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In my experience any i saw who listed as verse or verse bottom has absolutely been willing to bottom. You shouldn't exlude verse if what you're looking for is difficult to find. As an aside.. I don't hire as many verse/tops or tops only as i used to. However, even some of those who list top only have been willing to bottom. It comes down to chemistry and the comfortability between the client and provider.

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To the OP, I think you're doing the right thing by keeping the conversation professional and not engaging in some ot the talk amongst your clients in common. In my experience, I have had long term providers tell me a lot of stuff. Things like deeply personal stuff; their dealings with potential and current clients; and their dealings with other escorts. I don't repeat what they tell me to anyone. Inturn, I usually don't go into great detail about my encounters with other providers. Even after specific providers shared all this info about whatever, I resisted doing so for a long time. The one time I decided to share info, it lead to one provider recounting information inaccurately to another. I believer that ultimately caused a riff between me and one of my long term providers. I mean it wasn't the only thing, but this provider kept bring back up this info even after I told him it was inaccurate. He just never seemed to want to let it go. I think from that point on our working relationship went down hill. Since then I have gone back into not sharing my encounters with other providers. If I do share any info it's extremely vague and I never share the escorts name. I truly believe, although some providers are genuinely interested in hearing the exploits of their clients, there are also those who get offended or maybe even jealous hearing the info. So it's best to keep that info very surface.

I have only been upsold once and it was with a masseur. It kind of caught me off guard. He offered to bottom for an additional cost.

Well I for was sad about the switch. I think when I first noticed you early in my hiring career you listed as verse or verse/top. At that time I never hired anyone from another state. You will always be fuckable to me... although, I'm sure you're a great doler. 😛

To answer your question I think it's a little bit of column "A" and a little from column "B". It really depends on the escort... his physical limitations, how horny he is, whether he's in it to have fun too, etc.. 😛 I would say out of all the providers I met most of them orgasmed/came. I have never asked/told an provider before the fun began, "I want to see you cum." For me personally, it kind of takes away the experience, to say that in the beginning. Although I do understand it's a very import outcome for some clients. No pun intended. So i get why people ask upfront. I have had a few providers ask me directly if I wanted them to cum after I had already did. I'm easy going... so I usually say, "if they want to." Most have. Some don't. For me the best is when it's obvious the provider wants to cum without me prompting. Even better when I make them cum and they didn't expect it or they're in the moment. I think one of my hottest is after a long session, I orgasmed and sat up to stretch at the edge of the bed. The escort says to me, "where are you going. I want to cum too"... raging boner in hand. I reassured him I wasn't going until he was happy as well.

I'm jealous. I tried to hire him for an overnight but he doesn't travel unless he's met you previously. I don't know if I'll ever get to San Fran to see him.

I was going to cosign what @rvwnsd stated. I did meet him once in DC at a Motel 6 many years ago. He was not the best kisser or the most responsive lover, but he looked like his pics at the time. We both seemed to enjoy the time together. He was very friendly as I seem to recall and talked about his porn career a little after our bedroom fun. I would have hired him again but he stopped advertising shortly after we met. He advertise a few times after we met, but he never came back to my area.

IMHO, it depends on the provider. There are guys who will flake on you in a heartbeat. However, there are guys who honor what they set up with you. Years ago, I set up an appointment (ahead of time) with a well known porn actor. The day of the meeting, hours before the scheduled time, he let me know we were not going to meet. He flat out told me he set up a porn shoot that morning and needed to fly out. No apology, no remorse. On the flip side, a provider who've I been seeing a few times a year now has been one of the most reliable guys I've met in this hobby. He has done porn and has an onlyfans. We had set up a weekend and by happenstance a guy he wanted to shoot content was going to be in town the same time he was with me. We talked previously about how much he wanted to shoot with this guy. So I offered to let him go shoot content with the guy. I wouldn't count it against our time (since I told him he could). He told me no. He said it was sweet of me to offer but he was there with me and enjoyed being with me. He has been a very stand up guy from the moment we met. Both the escorts in my examples were in their mid to early 30s. I would say it's not necessarily an age thing.

The shade of it all. lol!

If he’s not looking for new clients, as multiple people have stated to you, why should he have to respond to you or anyone he doesn’t want to? He hasn’t advertised for more than 10 years. He hasn’t actively given out his contract info in that same amount of time. He has no control over people finding his contact info or people giving it out (for or against his wishes). You may not have stated directly that he owes you anything but you sure do act like you think he owes you a response. Again he doesn’t. It would be one thing if he was advertising and didn’t respond but he isn’t advertising. Questioning someone’s decency because they don’t respond to you is ridiculous. Do you respond to telemarketers who call you? Because according to what you’ve stated you have too out of decency. I understand you are desperate to meet him but he clearly isn’t interested in meeting new people. He has told people he’s in contact with this.., which they have relayed to you. I understand your area is lacking what you desire but you can’t worm your way into someone’s life who doesn’t want it. You’ve tried more than a year and no response. That non-response should tell you exactly what others have said… he’s not interested. You refuse to accept the obvious Your only choice right now is to bring someone in or go somewhere that has people who fit what you desire. If you can’t then maybe Grindr is an option. I won’t respond to you anymore because you seem to think what you want is more important than what he wants… to be left alone and not see new people. Clearly, what people have told you repeatedly, you just won’t believe or accept.

Why should he? He doesn’t know you. He doesn’t owe you anything. He doesn’t have to respond to anyone he doesn’t want to. If he had to respond to every random person who found his contact information, he’d probably be texting all night and day. Everyone who talks about seeing him recently is someone he met and knows. As has been mentioned, he’s happy with his current situation and is not looking for new clients. Texting/contacting him constantly when he hasn’t met you previously will get you absolutely nowhere.

I don’t know if anyone on the forum has met him but he used to go by Zeko. So search the forum for that name. He was asked about previously.

Although I haven’t seen him in years, he was a fun guy… very personable and accommodating in our encounters. He still looks good judging by the pics in his current ad.

We were in talks to meet, but our schedules don’t synch. So, I won’t be able to report on his skills.

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I know that. However the op specifically mentioned rentmasseur. So, that’s why I brought up how you can’t on that particular site.

I haven't noticed that, but then again we may be looking for different physical types. If the guy has a bodybuilder type build, they often shave. Maybe he uses hairless pics in his ad because that's when he's probably most defined and looks his best in his eyes. So if he's off-season he may be hairy. So being hairy vs not hairy stated or not in the ad is not a red flag in my book. However, if it's something more permanent... i.e. saying they are circumcised and showing uncut dick in a ad... then.. red flag. Of course that particular thing isn't usually stated on a rentmasseur ad. LOL!

Many people have offered very good possible explanations to your query. I'll offer another. Maybe they are trying to avoid possible jealousy issues. If they travel together and are a couple, this may be especially the case. I knew a traveling escort boyfriend couple. I saw one of the boyfriends and not the other. At first, they were willing to work together, but (over time) the one I hired told me they had to stop doing that. He said his boyfriend became extremely jealous of this joint encounters. He perceived he was being left out. He felt the client paid more attention to the other. After the sessions it lead to arguments between the boyfriends. So, they stopped working together. I think ultimately it lead to their break up.

I've been talking to him. I may see him next week.

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