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BenjaminNicholas

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  1. Perhaps, but a pro never just leaves someone hanging. You can cut someone off nicely while giving everyone the closure they need.
  2. I wasn't responding to you and my reply wasn't specifically about that sort of information. But, to that point, yes, a lot of escorts too have had their personal info traded and outed, both here in a public forum and privately through the messaging system or email. It's happened... It's happening... And it'll continue to happen. Bottom line, you're asking to play by two sets of rules and that's not always realistic or possible. Don't get me wrong: I see what you're saying and don't inherently disagree. I'm just being a realist here. Not what COULD be, but what IS happening. These private message boards may or may not contain client personal info, but much of what is exchanged is done to protect escorts from truly awful people. That's the reason they exist and will continue to exist. As I've said in other threads, this is not the hobby for those who have a lot to protect (and lose).
  3. To be a good blond (no 'e' when describing a male), you have to have some features that support it. You also have to go ACTUALLY blond. Not yellow. Not orange. It's not easy for most people because they're lazy and think it's as easy as a one-and-done application. No bueno. When I go blond, I have a whole process for it. It always looks good, but that's from years of trial and error.
  4. This is why I get into edging. I want to build up enough of a load to hear the guy servicing me have to glup multiple times. Turns me on. That kind of thing also requires a guy who knows how to give great head. That's always the wild card.
  5. An escort/client friendship can transcend a money transaction, but it takes a genuine connection. It also requires BOTH guys to participate. Some escorts are incredible when you're traveling with them, but then all but disappear when the time is over. Other guys want to maintain a bond with text messages, emails and calls. You may have found a great travel escort, but one that wants to keep you at arm's length when you're not together.
  6. I've said it before and I'll say it again: Set your rates high enough that tips aren't a thing.
  7. When you see a pic of your friend posted here, randomly. This guy is not only a beautiful ginger, but a beautiful person too. Thanks for the smile
  8. The same concern on the flip side: What about inaccurate info or wild gossip about an escort? It's just the nature of this hobby. It breeds a thicker skin, or should. As others here have said, you disclose what might be problematic and hope for the best. You can't control what other people say about you.
  9. Correction: IYKYK?
  10. The first rule of being allowed on an escort board is no talking about what's said on the escort board. I will admit they exist. I'd never tell someone what was said about them (good or bad).
  11. Agreed. Specifically, make sure you get a CBC, CMP-14, and tests for cortisol, reproductive hormones, insulin, and thyroid hormones panel. These are the most important to keep track of where you're at.
  12. If I close my eyes, I can almost see the look of confusion and disappointment on the face of the abuela taking your order.
  13. In addition to Mr Number, there are private message boards for escorts (gay and straight) to discuss problematic clientele.
  14. Remember the scene from Wizard of Oz where they're all getting polished up to meet with The Wizard? Do that.
  15. I think chewing the fat here won't do you much good. I get that you want to verbalize this because it's bothering you, but the best thing you can do right now is have an open, honest conversation with this guy if you intend on keeping this arrangement going. If he's unwilling to do that, you have your answer. Otherwise, he may just be super busy or have some personal issues that are bogging him down. Give people grace... Until they start acting like assholes. Then you drop the hammer.
  16. In a true K-spa, clothing is not optional in wet areas. It's not allowed, period. Clothing, of any kind, in the purified hot water of soaking tubs is seen as a contaminant. If there's a good K-spa in any city I'm in, it's likely that's the place I'm going.
  17. You're a good egg. Not a lot of personalities on this board would be so kind in that situation.
  18. Incantations from the Whore Grimmerie
  19. YOU GET AN ESCORT! YOU GET AN ESCORT! YOU GET AN ESCORT! The ad copy almost writes itself.
  20. That was his choice, clearly. In the book, that wasn't the case. More to that, Fiyero was originally written for the musical as very dark, somewhat dangerous, which is exactly why they cast a non-pretty boy in the original role (Norbert Leo Butz). Over the years, the role has homogenized to square jaw, pretty teeth, nice ass, pop voice.
  21. Based on the physique you have now, you don't need gear, you need to eat. Eat a lot more. And keep training. What is your current height/weight? A lot of guys want to look like this, but it's not genetically possible. You always need to be honest with yourself as to what you can physically achieve, even on SARMS or full gear.
  22. I still think Key West's memorial was done best. It's a great space, it's well-located and it's easy to understand. The number of names etched into the memorial are awfully sobering.
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