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I’ve met 2 guys on your list both were fantastic. Brian is just a sweet kind southern man with a wrestler’s build. Great kisser and eager to please. I wish I could see him more but we live on opposite coasts. @DznNYC from the moment of first contact to every subsequent encounter has been very exciting and fun. I love the look of eagerness and wanting he gets in his eyes as the fun begins. Easy man to click with and always understanding. He’s definitely one of the ones, who if they lived closer to me, I’d be broke. 😆
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Not necessarily. If you can’t verify if the pics in the ad and who you’re talking/texting to are one and the same… and they’re asking a low rate, I’d be wary. Also if they are offering a low rate, be sure it isn’t for an à la carte offerings. With that said a low rate isn’t necessarily a red flag. The guy may be new and not sure what to charge. He might be offering a low rate in a new area to gain clients… or offering a discount. Some guys enjoy the intimacy more than the money and charge accordingly. There are a few prolific porn actors who gave me an obscenely low rate for overnights/weekends. A couple because I saw them regularly for hourly appointments before doing longer meet ups. One of these porn actors offered to do a weekend with me for around 600 some years back. More recently a stripper for Adonis Lounge/BuffDaddy’s wants to do a 3 day weekend for about 1k. He doesn’t advertise on rm.
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No it doesn’t. The OP is asking about opinions of the provider’s massage… which is clearly mentioned in the ad even though it’s on rentmen. The question has been placed/asked in the proper section. To the original question from the OP. I have no personal experience with DeAngelo.
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Both but more fan site than studio stuff. His porn name is Jameson Taylor
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I haven’t but I communicated with him last year. He says he does sensual massage and is willing to travel. I told him I was on the east coast and he was fine with it. He is one of my fav porn actors. Very into kissing and body contact.
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Any recent experiences with Ben at Bliss_Bodywork in DC / MD
big-n-tall replied to Kbanks123's topic in Spas & Masseurs
You should go in expecting a massage with sensual/erotic elements with any masseur offering that. If more happens great… if not, you didn’t go in with high expectations of something you’ve seen on a fan site. Just because you have seen certain acts on onlyfans doesn’t mean the masseur will do that with actual clients. It’s fantasy vs reality. -
Locally... the weekend is prefered, but its not a time set in stone. When I'm out of state, traveling... it's any day/time I have freedom to do so.
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Yes for years. I never met him but was given his contact info when he stripped for Adonis. We were set to met when a snowstorm happened prevented me from getting to his area. I never reattempted. He has a current RM ad. He sometimes takes it down, though. He's also been trying to get a sugar daddy. https://rent.men/Seancostinnn
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https://rentmasseur.com/johnnycain Anyone have any info on this "stripper" guy? I know the listing is relatively new (about 5 months). I found an instagram page of a fitness guy who frequents Vegas. I can't tell if he's real or the ad using the fitness guys pics. There is a snapchat listing in his ad, but I can't see it even with a VPN. Can anybody verify the snapchat and guy in the ad are one and the same?
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At first I thought he was the porn actor Huge Ajax. He looks a lot like him in the tshirt and jeans pic.
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masseur with the largest body change you still like to see
big-n-tall replied to viewing ownly's topic in Spas & Masseurs
I haven't encountered a masseur with a drastic body change, but there are a few escorts I frequent who are bodybuilders to various degrees. They can go from muscled and ripped to beefy and stocky/chubby depending on their bulking/seasonal cycles. However, I may be kinda weird, but usually once I find someone attractive... even if their bodies change drastically, I still find them attractive. What usually attracts me to a guy is their body type (muscled or athletic), but their attitude and how they treat me can override that. One guy I still see, when we first met, he was a juice head (steroids user--for those who don't know) bodybuilding stripper. He retired from stripping and stopped taking 'roids. His body changed drastically and he got rather chubby. This kind of made him self-conscious and he was afraid/reluctant to see me. When I finally convinced him to see me again, he told me he figured I wouldn't be as attracted to him. He was wrong. lol! He still was the great guy I knew with the sexy raspy voice, amazing ass, great kisser, etc. He just had a belly and bigger butt. A few years after being a bit chubby he started working out again. He never returned to using 'roids. Although he wasn't as muscular as when we first met his body is rockin'. Through those body changes, my attraction to him never wavered. The only thing that probably would make me stop seeing him is if his attitude changed for the negative. With that said, if someone's physicality changed and you didn't like the change... it's your choice to move on. You have no obligation to keep seeing the guy. If you can't get over the physical change, then find someone you find attractive and hire them instead. -
Do providers treat you differently?
big-n-tall replied to Veryshyone's topic in Questions About Hiring
To answer your question directly… yes sone providers treat their regulars differently. They will sometimes make regulars a priority over someone new. I will say this treatment can vary from people to people and overtime. I think good providers will try to treat each encounter with a regular or non regular equally. Although with familiarity a lot of things can change both good and bad. The good providers, who become regulars, will always try to keep the subsequent encounters engaging. Leave them wanting more, as it were. As you get to know each other some may be more affectionate or willing to try or do things they won’t do normally with new clients. For, example, one of my long standing regulars, I have seen many times more than a decade. We’ve gone on extended trips pretty much yearly since about 2017. Over time his rate for those extended trips have dropped significantly. Some guys will lower their rates or not charge what they typically charge non-regulars for hourly, overnights, etc. This same provider has a fantasy about being tied up. He hasn’t asked anyone else to do it because he doesn’t feel safe with random guys he doesn’t know well. Yet another guy, who has retired from escorting, mentioned that I and another client are the only guys he still sees. In my case, he said he enjoys the times we spend together and our encounters are never work for him. With that said you do have providers, who once they have you hooked, there can be a diminished return every subsequent meeting. Or maybe if not gradually it may be abrupt after many meetings. In general, once people get more comfortable with each other, there can be an ease with both of the participants… a relaxing of the rules they set. However, there are no assurances this ease will happen for each provider and client. This same familiarity with a regular may bring a staleness as well. Both parties could get bored with encounters if either don’t strive to keep things fresh or somewhat interesting. In a nutshell… there are no guarantees a provider will treat a regular any better or worse than a non-regular. In my experience, they do treat their regulars differently… often better one way or another. -
Would you pay upfront for a vacation trip?
big-n-tall replied to labiologie's topic in Questions About Hiring
The providers (2 specifically) I see the most and go extended trips with, I have given them their entire rate before the trip. However, I know these guys extremely well and for years (one more than a decade). As previous posters mentioned, you can carry that amount through tsa or you can give the guy a partial payment now and the rest when you get to your destination. -
Providers who list kissing but don’t kiss
big-n-tall replied to VIdeo's topic in Questions About Hiring
I won't hire if a guy, no matter how much I want to see him, if kissing isn't listed. Kissing is my trigger and gets me going faster than anything. If they list kissing, but are cagey about it... I won't hire. Many years ago, when I was relatively new to this hobby and didn't know about this site, I hired a provider who had really nice pics in his ad. We texted back and forth a bit to arrange things. I asked him directly did he kiss. He said he did... that he loved doing it. Well the pics weren't his. I should have left then, but I was new at this and didn't know what to do. He was attractive and had a nice build but it wasn't the guy from the pics. Anyway, he just laid on the bed and expected me just to service him. Every time I went in for a kiss, he would turn his head. I ended the session after about a half hour. Gave him his fee and went on my way. I haven't ran into this situation since that episode. There is a local who kept adding kissing and then taking it out of his intos. So when I contacted him and asked about kissing, he said kissing depended on the situation. I never hired him. It's a shame because he is handsome with a great body. -
Honestly, (knock on wood) I haven't had a bad experience with a provider/masseur in many years. I mainly stick to regulars with an occasional new hire here and there. Maybe I just have gotten really good at determining who I might click with but all the new guys have been outstanding. I guess the closest things to a bad experience is having a few new potential hires cancel on me abruptly. The only other thing I can think of is a masseur/escort I hired previously, forgot that our next meeting was going to be full service. So we just did an erotic massage instead. He was very apologetic about not being prepared. I haven't hired since, but that's more about not really having the time to see him when I visit his area.
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When I asked him May of last year he said 450 per hour and 2000 for an overnight. So inflation. 😁
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I frequently check to see if Nico pops up on RM. No luck yet. 😁
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He set his profile as "This user is temporarily not available." Took down his photos. He was online as of 3 days ago. I'm certain he knows his add is expired. As I and @Simon Suraci mentioned, he might not be looking into seeing clients now or at the very least only on a limited basis for whatever reason.
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I know he travels this time of year but he still would keep his ad up, even though he was out of the country. The last time I talked to him he was thinking about retiring in a year or 2. Not saying that’s the reason his ad is down. However, he was on yesterday. So I don’t think he’s done as a provider just yet.
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I think he keeps slightly changing his ad name. Which is why the ad seems to keep disappearing. I can't speak on whether he's into escorting or not.
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Same.
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When do you consider your client/provider a regular?
big-n-tall replied to Wings246's topic in Questions About Hiring
I would say if you see someone more than once over a given amount of time… you’re a regular. Even if it’s like once a year. I don’t necessarily think someone giving me their real name is something I’d use to determine if they were a regular. I’ve had guys I met on the first meeting tell me their real name and other personal info. Also sometimes I’ll bring someone to me for the first time for an overnight or longer. If I buy their plane or train ticket, they usually tell me their names. Also I have seen some providers repeatedly over years and still don’t know their real names or full names. -
I haven't hired anyone since the beginning of 2026. That changes next week where I'm doing a weekend with a regular. I'm seeing another regular at the end of January but just for a couple hours. I'm going on a trip in February and will meet with a current regular/friend and a retired escort/porn actor turned friend. However, in both those instances there will be no bedroom activity... it's just a plutonic hang in both cases.
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For me, it depends on a number of factors. One of my frequent regulars, when he comes to visit me, I'll try to book a hotel with multiple beds or separate rooms. It's not that I don't like cuddling next to him, but I know he works hard at his day job and I want to be in as much comfort as possible when he visits. He seems to appreciate this a lot and shows it. We have gone on trips places where we share a bed and that works out too. For me, my biggest issue is I can run hot. Being snuggled up to someone all night, if the room isn't cool enough, can be unbearable. Although some guys love that I am so physically warm and it makes them want to snuggle more (especially in winter). 😱 😆 If I'm sharing a bed, I make sure it's the largest the hotel offers. I will definitely cuddle/snuggle but I can't do it all night usually. A large bed allows us to have our sides, but we can cuddle or whatever else any time.
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Instead of assuming... ask him. Many on this forum make assumptions and never progress to any meet up because they believe something they never do anything about to verify.
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