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BenjaminNicholas

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  1. Shit happens. You're not special enough to be disincluded from nature. Shower off, re-prep, get back on the horse.
  2. You're basically asking a bunch of coke addicts how to get over a powder addiction But seriously, you either quit cold turkey or you talk to a professional who has experience with addiction and/or sexual addiction. I've seen clients who had these proclivities and over time, I knew it breaking off the relationship was the only way I could move forward without someone's demise on my conscious. A good escort knows great sex, but he knows the human condition and the way people think even better. I hope you're on the right track and can continue in a healthy direction.
  3. Ramsey, to me, is mostly a cult of personality. His history with promoting and profiting from timeshare bullshit is something he handled like a shithead and would forever make me listen to anyone else for financial advice. That said, I wouldn't take advice from anyone on television who's yelling at people. Not my thing. FICO serves a purpose because most people aren't in a cash-rich situation. They don't have immediate access to millions and need to power of banks to finance big purchases.
  4. All this talk lately here about NDAs. It's kind of amusing, really. The highest profile gents I've seen have never once asked for one. These are guys who are titans of their respective industries, as well as a pro athlete and a couple of very identifiable performers. I really think it's mystique overshadowing the reality of a situation. If their gut says you're trustworthy, they give you a lot of slack. Just don't fuck it up.
  5. This morning's sunrise drive...
  6. Sept to early Nov is a shoulder season (before the rains), away from prime time when families are there in June-Aug. It's also a lot cooler. 80F highs and 55F lows. Perfect for animal drives and being outside. I just switched camps and am currently in Masai Mara. Very different topography, but it's been an absolute blast.
  7. He won't get away unscathed. Jail time is a given... The question is how much of it he will serve.
  8. Inherent risk is a part of this dance. Mentally accept that first before you move forward with seeing anyone. Never assume anything: Ask questions. Not all escorts see tons of people on a daily basis. A smart escort understands how to mitigate his STD risks. You also need to do that same thing. Bullet point: Your sexual health is your personal responsibility and no one else's.
  9. When someone attempts to set my rate for me, I just ignore them. A client doesn't determine what my time is worth: I do. You just have to be comfortable/stable enough to stick to your guns and not accept less than you want. Personally, I'd rather see far fewer people at a higher rate.
  10. So far, so good...
  11. I really find the credit bureau system to be fascinating. They've always been cloaked in a little bit of secrecy, but if you take the time to know their specific rules, you can use them to your advantage. I've cleaned up many a friends credit reports using letters and time-specific punting. That said, I'd prefer to see them more regulated, as they have nearly unchecked power within the system.
  12. If you can get access to your FICO 8 and 9, you will be able to keep up with what about 90% of lenders use. That and Vantage, which is a little more difficult to access.
  13. But this has nothing to do with the point of why I replied. The strawman strikes again!
  14. My other oldie, but goodie is Albolene. Works for solo, works for fucking, warms up and stays put.
  15. If you have assets on paper that are somehow verifiable, you can easily get a car loan/lease. Same with a home.
  16. Marsha Mason in for Farrow while she recovers from COVID.
  17. Agree. Coconut oil is amazing for jerking off and fucking.
  18. Competitive body guys also ruin their skin with UV, stretch marks and some, steroids. It ages you many years ahead of time. Dries you out. You become just a whisper of collagen clinging to gristle.
  19. I mean, what he did was a little more than a look in the wrong direction. He had a mental break and went fucking bananas. They don't take too kindly to that. Lesson learned: If you're playing in their sandbox, you play by their rules.
  20. This guy isn't well-versed enough to know that males aren't 'blonde' They're blond.
  21. Would you prefer to keep them in your flat, chained to the radiator?
  22. Binged this on a long flight recently and it was great. Really smart, witty writing and how they weave existing myth into the show makes entertaining sense. Plus, I'll watch anything with Jeff Goldblum.
  23. As a top who's had bottoms use this before a fuck session and not say anything, it's no bueno. Takes away a ton of sensation. I don't want to pound the guy for a solid hour just to get close to blowing my load. This may be less of an issue if you're using rubber, but it could easily still find its way into the condom.
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