MrMiniver

I was watching Judy Garland's weekly Sunday night variety show the night Streisand was a guest (Fall, 1963). They were good together.

 

Suddenly Ethel Merman started singing from the audience. Judy brought Merman on stage. Judy noticed that Barbra looked overwhelmed by Merman. so Garland included Streisand in the conversation from that point on. Garland was uncomfortable as a host, but her kindness showed

often..

You must have seen a different clip than I saw. That's been on Youtube for years and Streisand couldn't be more arrogant or condescending towards Merman if she tried. It's embarassing. She's a true bitch.

As for the current Hello Dolly. It's atrocious. Read Terry Teachout's review. It's spot on. Midler's voice is in tatters, she's awful. Hyde Pierce is horribly miscast.

Streisand was too young for the film, and Midler is too old for the stage.

Tip of the hat to Humboldt for mentioning Caleb/Scrappy. I arranged to meet him through TheBestFlex. It was a great session of muscle worship and wrestling around. He's not an escort. But for my tastes, our session was exactly what I was looking for. Definitely recommended.

Did you have an actual wrestling match or wonder if he'd do that? He'd be perfect to wrestle my hot boyfriend which were looking to do.

No offense but I call your statement IGNORANT. I didn't grow up in the 50s either. As for the sexual revolution, it didn't bring us AIDS and death, not using a condom did. So, yeah, you can keep your ignorance but I'll keep my condoms and the sexual revolution. As well as allowing my grown up and lovely mother to have a healthy sex life without any judgement or 9 year old like responses from me cuz she raised me right.

Enjoy your fantasies.

Yeah...that IS pretty "old fashioned". I grew up in the sexual revolution, not the 1950s. Fuck first, and ask questions later. ha ! ( No ..not really...but sex is definitely part of getting to know someone, in MY world). Even my mother, apparently sampled the goods, before she married my father.

No offense but I call that GROSS. I didn't grow up in the 1950s either. As for the sexual revolution? That brought us AIDS and death. You can have it.

I wouldn't be interested in someone long term if there was ZERO sexual connection. So I slept with everyone who I've met on SeekingArrangement.com after our first date.

Well, call me old fashioned, but I can't make a sexual "connection" with a person until I've connected to them on all other levels first. Then it flows naturally. Unless this is only about sex for some and that's not really an arrangement. That's a hook-up.

which was exactly my point in the first place, if your trying to get to know me and make this a longterm arrangement or whatever you don't take me to your bedroom first time you meet me. Thats called a hookup to me lol. I already do that by escorting. Get to know me instead of my ass and dick because in seeking arrangement my goal is ultimately to look for something longterm.. correct?

Yes, absolutely.

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I went through a few good guys and a few rotten apples before I found what I was looking for and, as it turned out, it ended up being way more than an arrangement so I can't complain. There are also lots of guys on there genuinely interested in older men. It's not really a site for escorts, which the site actually makes clear.

I know seeking arrangement is more of a process, those kinds of arrangements don't happen overtime. You do have to have test dates to see if your compatible, but what I was saying is that its not the best thing to take someone to bed first time you meet someone if your trying to have this sugardaddy relationship as you don't know what the person is about yet.

 

I haven't been on a date in so long so I don't know what thats like anymore lol. I hope your not too mad at me papi for speaking up, you can spank me and choke me a little for being a naughty boy if you want but just know I respect you even if we have different opinions as your a client and Im an escort so our experiences are different

With the guy I met on there who I am currently in a relationship with ... we didn't have "sex" until the 3rd or 4th time we me and, by that time, we both knew that we wanted something more than an arrangement.

But even with the other guys I met there ... sex wasn't a component on the first meeting. I need to get to know someone, ask the right questions, see if we're compatible. I didn't got to that site just for sex. I can get that other places. I wanted an more "meaningful" arrangement.

One interesting observation about my SA experiences thus far: I've encountered all kinds of guys - naive, suspicious, inexperienced, unrealistic, modest, boastful, tentative, etc., but I've only come across one game-player. A guy in Houston who was very interested in me very early. He was highly interested in meeting me ASAP and nailing down a date and time. I looked around and it turns out he had a string of BackPage ads he had run in several cities in the Western US.

I mentioned it in passing - it was by no means a disqualifier for me - but his tone changed and he became even more persistent except he began including dollar figures and things he would do. Thanks but no thanks.

 

I see a fair number of RM guys on SA and it doesn't change much from my perspective except that 1) it makes the financial discussion much easier, and 2) I become wary of the relationship being a generic escort assembly-line experience.

I agree. I had only one really bad guy. The rest were in the range you described. I think the worst are the "tentative" guys or the guys who aren't really sure they can do something like this. These are not pros. They often don't know what to do even if you've discussed it thoroughly. There are also many straight guys and I've had those. They end up coming out to your place or something and often can't perform. I do feel a level of sympathy for all the types I've encountered. Most are doing this because they are desperate but .... at the end of the day, I don't want to be your "test drive experiment."

Glad I'm not having to do it right now and will enjoy Valentine's Day with my "guy" who I'm cooking dungeness crab risotto for tonight when he gets home after a long day with clients.

The thing is there are guys out there looking for free sex, and just use that they want a longterm arrangement to get sex from a guy they just met the first time they meet. Perhaps that model wanted to be paid first/upfront before he did anything with you

 

But it doesn't matter as you said he wasn't your type, I had a friend who met a guy and they kissed and did more and the client said he wanted to meet these days and said he could do this amount, and then when my friend got home, the guy texted him, yeah its not going to work out your not my type, after all the stuff they did... So your telling me he wasn't your type when you did all that sexual stuff ok... lol

I'm not sure you read what I wrote or understand the nature of the arrangement. He was there to "audition" for what is, essentially, a part. He failed the audition and was clueless that he had done so. Even though we talked about it incessantly for 4 days. If someone wants something UPFRONT, then they should state that. Otherwise, they need to go with the agreement that was made.

I think it's the "sugar babies" trying to get something for nothing, or something for as little as possible. That shit won't fly with me. You either do what we agreed upon or you get NOTHING. Period. End of discussion. I don't play games.

After reading some of these stories...The Boardwalk and the occasional afternoon fling from CL, looks better and better. For now I think I'll stick with the little stripper boys. More to go around since @BOZO T CLOWN doesn't hire the illegal ones anymore.

 

And God bless you guys for your tenacity. What's interesting is what I didn't hear was a lot of resentment or bitterness on the part of the client. Seems like most of you have learned to play the game, and understand the pros and cons. Like most things in life, out of defeat, often comes victory...fascinating stories.

I see no point in bitterness or resentment. I always have a good time, because I know how to make my own good time even with a loser in the other room

Usually one of the two gets more out of the arrangement and its usually the sugardaddy. I remember I was talking to this guy and I always try to talk about the allowance beforehand so that neither of us waste our time. He didnt want too, he said we can talk about in person. So I end up meeting him and spent the evening with him, and we talked about everything but that, I was waiting for him to bring it up, he never did. Then as he was driving me back to the train station so I can go home, he said I would like to see you again. Thats when I brought up the allowance and he goes um well I can do 100 bucks I guess.

Everyone wants to take me on dates and be my boyfriend but no one wants to help me financially lol

 

P.s holy crap I just remember my password and I realized I hadn't been on there for 5 months

I've got a ton of really bad stories but one involved a male model who I flew out from LA. He really thought A LOT about himself. Spent 4 days with me, wouldn't kiss, would barely touch. I realized it was a bust and he wasn't my type. In the car ON THE WAY TO THE AIRPORT he said "you know what? I actually thought about kissing you in the hot tub last night." I did everything I could to not laugh out loud. But ... it gets better. He said he thought we "were very compatible and he wanted an arrangement." Yes he was that clueless. I played along -- knowing I would never see him again -- and asked him what he wanted. He said $90,000 to get his MBA and that he would be "mine, exclusively for 18 months."

I said sure ... and dropped him off. I immediately erased and blocked him from my phone and email.

As the person who started this thread more than a year ago, I decided to take a look at what's been posted. Tons. And lots of it good. As for me? Well, one of the reasons I've not been on here for a long time is that I met someone from Seeking Arrangements. And we've been in a "relationship" since late summer of 2016. I had quite a few good experiences and quite a few bad ones (including some really clueless guys). Then in last summer of last year, I came upon a 25 year old guy on the site. He's 4.5 hours from Manhattan. He's 25, putting himself through college at a very good school, teaches gymnastics, and has his own training business/gym. He's very self-sufficient, has been on his own since he was 19. Comes from a solid middle class family who live upstate. He called himself an "alpha with a heart." Loves older men, can't relate to young people his age. And he does physique competitions. We texted for a couple days, I thought it had promise so we agreed to meet halfway at a hotel. Because of his limited schedule he said he'd have to leave in the middle of the night to get back for a client appointment at 6 am ....

So we met. It was non-stop talking for 3 hours as we instantly got along. He was very masculine, very alpha. At one point, he said "get over here" and he got on top of me and we stated making out and fooling around. We went to dinner and then settled in to watch a movie in bed. He was obviously very tired (he seems to be going 24/7) and at one point he fell asleep. I let him sleep. I thought it was clear that we had made a connection and that I would be interested in an arrangement with this guy. I was sound asleep and then around 3:30 I felt movement. I figured he got up to leave. I was half asleep when -- not saying a word -- as he was leaving he leaned over me and kissed me on the forehead. I thought this is a keeper.

We spent several weeks back and forth texting -- he unsure if he had the time to do this but wanting to -- but I felt there was something good here. So we eventually settled on a week to go to my lake house. We discussed money and we were all set. By the end of the first day, it was clear something was going on. I wanted to say something, he sensed it and said go ahead. I told him it was crazy but I really liked him and it would be a real fantasy to date. He said "why do you think it's a fantasy ...."

It's 7 months later, and we're still together. We realized that week we had a real connection and decided we should be together. No money has ever exchanged hands. I've tried helping him out from time to time but I usually have to be some money in his jacket pocket or something. He really doesn't want it but I know he could use it. He's very drived, goal oriented, ambitious ... we haven't had a cross word or argument. Our only real conflict is that because he's so busy we don't get to see each other as much as we'd like.

I wake up each day thinking this is too good to be true but then I get a text in the morning saying "good morning sweetie, have a great day, love you ..." and I realize that it is really happening. He's basically a younger, way hotter, more masculine version of me ....

So I'd have to call Seeking Arrangements a success for me. I didn't find what I was seeking there (something uncomplicated) but I think I've found something much better. I have no idea how long this will last but I'm very happy for right now.

I assume you mean "The Great British Bake Off." It's a lot of fun except for Paul Hollywood who gives assholes a bad name. Enjoy it while it lasts. This season -- half over -- is the last with the current people. It won't be the same. Last week they were 'squeezing sausages'

I've been corresponding with an 18 year old advertising on RM. His hourly rate is insanely low ($100 an hour - with the question, "with or without sex?"), but he won't discuss any further until I provide him with my age (on my RM profile), my name, and pics. He's indicated that all are required before we meet. Neither his pics nor his ID are verified on the site, and he's only been a regular member for a month. I know it's not a standard request, but is it best to walk away??

I never give out any real personal information until I've established some sort of ongoing thing with that person. I wasn't born yesterday.

Now that Ryan has lost all his endorsements what will he do?

 

Work as a speech writer for The Donald?

Become the CEO of some new start up

Or become my pool boy providing he doesn't talk

 

What's your best guess?

If he wants to go to work for a first class liar, he could do no worse than Hillary Clinton.

So glad to see her out and about. She's a national treasure. I adore her.

Yes Varys on the deck of the ship as the armada sets sail made me go "huh"? He got from Dorne helping them and the Tyrell's plot revenge pretty fast!

The showrunners have said -- conveniently -- that we shouldn't assume that the timelines of the various stories told in each episode are happening at the same time. That helps explain a lot.

I caught this on ITV when it ran many months ago. Apparently completely inaccurate but totally delightful in every respect. It was ITV's most popular new show in ages and has been renewed for a second season. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED.

Jesus H Christ guys retract your claws and give these guys a break. Not only does Hunter Lee post on this site but he has been well reviewed by jawjateck who is well known for having impeccable taste in escorts. So maybe these guys aren’t your types but why the need to beat them to death with all sorts of mean assumptions

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Because, as a critic once said, if you are going to put yourself on stage and do all sorts of things to your face (when part of what you are selling is your appearance) then you have to expect to be reviewed for your appearance. Especially when you look so freakin' BIZARRE!

I know. Botox, or excessive photoshop? Or both? It is an epidemic among Asian escorts - check out the face pictures of 'Hunter Lee'.

 

http://rentmen.com/HunterLee

Probably photoshop. It just looked like so bizarre to me. Like Cher looks now.

His face looks like it was dipped in botox and held there for around 14 minutes.

Depending on your definition of "alive", one could argue that she's been dead for years.

Would love to see Dolly playing a man, playing a woman.

Wait a minute. You mean to tell me that Dolly Parton isn't a man?

I ended up enjoying it although it does have its problems. Talk about "white privilege." LOL.