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Well this year I haven’t met any new providers but my regulars continue to shine. It’ll be hard to choose which one was the best because my interactions with each can be so different. However, I did meet a new masseur who I am eager to see again. https://rentmasseur.com/JordanJSQ I think he has an escort ad but last time I checked it was expired. I don’t know if it’s back up.

I haven’t met him but he does porn under the name Michael Vente.

I did subscribe to one individual. When he started all his vids were non pay-per-view (ppv). He was getting frustrated and I guess not making the money he expected. So he decided to switch his longer vids to ppv. I bought one or two. Then I decided to cancel my membership because he wasn’t making enough content that was non-ppv. Although I haven’t subscribed to anyone new, there are guys who explicitly state that all their content is non-ppv. I’d stick to those guys in the future should I decide to subscribe again.

I don’t expect anything other than what is stated (in their ad) or discussed with the masseur. In my experience what happens further typically depends on the individual masseur. I was surprised by how far some went after stating what they would or would not do. Others were strictly by the book or willing to up-charge for other things.

I haven't met him but he has been listed as a dancer at the various Adonis Lounge events in the recent past.

I met this masseur 2 years ago when I was visiting San Diego. He used the name Jock Therapy. He was visiting with his significant other. In fact his SO dropped him off at my hotel and went for a drink while we were having our session. At one point the masseur asked me did I want his SO to join in the massage session. I declined. Mainly because I was still a bit green with erotic massages and wasn’t sure what to expect. I don’t remember much about the amount of pressure but I do remember he used his whole body to massage me. He got naked immediately and he was aroused most of the session. It got fairly sexual without penetration. He’s attractive and has a beautiful lean sculpted body (as seen in his ad pics). I’d hire him again if our paths crossed again.

A porn actor I really really want to meet recently said to me his rate to meet was 1k. However, his exact statement was 1k for however long you want. That I'd definitely do. Sadly, our schedules won't work out... so no meet up anytime soon.

First and foremost, if I find a provider attractive—whether they do porn or not—I’m interested. I don’t book someone because they’re a porn actor. The only advantage porn gives me, especially amateur or non-studio content, is that it helps me see what they actually look like from all angles, what they’re capable of, and sometimes gives a glimpse into their personality. A lot of people approach porn actors with this kind of mystique, built up from what they’ve seen on camera. But many porn actors don’t want to be put on a pedestal during an encounter—unless it’s part of the roleplay. 😊 Most of them just want to be treated normally and made to feel sexy, just like the client does. Honestly, I’ve never met a porn actor who was full of themselves or rude. In fact, echoing @ApexNomad’s point, they’ve usually been kind, respectful, and created a safe, judgment-free space—for me and vice versa. Maybe I’m just good at picking the easygoing ones. Who knows? Another common assumption is that porn actors always charge a premium. I haven’t found that to be true. Sure, one big-name porn actor I saw regularly was probably my most expensive weekend hire—but that was mostly because I paid for his travel from Argentina. When he was already in the country, his rates were much more reasonable. In fact, his overnight/weekend rate ended up being cheaper per hour than his hourly rate. Another well-known porn actor only charged $500 per night for a weekend—and he was also a chef. One day, he even went grocery shopping just to cook for me. I’ve been hiring since around 2007 and have met a fair number of porn actors and non-porn providers. Most of those encounters have been good to great. I can count the “meh” or bad ones on one hand. Ironically, the worst experience I ever had was with a guy who had done a few scenes for Circle Jerk Boys. On the flip side, one of the best experiences I’ve ever had was with a frequent Sean Cody model. But I don’t let either of those define my expectations. Every hire is a case-by-case situation—you either click, or you don’t. Right now, one of my regulars is a porn actor, and we have some of the best times—both socially and in the bedroom. He’s been an incredible hire. At the end of the day, porn actors are just people. Some might be jerks, but most aren’t. I get the hesitation some folks have, especially if they’ve had one bad experience—but that doesn’t mean they’re all the same. And while some might charge premium rates, many don’t. I can definitely vouch for that.

In theory this would be a good idea, but honestly there are quite a few providers who have a hard time keeping track of regular scheduling. Some guys would probably do well at keeping a loyalty point system, but most, I fear, would not. That being said, I do think a number of the guys (regulars) I've seen over the years give me some type of perk for returning to see them for so long. The guy I've probably seen the most initially gave me a rate of 1k for an overnight. He soon dropped that to $800, and now it's $600. He's even given me free sessions on occasion. I've seen him for over 12 years.

The was a masseur (sadly, no longer active) I tried to see at least once a month. He didn't live far from a relative and I would see him every time I'd visit. So now my masseur hiring is infrequent and mainly when I go on trips. There is a local masseur I would see more but our schedules rarely synch. So unless I'm off work and he happens to have an session opening (which rarely happens) I don't see him.

Yeah he is frequently listed as an Adonis NYC dancer. That's all I got.

There was a lot of positive talk about him some years back. Looks like he has returned to NYC. MuscleVIP - Male Escort, Gay massage - New York City | Rent.Men RENT.MEN MuscleVIP Gay Escort in New York City, New York, available for Gay Escorting,Modeling,Erotic Massage. | Find all the best Male Escorts at Rent.Men

Even though his link is expired, under the social links area, is a telegram listing that has a 10 digit number. I don't know if that's his actual number of something only reached through the telegram app. You could try reaching out through that number.

There are a few guys, in different regions, who are or were on that site who also advertised on Rentmen/masseur. https://cowboys4angels.com/cowboy/max-2/ Max stripped for Adonis and had an ad up briefly for Rentmen. Both Cristiano and Chase, based in Vegas, have ads up on rentmasseur. Cristiano also had an ad on rentmen. https://cowboys4angels.com/cowboy/cristiano/ https://rentmasseur.com/MateusBrazilian https://cowboys4angels.com/cowboy/chase/ https://rentmasseur.com/SpaSteve So it's definite that at least a small percentage are willing to do more and with men. On a sidenote the porn actor Angel Diablo used to have a rentmen ad and was on the cowboys4angels site years ago. I met him a few times in Vegas. Angel Diablo (Randy Blue) WWW.GAYPORNBUDDIES.COM Gallery with 12 free gay porn pics provided by Randy Blue. Angel Diablo.

Depends on how we connected. I’m a bit of an introvert when I don’t know someone but can be very outgoing once I’m comfortable. Some guys seem to have a natural ability/sense to get me to talk more and some just don’t. Ultimately if we’re vibing and the provider wants to stay to talk… I won’t rush him out unless I need to do something after. 😊

I'd say yes, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

I don’t know if he’s fake or not, but he joined the rm site May 16 2025. The ad is just about a month old and could account for his lack of reviews.

So far, in my experiences, the masseur makes the first move. During a massage laying on my stomach, with arms at the side, is not the most convenient position to touch someone. The masseur will usually touch me in a certain area, put their private area directly in my hand, brush their privates near my face, kiss or whisper in ear, rub their erection between my cheeks, or a combo of all the preceding. Of the masseurs I've met, only 2 were waiting or willing for me to make the first move. BlissBodyWork told me after our session, he couldn't get a read on me. He didn't know what I was up for until he turned me over and saw that I was aroused. Where by I really played with his body before he started playing with mine sensually/erotically. He was maybe the 2nd masseur I saw. I was a bit green about what to do in a sensual/erotic massage. I've been trying to see him again but our schedules never work out. The other guy, IntimateTouch, has sadly retired. I don't know why but we seemed to have a very good connection. He was very affectionate. I think he hugged (and growled) with everyone, even with first-timers, when they met. However, after the first time, I would kiss him and we would make out fully... which sometimes led directly to sex before the massage. I think we had more sex than massage time. God... that man was so fun and so sexy. I miss him.

I don't know if he'd be considered a pornstar, but he has a justforfans site. Most of his scenes are sexual indeed, but they don't all involve penile penetration. He has a voyeuristic/public acts streak and likes his bigger daddies judging by most of the men he shoots with. https://x.com/BlissBodywork1

https://www.menofporn.blog/2025/06/passed-away-last-month-travis-youth.html He had his demons, but when he was level-headed... he was just as kind and sweet as he was sexy. I met him a number of times and we always had a great time. We just had a very good rapport. We lost contact a few years after he went to prison for drug related issues. When he got released early last year we picked up where we left off and we talked frequently. He was trying to turn his life around. We were planning to meet up but never could synch schedules. A number of months ago he fell off the wagon and said he probably be put back in jail or rehab. That was the last I heard from. I just learned of his passing.

To each their own I guess. I don't fault them for wanting to keep whatever to themselves. It doesn't change my experiences with them. One guy, I guess, would be considered more of a semi-regular. We've met 2 times (it will be a third later this year) since I first hired him in 2023. He's divulged more personal info about himself each time we've met and through random texting. So I suspect he'll eventually tell me without me asking. Maybe he needs to be certain he can trust me, I don't know. This is the same guy I mentioned in this post: https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/81521-escorts-say-the-darndest-things/page/13/#comment-2414251 The other guy, I've seen a lot... for years. However, beyond a few personal tidbits, we don't talk much about his life outside of escorting. So if he tells me his name, or not, is up to him. I still enjoy our time together.

What do you mean not listed? Are you a RM member? If you're signed in as a member, his number appears.

Most of the guys I've encountered usually tell me their real names fairly quickly. Either just off-handily mentioning it or telling me when I need it to buy them a plane ticket to come visit. I do have a couple regulars that I still don't know what their real names are. If I've known the guy a fairly decent amount of time, I prefer to know their real name, but i don't try to pry it out of them. Some of the porn guys I've met have some really silly porn names and it's sometimes hard to call them by that stage name without laughing. So I'll ask and they usually tell me their names. I'll also ask a provider what they want to be called when they use an adjective or something weird for their ad name. One of the most random name slips was with a porn actor and provider. During an overnight he was looking through his duffle bag. I think he misplaced something. He remarked, "you're such a bonehead, Larry". He looked at me like he saw a ghost. lol! I knew right then and there that was his name. I was going to say to him, "Who is Larry?", but I let it go.

Michael Boston has a prolific porn career. It's probably why he feels he can get that rate. More power to him. People sometimes fail to realize when you see the date on an account, it doesn't always mean a lot for various reasons. Some providers start a RM profile but never activate it. When they finally do, it shows the date when the profile was created, not how long it's been active. He may have created his ad in 2023, but it doesn't mean he's been advertising since then. That could account for having no reviews. Also in regard to no reviews... since RM changed their review policy where you have to be a paid member, the number of reviews have appeared to have dropped significantly. I'm almost certain most people using RM aren't paid members. So they can't leave a review no matter how much they want to. I have had providers ask me to leave them reviews on RM... I just can't because I'm not a paid member.

Most I know who have retired or are not fully escorting are doing normal jobs. A few of them have gone into the medical field.