play with his dildo.
 
Well I got super turned on, and he came on to me and we’ve literally been having sex every night this week.
It’s been a week of really exciting sexual exploration with a man entirely out of my league but is turned on by some part of me that I would never have had access to without using the top provider as an entryway.
This feels off topic but in my head it made sense to be shared here. Sorry to hijack the thread lol

Sot this is a story not exactly on point, but close enough. I was once on a team at work with a very beautiful young man, in his prime, 20 years younger than me, who escorted on the side. He was from a wealthy family, well educated and did it for the thrill. Told me his first sexual experiences were being "tipped" for great service he offered some of his dad's friends after caddying for them at the country club. Had issues with his parents, this was his way to rebel as a teenager, and it still gave him a rush to be paid for sex. Anyway, this all came out over drinks one night at a hotel when we were both traveling for work. I was the lead of our work team, and had gone to bat for him in meeting when his boss, who was a jerk, was criticizing him while simultaneously taking credit for his work. Anyway, his life story was a prelude for offering to have sex to thank me for my support. I declined -- never thought it was a good idea to have sex with co-workers -- but we were both relaxed and what ensued was a really fun, flirty conversation where he kept teasing, "You know I'm really good at this. You know, people pay me for this."
 
Great memory and fantasy material, that I role-played a couple times since with service providers, Said yes instead of no, lol, in those sessions.

I remember one more, an escort I'd seen a few times. When I saw him initially at the bar, he noticed I kept looking his way and came over to chat. About an hour into the conversation he mentioned he was an escort, but by that time I was sold :-) We met several times after that. Then, a couple years later I ran into him at a restaurant, he mentioned his landlord had unexpectedly sold the house and he was out on the street soon; I told him he was welcome to stay with me until he found a new place; no "quid pro quo" expected. He came back to my house, and shortly after I went to bed, he came into my room naked and crawled into bed with me. Oddly enough, I don't remember if we did much of anything that particular night, I'd just started a new job and didn't want to miss waking up on time. He stayed with me for a few weeks and slept with me most nights.

Yes, I have had escorts that will not charge me for time spent together, but typically after several paid hours together. However, there is one escort I met about 10 years ago that changed my life. We met online one Saturday night and he invited me up to his place. We hit it off right away and had awesome sex. I saw him 3 more times and on the 4th date, an overnighter, he didn't take the envelope I left for him on the dining room table. I thought he had forgotten it, so i ran after him. When I caught up with him I discreetly hand the envelope to him. He said he didn't forget it, but he could no longer take my money when he was having more fun than I was (I assure you I was having just as much fun as he was). That was the beginning of our relationship and we are still together.

Cornfed and “holesome”? Clever spelling or misspelling? ?

Maybe this way: There's four or five brothers who dance and hook up out of the Corner Pocket hustler bar in New Orleans. Have chatted with a couple of them, and basically they brought one another along. The oldest loves to chat if you buy him drinks and was kind of fascinating to talk to -- one of 12 or 13 siblings. Takes credit for bringing the younger ones along, teaching them the ropes. My sense is they're looking for regulars, or maybe sugar daddies. I had a bunch of N.O. travel last year, and stopped in whenever in town. The roster of brothers ebbed and flowed, but there were always a couple there.
 
A million stories in the city...

HUGE pet peeve for me too, epidemic at my gym. After texting while driving, the 2nd worst collateral effect of apps and text messaging.

Who: So the guy I''d put on this list, now retired, is Arek from NY.
 
Why: Handsome, built, intensely in the moment, as reflected in eye contact and body language. Hungry kisser, while being an eager bottom. I remember pulling out of the intensity from time to time to grin and laugh about what a good time we were having, and he grinned back. When the fun was done, wow what a nice, interesting, engaging guy. Only saw him twice before he retired, hope he's having a great life now.

I always tell big dick guys that will bb btm for me that I don't need them to get a hard-on, that I want them and not their dicks. Which none of them believe... but then once they realize ii's true, as they start getting a real hard-on I shout "don't get a hard-on" which is a lie since a genuine "i'm excited hard-on" is IT
 
When I mean "they" I mean 2 guys since I'm just too poor to afford rentmen boys (there really are that many $500/hour clients out there???) and that muscle-bb-btms are practically non-existent

Very different pics.
 
Old adage but still true I guess: Necessity is the mother of invention. And reinvention, and re-reinvention, and so on.