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Men in general are best at about 30-35.

Men in general are best at about 30-35.

that piece is obviously a Reno Gold promotion piece by a site that promotes OF accounts (probably for a fee).
and most of the guys are putting up "Free" OnlyFans now in addition to their paid ones because most of their income comes from selling soft-core vids and tips instead of monthly subscriptions (which don't last anyway) 
but it all falls when people realize it's just teasing and no sex. it's a hustle. 
 

Not only do I have to see a face picture, but 95 percent of the time I need to hear the voice. A few years ago, a saw an ad for a guy that looked like someone that I would really be into. I called his number & the minute he picked up the phone & I heard his voice & the way he spoke I knew he was not what I was looking for. Some guys refuse to take one minute to talk to you. Thats kind of fucked up. 

I like him so much better when he doesn't talk.  

Your dog looks more like a dog while his dog looks like its face was punched in. 

Not only will I never hire someone without seeing their face, I wonder how many great guys I’ve missed out on because they do not post face pictures in their ads & I just skip over them. I don’t even bother contacting them to ask them for a face picture. I don’t care how big their dick is or how jacked their body is...it’s the face that matters. (And they don’t necessarily have to be what most would consider “good looking”.)  

I would never hire without seeing a face pic.

Boris Sánchez, picture courtesy of @jjkrkwood
 
 

Everybody should be on a jury at least once.  It's a great experience.

MUSCLE is what it's all about. I love to grab grope feel squeeze admire lick kiss encourage praise and totally get into serious muscle, serious flexing, and serious but friendly and appreciative muscle showoffs. I guess that covers the bases.

Lol I love sucking on pecs especially if they are very nice

Yes there seems to be quite a few of us that love muscular men. ??? Though I'm not muscular at all myself, I appreciate them on other men.

What's the point of handing over a wad of cash without getting to play with the goods?

This.
 
As far back as I can remember, I have been attracted to masculinity. That attribute is the first thing about a guy that attracts my attention....and the lack of a guy being masculine is a deal-breaker for me. If a guy is not uber masculine, nothing else really matters. He can be the most handsome, have the most ripped body, or have the most glorious cock but unless he is truly masculine, I will have zero interest.
 
I end up pretty consistently being attracted to straight or bi guys. It's very rare that in a hiring scenario I end up with a gay guy....and the lack of real masculinity is the reason why. I totally concur with the highlighted quote above. And like lonely_john, I consider it to be a fact.

getting paid when rent is due to get a blowjob or even fuck doesnt change ones sexuality. putting ones pants on on a saturday night and determining what bar ones wants to go to (straight or gay) to get laid by someone that the person is sexually hot for (free of the money equation) is ones sexual desire. now comes in the "ality" part of the equation. it has more to do with the mental side of the person. who one wants to mate with, fall in love with, spend years with in a relationship etc. sex can be and is just that... sex.
 
i have known guys that claim they are "bisexual". when it boils down to it they really just can perform in front of a camera doing a sexual act or with a client for the money. all of them when asked stated they dated women exclusively. imho they are just heterosexuals with a high need to get off and a higher need to get money. the money is the key factor or motivator in this example. a man that can and has had sex with both men and women (as i stated going out on a saturday night free of any outside influences) yet dates exclusively and is emotional only to women and has no mental desire towards men is a bisexed heterosexual... a man that gets married to a woman, has children then comes out late in life knowing that he got married for the wrong reasons in the first place... pressures and norms from their family, society etc yet their true feelings and emotions are with men would be imho a bisexed homosexual. a man that has had sex with both men and women and has dated with inner feelings for both men and women would be a bisexed bisexual.
 
most of the "straight" guys that we are discussing here are being influenced by an outer source. the need for money. they are imho just heterosexual men with a high libido and need for cash. turn it around. if it was a gay escort in this example then he would be a homosexual with a high libido and a need for cash. its not a bad thing at all. we all do this everyday going to our jobs. some love our jobs... some hate our jobs. but at the end of the day it is just that.... a job. getting paid to perform an act or service. so some straight escorts can be terrible at their job of escorting (hate it) or really really good at their job of escorting (think Zeb Atlas). no different than any other person or any other job.
 
Actually Zeb would be a perfect person to pass my explanation along to and see if he agrees with it. my feelings are that if he has only had sex with men either on screen for money and/or with a client for money, has dated and feelings only for women, married with children etc then he is just a heterosexual man that was and is terrific at his job with no innate feelings at all for men. if on the other hand he has had sex with men "freely with no monetary or external persuasion" and only had feelings for women then he is a bisexed heterosexual. if he had sex "freely" with both men and women, has had feelings enough to want to date and fall in love with both men and women then he is a bisexed bisexual.
 
now some will get on here and crow "but sexuality is just fluid". sex can be just fluid but we all do things in life with motivations behind those actions. "ality" is not quite that fluid. we are pretty much born with our innate feelings and desires. i think many many more men would have experimented with sex with other men if there werent so hung up on being told "sex is fluid" and not understanding themselves in the bigger picture of "sexuality is fluid". lets face it, many "straight" guys are scared to death that "getting it on" with another dude would make them gay. we have all heard this so get over it already.
 
by being able to compartmentalize ones feelings, self worth, expressions and one understanding them can and does allow men to just take a step back and realize that sex can be just sex and damn fun! labelling is important. i know that sounds counter to our fucked up society today but think of a psychiatrist. they compartmentalize people all day long to try to help the person understand themselves and to alleviate their issues. i have on at least 3 separate occasions explained this to "straight" men, they think for a second, get a smile on their face and then start asking more and more questions about.. in their words "whats gay sex like"? i dont need to explain what happened next!!!

This is what I miss the most.

I'm one of those guys whose introduction to same-sex sex was with a few close str8 hyperalpha friends in high school and college. They have always been the standard for my same sex attractions. Whether it's physical or psychological, that's been my attraction since mid teens. My bar life is probably over, but I always sought out the old fashioned hustler bars for Str8 trade companionship. Most of these guys online who list themselves as Str8 may or may not actually be Str8, but it's one thing that catches my eye.

I'm a muscle fan, but the younger the muscle, the better. Major twunk fan.

zero interest. actually -zero interest.

There's always the chance the request is not actually from A4A. So many scams trying to get your ID these days.
My PayPal account is falsely "suspended" at least twice a month, and I've not used it in ten years. My auto warranty (which I don't have) has been set to expire "tomorrow" almost 100 times it seems. Its always best to call directly to the supposed entity to verify the situation before responding.
Recently, it appears text has become the preferred way to scam.

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