WestGuy

That is not the case in my experience. 

I don't think a deposit is something most guys ask for - not in my experience and not even when I narrow it down to Brazilian guys. 
 

When I read the description you gave about 'chiseled jaws, deep set eyes and broad foreheads', my mind immediately went to these guys - who are also always hard as a rock.

Correct. I have seen him there twice. BTW it is a very nice facility with spacious massage rooms, each with its own individual shower.

In most walks of life, if the other person doesn't bring it up, you shouldn't either.

Also, does anyone else think he fled to the casino to try and make the case he wasn’t on American soil?  

Thank you @WestGuy for your DMs and for encouraging me to go ahead.  Andy is a lovely guy and Escape Men Spa was comfortable.  I will definitely repeat.

“Masseur” and “Masseuse” in English both translate to “Massagista” in Portuguese. Very easy mistake to make

I'd add Jose your list to consider:
Jose_ok - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in New York City, NY | RentMen
RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in New York City, NY - Jose_ok: NEW TOP IN TOWN 100% DOMINANT TOP He's a really sweet guy, hung, and great in every way as well.
 

So... back to "River." Any experiences...?

That's a remarkable stat. Almost makes me feel better about the world.
For what it's worth, I would never criticize the work of a massage therapist to his face, especially for a first time appointment. If a therapist asked me for immediate feedback after the massage was completed, I would offer nothing but praise, and keep my honest thoughts to myself. If I wasn't happy with the massage, I would not book again. IME, it is never a good idea to criticize a stranger in the service business. Many people can't handle criticism. Why put yourself at risk, and potentially cause a very uncomfortable disruption?
IMO, no one can please everyone. Some customers aren't worth the trouble. Better to just let them go.
I think it's very unfair to write a negative review based on one visit. I would never do it.

Oh. His prices have gone up, when I saw him it was $200 and worth it but @ChelseaWest at $240 it’s a pass. That’s a bit ridiculous
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He’s bisexual and a great masseur. Definitely worth the visit. 

had great massage with strongstrokes recently.  definitely worth it.  pm if you are considering and want details 

I applaud you for doing what you did.  If that was Jose's reaction to you soon afterwards, it confirms to me how deeply troubled he is.  I lost my Mom during the height of COVID,  forbidden to visit her as she lay dying in a rehab unable to eat by herself.  I have to live with that after taking such good care of her at home until she fell.  I can truly relate to how you feel.  We have to recognize the issue and seek help if we can't deal with it on our own.

I just have to come out and say this in Jose's defense.  I've only had one session with Jose pre-COVID and he was not like this at all.  A friendly, bubbly, handsome guy who aimed to please.  I want to express my sympathy for him since it seems he hasn't been the same since the loss of his boyfriend.  I feel that he hasn't been able to fully deal with it and that's the root of his issues.  You guys are completely correct in what you say and I would feel the same way.   We want a good experience when we schedule a massage and don't need the extra drama.  This continuing situation will and obviously is affecting Jose's massage business which is his livelihood.  I hope he will seek out much needed help.  

Someone I know who saw him said that the provider confided that given his looks he could charge whatever he wanted and clients would gladly pay it.

Someone I know who saw him said that the provider confided that given his looks he could charge whatever he wanted and clients would gladly pay it.

Not nobody. Not no-how.

When I see really big numbers, I'm inclined to think that they are actually just promoting OF, selling videos, or something similar and don't actually want to meet anyone.

I have seen Alex a few times but not recently, although I would definitely go back to him. Sounds totally out of character for him based on my experience, which was excellent in every respect.

Thanks for sharing your experience! Sorry it was disappointing.

FLL will be home for me starting next week.  
Johnsons is a fun club. It’s pretty busy on the weekends in the evenings. If you like bigger/muscular guys, it’s the gold standard in the US. 

What exactly are you looking for in terms of the club and dancers?

We're not posting onWikipedia. Yes. That was an opinion..

Once again baffled about guys being recommended as "so hot" and I look at the profile and think: *meh* 🥱
But, of course, the giant penis seems to make the gay man's brain delude him into believing this ordinary looking fellow is somehow extraordinary.
If I'm PAYING someone for intimate company, they need to be better looking than me (or they should be paying ME.) For me, the size of his penis is irrelevant to physical beauty, not the driving impulse.
 

I agree.
I don't personally like to hire escorts, as I prefer to meet people in person before I know if I am interested in them, sexually.
Men who offer both sexual services and (reasonably good)massage services are my preference. Booking for a massage gives me a chance to meet them, at a reasonable rate. If I am interested in more, this encounter gives me a chance to discuss sex services IN PERSON after the massage is completed, the provider is paid, and he has had a chance to meet me and catch the vibe of my personality. This also drastically limits the always present risk of entrapment in a prostitution sting operation.