ajvanguard

Breathtaking!

Hosts in the Bronx, FWIW (haven’t met him because of that lol)

And he changed it again to simply RayBear.
https://rent.men/RayBear

Perhaps it's for the benefit of the visually impaired? 

Anyone know this guy?
https://rent.men/Johnnycadabra

Yes.  In midtown.

Interestingly, I also reached out to him when @jusmeinbr expressed his suspicions.   I was inclined to think he was legit except that his rates were too low...and I told him that.    Everything was fine until he asked for the deposit.   I said no.   He made excuses.   Since he'd already told me the name of his hotel near the Superdome, I asked him to send me a picture of his view.   He said I'm outside and sent me a picture of the front of the hotel from the sidewalk.   I sent him back a picture from the same vantage point that I got from apple maps and noted the IRONY that the SAME WHITE STATION WAGON was reflecting in the glass in my version.   Oddly enough, our correspondence ended there.
Definite case of "Deposit Fraud" and @jusmeinbr's instinct was SPOT ON!

You will find several members of the forum on his former DNTLZ in Philly, who highly recommend him! Their positive feedback was posted in the last couple of months. IMO He is SMOKIN HOT! 

His pecs look like Kristi Noem’s husband’s

His pecs look like Kristi Noem’s husband’s

His pecs look like Kristi Noem’s husband’s

The best moment of the best video of his career:

Thanks man

I use a VoIP number app that only requires an email to register an email I created solely for this purpose. If I see someone multiple times and become a regular, then they’ll get my real number. I have no interest in giving every provider I try my personal phone number. For the same reason, first meetings are always at their place or a hotel, I don’t want every provider I meet to know where I live.

Absolutely my experience 

Maybe the name means that he's Latin and will make you squeal like a pig.

No reviews on RM. I have NEVER used a guy who was not vetted by members here. I have never been steered wrong!

Appreciate it 

When I hire, I want a masculine gay guy. I like women, and if I wanted feminine, I'd find one.
Nothing turns me off a profile quicker than a thong, drag, or someone bending over showing me a gaping hole. 
I want a regular guy who happens to be gay.

Dude, you just answered your own question. A LOT of gay men fantasize about being with a “straight” man and a lot of gay men only seek out “straight” men. In my opinion, and in many cases, “straight” is nothing more than a marketing ploy to get business. I am old and way too cynical. That said, check the guy out, vet him well, hire, and have fun. (And, to be fair, a lot of men who enjoy and seek out sex with other men don’t identify as gay. I’m not telling you anything you don’t know.) 

Kissing requires chemistry, which is recognized only when face to face. Never assume it will be included, even if they say they're into it. But always show up with your mouth freshly douched and polished. 

Johnsons is best for go go dancers.  

I've had dancers ask questions like, "Where are you staying?" and "Are you staying alone?" when I've just told them I'm from out of town.
Last night for example, during a lap dance with a dancer from out of town, he asked, "Do you live alone?"
Questions like that often indicate a good direction for the conversation to lead to private arrangements.
In answer to the OP's question, when you and a dancer are discussing a lap dance, or during/after a lap dance, you can always say something like, "If you ever want to do more than a lap dance, let me know." Just a simple sentence that can either end there or lead to a more promising discussion.
 

Ive never asked but i have had dancers ask me after ive done lap dances.  I have only accepted one offer recently after I knew the dancer for a long time and have since asked him a few times.  It wasnt something i really thought about doing prior.