TruHart1

I don’t pay much attention to what guys state as their “orientation” in their profile. What matters to me is their performance in bed which, as I make abundantly clear when setting up a date, involves among other things very very passionate kissing. If they deliver, I will repeat. If they don’t, they are gone. I couldn’t care less with whom they enjoy sex in their private life. 
I have had many absolutely spectacular meetings with boys who, after kissing me hard, rimming me deep, sucking me hungrily, and getting my load up their willing hole, used to take their girlfriend out to dinner with the money I paid them. C’est la vie. 

I consider myself a regular to a provider who visits my city regularly.  He’d contact me before each visit so he can reserve the time slot that works best for me. There were times when he even arranged his trips and schedule to fit mine.

I'd define a regular as someone you meet about once a month on average. For instance, if I consistently see a traveling provider every time they're in town, I'd consider them a regular. Likewise, if they consistently see me whenever I'm in their area, it works both ways.

I'd say once a month is a regular client. Even once every other month would be too in my mind.

Times per month?
I hired someone regularly (usually once per month) for a period of years and I certainly considered myself "a regular."  I also considered myself a regular of a guy whom I only saw a few times per year when he was in my area.

If you're a fan of classical Greek history, then you should realize that this concept of "gay" / bi and "straight" didn't exist 2400 years ago.
Human sexuality was merely accepted as fluid and people had relationships outside of marriage ( which was a PROPERTY RIGHTS contract...not a love bond) all the time.
Alexander the Great was most likely "gender blind" which is the state of sexuality where by you fall in love with the PERSON not the PARTS.
Being an army man, his time was spent more commonly among other men and the bonds of brotherhood in the battlefield can be very intense. That bond would naturally lead to physical affection when today's homophobic prejudice is removed from the formula.

well, you don't kiss, maybe that's why they think you're straight.

I'm looking for more of a BFE type experience when I hire (kissing required), so I avoid straight providers. I've had good experiences with both gay and bi guys, and am more concerned about "I am into" than orientation.

Sexual orientation makes absolutely no difference to me.  I've had great and poor paid sexual experiences with all three orientations.  I do not sort or screen my providers by their orientation.
But like @APPLE1 says, we prefer honesty.  If you're lying and say "straight" or "bisexual" when you're really gay, just to try to drum up business, your clients will figure it out and not return.  You don't need a good memory or need to be a good actor if you don't lie.

I went through a “closeted married man” period a number of years ago and to a man, none of them ever even had an inkling of how to clean up down there! I thought the idea of rimming was disgusting!
Fast forward a few years to my first escort hire and suddenly I found he not only was clean down there, but squeaky clean! I have found that to be true with nearly every escort I’ve met since, and have become addicted to “eating out,” now one of my favorite pastimes!!!
TruHart1 😎

I went through a “closeted married man” period a number of years ago and to a man, none of them ever even had an inkling of how to clean up down there! I thought the idea of rimming was disgusting!
Fast forward a few years to my first escort hire and suddenly I found he not only was clean down there, but squeaky clean! I have found that to be true with nearly every escort I’ve met since, and have become addicted to “eating out,” now one of my favorite pastimes!!!
TruHart1 😎

I went through a “closeted married man” period a number of years ago and to a man, none of them ever even had an inkling of how to clean up down there! I thought the idea of rimming was disgusting!
Fast forward a few years to my first escort hire and suddenly I found he not only was clean down there, but squeaky clean! I have found that to be true with nearly every escort I’ve met since, and have become addicted to “eating out,” now one of my favorite pastimes!!!
TruHart1 😎

I went through a “closeted married man” period a number of years ago and to a man, none of them ever even had an inkling of how to clean up down there! I thought the idea of rimming was disgusting!
Fast forward a few years to my first escort hire and suddenly I found he not only was clean down there, but squeaky clean! I have found that to be true with nearly every escort I’ve met since, and have become addicted to “eating out,” now one of my favorite pastimes!!!
TruHart1 😎

I went through a “closeted married man” period a number of years ago and to a man, none of them ever even had an inkling of how to clean up down there! I thought the idea of rimming was disgusting!
Fast forward a few years to my first escort hire and suddenly I found he not only was clean down there, but squeaky clean! I have found that to be true with nearly every escort I’ve met since, and have become addicted to “eating out,” now one of my favorite pastimes!!!
TruHart1 😎

I went through a “closeted married man” period a number of years ago and to a man, none of them ever even had an inkling of how to clean up down there! I thought the idea of rimming was disgusting!
Fast forward a few years to my first escort hire and suddenly I found he not only was clean down there, but squeaky clean! I have found that to be true with nearly every escort I’ve met since, and have become addicted to “eating out,” now one of my favorite pastimes!!!
TruHart1 😎

I went through a “closeted married man” period a number of years ago and to a man, none of them ever even had an inkling of how to clean up down there! I thought the idea of rimming was disgusting!
Fast forward a few years to my first escort hire and suddenly I found he not only was clean down there, but squeaky clean! I have found that to be true with nearly every escort I’ve met since, and have become addicted to “eating out,” now one of my favorite pastimes!!!
TruHart1 😎

I went through a “closeted married man” period a number of years ago and to a man, none of them ever even had an inkling of how to clean up down there! I thought the idea of rimming was disgusting!
Fast forward a few years to my first escort hire and suddenly I found he not only was clean down there, but squeaky clean! I have found that to be true with nearly every escort I’ve met since, and have become addicted to “eating out,” now one of my favorite pastimes!!!
TruHart1 😎

Awwwww! If there’s an annual or bi-annual ‘Tristan Thread’ then perhaps there had to be the bi-annual or annual RESPONSE to it!
Absolutely swooning in the compliments; appreciate all of you so very much who have supported me over the years. I have never attempted to be the same as some of my colleagues- whose business model is to pack an absurd amount of clients into one day, fill themselves up with money like the cheeks of a chipmunk, then disappear for weeks. 
 
My model is slow but steady, only a couple a day at max- and that allows me my other obligations to the Army and to family / dogs / regular job. Communication with me can suck; and I will state that in advance…but as all of you who stayed the course have seen; I never do people wrong. 
 
As far as not being everyone’s type; oh well. Some people on this forum also strive for guys that perpetual con artists and hustlers, or because a guy is 22 and ‘less touched’, his value increases? ROFLMAO. Alright, let me know how that works out when he leaves after 35 minutes or doesn’t show up period, demands deposits, or blackmails you down the line when he’s desperate for 👌.
I feel better at 41 then I did in my early 30s;  and what you bring to a session as an escort is more important between your ears, as between your legs or the biceps on your arms. 
 
Time and experience shape perspective; and I am thankful to all my ‘mentors’ out there for helping craft mine. Love you all! ❤️
‘TB’ / Jordan

Good filter. If they refuse or seem huffy, it means they're a bad hire.

This thread has become a way for guys to excuse themselves NOT to ever hire!
Life has risks involve unless you want to sit and watch Netflix! 

For $8,750,000 you can own the SoHo townhouse that was the home of Leontyne Price for several decades.  It is located at 9 VanDam Street and has undergone a total gut renovation.
Here is the sales ad: 
9 Vandam Street | Compass
WWW.COMPASS.COM 9 Vandam Street is a townhouse listed for sale at $8,750,000. This is a 5-bed, 5-bath, 4,576 sqft property.  
Here is the home as it looked a few years ago: 
Villager and Groundbreaking African American Soprano Leontyne Price - Village Preservation
WWW.VILLAGEPRESERVATION.ORG While it is a well-established fact that our neighborhoods have attracted and been home to some of the most groundbreaking artists and art movements of the past...  

I make a pretty fair lasagna, so back in college, (in ancient times!) I and my bestie girlfriend buddy decided to make the pastry sheets from scratch, neither of us having ever done so before. We started the process around 4:30 pm, right after classes were finished for the day. All by hand, no pasta press or cutter. Little did either of us think it would take so long to mix up and roll the pasta thin enough and cut it, but it took much longer than either expected.
Around 10:30 and we still needed to let our pasta dry before we could assemble our lasagna. To make a long (much longer than either of us ever imagined) story short, we finally got our pan of lasagna done and ate at around around 12:45 AM! Needless to say, we were so exhausted by then that neither of us was very hungry, especially to eat a full meal with lasagna, salad, and bread.
On the bright side, the lasagna was even better tasting the next few days, though we still found the pasta sheets turned out to be too thick and therefore a bit undercooked and doughy. Since that attempt, I only use store-bought pasta sheets if I make lasagna. It’s definitely faster and easier!
TruHart1 😎