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I’m relatively quiet during sex. I’ve been told I get aggressively focused but I don’t make a lot of noise until I climax. I can be a bit of a yeller. I have rather powerful orgasms. I’ve even temporarily lost hearing sometimes… that’s how powerful they can be.

It’s been stretched using photoshop or some other photo app.

I don’t particularly like the taste of cum. So swallowing isn’t a default thing I do. However if I am really into the guy, if he enjoys firing a blast to my tonsils then I’ll oblige, but this isn’t a frequent thing.

Not a new provider but maybe new to massage work. He's based out of DC. When he first started to advertise he had his face unblurred. I find him attractive but I have never pulled the trigger because he doesn't list kissing in his rentmen ad. Max_fit - Male Escort, Gay massage - New York City | Rent.Men RENT.MEN Max_fit Gay Escort in New York City, New York, available for Gay Escorting,Modeling,Erotic Massage. |...

He doesn't look familiar. So I think he's new. He also joined RM less than a month ago. You'll probably won't get much of a response about engagement, at least not yet.

Agreed... but he isn't escorting, just doing sensual/erotic. So he doesn't quite fit the OP's inquiry.

I can say the same thing about a few providers I met in the past.

I don't really have a prefered age. Since starting this hobby, I think the youngest person I met was in their late 20s and the oldest early 50s. Most of the guys I've hired repeatedly are within a 5 year (younger/older) age range to my own age.

He stopped escorting I think before this site changed hands, but I'm certain there was positive talk about him on Daddy's both the forum and review page.

He never went anywhere. lol! He comes to DC regularly.

Well if you haven't met and the guy is paranoid... maybe he thinks you could be a cop. He could be afraid telling you rate might incriminate him. I have had providers not give me a rate after multiple times. It's rare, but it has happened. Either, I keep asking until they do or move on.

From my understanding ed drugs just don't make you hard after you take them. You have to be aroused. So if you take them and are nervous... they still won't make you hard. The anxiety will still kill your erection no matter how many mgs you take. Also maybe viagra doesn't work for you. Maybe try one of the other ed pills and see if they work. But again if you're nervous/anxious ed pills will fail you still. Something like trimix (injection into the penis) will make you hard without arousal. However, it has potentially dangerous side effects. Well I guess ed drugs do to.

Do a search on the forum. He’s been talked about favorably on the forum… including by me.

He was as nice as can be in person. After out first meet up, he took pics with me. I was always interested in him since the first time I saw him on the site Circle Jerk Boys. He went by Sebastian then. He didn't start escorting until years later after, during his Staghomme site years. So he was fairly ripped the two times I saw him. Both times were for 2 hour sessions. We were planning a 3rd meet up (an overnight or weekend), but our schedules never synched. He was an amazing kisser and loved giving head. He was very vocal too. Love hearing that raspy voice of his grunt and moan. One of the sexiest things he said to me... "I love cum" in that raspy voice. Fun times. I'd rehire him in a heartbeat if he decided to escort again.

Do you often chat out of “business” hours? Some providers do... most don't. Personally, there are some providers I've known closing on 15 years and we've built a strong rapport. So we talk/text rather frequently. There are a few I've met relatively recently and we just clicked. The providers I have a connection with will occasionally see how I'm doing or I'll see how they are doing. I don't expect immediate responses. People get busy, but they usually respond eventually, if not immediately. Sometimes we'll talk on the phone about random things. Do you do any other non sexual activities together? The vast majority of the ones I have some type of comradery with, I'd say we don't. That's mainly because they live in other states or the are visiting for work... so they just don't have the time. However, we do "non sexual activities" during overnights or longer, of course. There is a small number I say the relationship is just as much a friendship as business. Those select few, we do of the clock nonsexual advertures frequently (even if I don't hire them during their work trip). With all this said, try not to force something other then the client/provider relationship. If a friendship blooms naturally... then awesome. If it doesn't, relish the time spent in the bedroom, even if its purely transactional.

Do I have to pick just one? In no particular order... (another vote for) KristianLA, AJ Irons, D.O., Damien Crosse, Dante Saints, Max Gianni, and Cristobal (from the dawgpondusa site)

They may be actually busy, but most I think prefer text over actual calls. Have you tried texting your inquiries?

He was available previously many years ago through the planetjockboys site. I never attempted to hire him back then.

A lot of hotels nowadays, you don't have to actually check out. Some chains will allow you to do it via the hotel's app. While others you literally don't have to physically check out the next day. For the app check out, you could be at home to do it the next day. Honestly, I don't think checking out is a requirement any more. Well at least for chain hotels.

To me it means that the guy prefers to top but isn't adverse to bottoming. What will get him to bottom... is up to the provider to tell you. You really need to talk to him and not speculate or ask the forum something only he could tell you. The forum is a great tool, but it can't answer every question or speculation about a particular provider and his choices.

He also dances for Adonis Lounge L.A. from time to time.

Over the years a number of providers (I have gotten to know very well) have said some of the sweetest things to me. Many times in a non-client/provider setting. One of the newer guys I hired (I've met only twice... for an overnight and a weekend) said something that had taken me aback a bit. He is an incredibly kind, sweet, affectionate man. We were in talks to have another weekend late last year. Because of circumstances, I, sadly couldn't commit to a date and meet. I let him know we'd have to postpone to a later date this year. Not long after, he texted me out of the blue asking if I was ok. He also asked if I was upset at him for some reason. I said no and assured him he has been nothing but sweet and accommodating to me in every interaction we ever had. I guess because I couldn't solidify the date he assumed something was wrong and it was something he'd done. I let him know it was me and not him him. This is when he made the comment that I was one of the very few people who treated him like a human being since he started escorting. That broke my heart. He went on to say he didn't want to ever lose me as a client because of how well I treated him. I told him he didn't have to worry. As long as I am able to hire him I would. He gave me a response (which I won't repeat here) that definitely has endeared me to him. I'm eager to see him again. In the past, I have heard horror stories about various things from providers. Specifically on how people who pay for their services, more often than not treat them as less than. So I wasn't surprised this provider was treated poorly by some, but it definitely always saddens me to hear. I never expected him to tell me he didn't want to lose me as a client the way he did.

There are is always a regular addition to my ever growing list of porn actors I wish would escort. The most recent guy is Siren Santiago. He is so insatiable in his porn work. Sexy little pocket muscle bottom... I wants him!!! He does have a RM ad and he's checked it a few times, but he hasn't activated it, yet. Sadly, a number of guys have done this (like Brody Foxx)... have a ad but not active.

His forum handle has links to his erotic photo gallery for various photographers. His pictures are all over this site in various posts and forum galleries. @DamizzonNYC https://gaybodyblog.com/tag/damian-effler/

He dances regularly for Adonis Lounge. A number of their dancers have been popping up on RM relatively recently. That's all I got.