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For me, it depends on a number of factors. One of my frequent regulars, when he comes to visit me, I'll try to book a hotel with multiple beds or separate rooms. It's not that I don't like cuddling next to him, but I know he works hard at his day job and I want to be in as much comfort as possible when he visits. He seems to appreciate this a lot and shows it. We have gone on trips places where we share a bed and that works out too. For me, my biggest issue is I can run hot. Being snuggled up to someone all night, if the room isn't cool enough, can be unbearable. Although some guys love that I am so physically warm and it makes them want to snuggle more (especially in winter). 😱 😆 If I'm sharing a bed, I make sure it's the largest the hotel offers. I will definitely cuddle/snuggle but I can't do it all night usually. A large bed allows us to have our sides, but we can cuddle or whatever else any time.
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Instead of assuming... ask him. Many on this forum make assumptions and never progress to any meet up because they believe something they never do anything about to verify.
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When do you get aroused during a massage?
big-n-tall replied to whatsinaname's topic in Questions About Hiring
It depends... mainly on what the masseur is doing and where he's doing it. It usually doesn't happen until I'm laying on my back. If he's kneading deep into any part of my body and its causing even the slightest discomfort, I'm not aroused. If I'm aroused before then I'll lose it once that deep massaging starts. My erogenous zones are on or near my head. So if he's gently playing with my ears; massaging my neck; breathing heavy on my neck or ears; or gently brushing my lips... I'm up. Shea in Orlando was amazing at this. If the masseur rubs/brushes my nether regions frequently... it can happen. Or if the guy uses his whole body and rubs up and down my body while I'm laying on my stomach... it can happen. The one masseur, who no matter what he did when he did it, I was always immediately aroused, sadly retired. I was aroused just greeting him at the door. I mean he would embrace you with a deep gripping hug and growl in your ear. To each his own, and different people will be aroused by different things during a massage. -
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Well his ad says he join RM Dec 28... if real, he's too new to get any proper feedback from the forum.
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I'm going to add another... Jeid Vine.
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I'm certain he had an rentmen ad up briefly. It might still be up but under another name.
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What’s your go-to session length for massage?
big-n-tall replied to + 7829V's topic in Questions About Hiring
90 mins and on the rare occasion offers more than 90... 2 hrs. -
I’m curious… why’d you think anyone, who may still be in contact with David, would give you his personal contact information if the guy is retired? You asking for his real name and mentioning where he possibly may live in his retirement probably would make anyone who knows prone not to answer.
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Bliss Bodywork, hot guy in suburban MD outside DC
big-n-tall replied to Wanderoz's topic in Spas & Masseurs
No you shouldn’t be worried. He’s a professional and good at massage and good at the sensual elements of it. He responds very well to how you react to the massage. However, if you go in expecting more than massage, that’s where your mileage may vary. With any masseur, don’t go in expecting more than a massage with sensual/erotic (if that’s what you went for). If more happens, awesome, but if not… enjoy what is offered. -
Rentmen with no reviews and new ads leaving after a few days
big-n-tall replied to rojjodc's topic in Questions About Hiring
Probably the most prominent reason providers have little to no reviews even though they have been advertising for a while is Rentmen changed their policies. Only paid members can leave a review. I think this policy change happened before 2019 but I may be mistaken. I truly believe most clients who use RM aren’t paying members. Once the policy change happened I noticed less reviews being posted. Well at least for the guys I’ve seen in person. The other reasons could be just about anything. Maybe the provider doesn’t want reviews. I knew a few guys for whatever reason, just weren’t keen on reviews. Maybe clients are fearful of privacy issues and are just overtly cautious about doing anything to connect them to the site or escorting. So they don’t write a review. In some cases the provider can have RM delete a bad review. As for your other questions, again, it could be just about anything. Maybe the ad is fake and using someone else’s pics. They get reported and the ad is taken down. Maybe the provider alters his ad name. The ad remains active but it seems like it disappears because of the name changed. Sometimes maybe the provider figures this line of work isn’t what he thought it would be. Maybe even the providers finds enough clients or sugar daddy and shuts the ad down. Who knows. -
It really depends on the provider. Their desired times can range from daybreak to late at night. Most I know prefer the evening. i have hired someone and met as early as 8am and as late as midnight.
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I don't mind being called daddy, baby, sir, bro,... even unc (as in uncle). However, one of my regulars, during a session started calling me master. I got turned off real quick and told him not to call me that ever again. 😋 It gave me the ick for some reason.
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Andy Burgos on the big island, Hawaii
big-n-tall replied to MassageCommunityMember's topic in Spas & Masseurs
No experience, but this guy looks a lot like the retired porn actor Victor Rios... just older and more muscled. Pictures 4 and 7 in particular. His body frame even matches. I've had a major thing for Victor. If this is him I'm very interested in reaching out. More pics of Vic Rios... https://www.waybig.com/blog/2006/11/14/victor-rios-xtrainches/ -
I don’t care about someone’s height. If I find the guy attractive whether he’s 5’5” or 6’5” (the respective heights of the shortest and tallest ones I’ve met), i’m all in. I really have no preference.
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FYI... when I contacted him recently, he asked 500 per.
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Would providers consider using an AI Agent?
big-n-tall replied to + JamesB's topic in Questions About Hiring
I don't like the idea of having to deal with an AI pimp. 😀 When agencies were more abundant, only one I dealt with seem to be straight forward. The other I dealt with I often, felt like I was getting the runaround when I asked for/about specific providers. With everyone, I felt a level of detachment from the provider because I couldn't ask him directly certain things. Every provider I met through an agency ultimately gave me their direct contact because they hated having to have contact with a go-between. Yes, I see the advantages of AI for a swamped provider, but there is also the possible issue of AI giving incorrect information and the disconnect it provides. -
He used to have an ad on Rentmasseur years ago but took it down when he started to do porn
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He and Rocky broke up. It may be the reason why he decided to reactivate his account and travel.
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I haven’t met up with him yet, but I have been in contact with him. We haven’t been able to synch schedules but he’s been very sweet in our texting interactions. Unless he’s altered his rate since he reactivated RM his account, he’s on the pricier end.
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No experience but he joined RM on Nov 11. He may be too new to have any reviews/comments here.
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The guy being massaged is Johnny Donovan. He isn't straight but says he's bisexual. He's in a relationship with Ricky Donovan (thus the ricky_db onlyfans on the right side lower third). Both were porn actors for Sean Cody. Ricky seems to have retired from studio porn but Johnny still does it on occasion. Johnny is available for hire to reenact this scene. 😋 https://rent.men/Johnnydonovan
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Also it might help if you filter a RM search with providers having “bears” in their into’s. Once that’s done, read the ad copy to help further vet a candidate. Some guys make sure to highlight that they are into bears/bigger guys.
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I don't know if he's real or fake, but he just joined the site a few days ago (Nov 25, 2026). That probably explains no reviews yet. The pics seems to come from this instagram account.. https://www.instagram.com/lastbf/
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If you follow the twitter link in his ad, part of the info in the header section it says, "hiatus". He may be just be on break from things.
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