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I met with him last night. Let's get one thing set: he is gorgeous. Handsome, sexy lips, a tiny and compact body that is sculpted beautifully. He is pretty timid, and English isn't his first language, but he does a good job at following along. The initial communication was excellent via the app and texting. He is swift to respond. Ultimately, I didn't find the meeting to be passionate. He just went with the flow and let things unfold. The kissing was lackluster - more just little pop-kisses, no real making out. At one point, I asked for more of that (since I requested and confirmed it ahead of time), and it was slightly better, but not the fantasy. For the terms he set ($300) I expect providers to lead with more gusto and create a hot, passionate, erotic environment. That did not happen here. I wouldn't book again, but I had fun. 

That was one of the best asses I have ever seen!

That's a red flag. Too much wiggle room to decline certain services the client may want done. I would stay away.

aging?

That was one of the best asses I have ever seen!

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I really appreciate your time and effort in this matter. You have given me a lot to think about. I am hesitant to take Doxyprep for several reasons including a pre existing condition I have and the fact that I am not very sexually active which makes me wonder if taking the medication will be most effective like you said. I will talk to my primary care doctor about it. Thanks so much!

Great points. I am disease free after a recent checkup. And you're right there's risk whether it's a provider or a casual hookup.

That was one of the best asses I have ever seen!

That was one of the best asses I have ever seen!

Looks great and is candid in his HIV situation.

I assume that everyone has something and act accordingly. 

I agree with Simon Suraci. I had a yeast infection/candida from being on two antibiotic courses back to back, (not from an std). My mouth was discolored and covered in yeast. I had rashes all over my body. I had to take antifungal mouthwash, and antifungal pill. Antibiotics kill the good bacteria and the bad. I can’t imagine going on Doxypep or antibiotic for std prevention, but I’m not a doctor. Yeast infections are troublesome and take time to get rid of, and they are a common side effect of antibiotics.

I really appreciate your time and effort in this matter. You have given me a lot to think about. I am hesitant to take Doxyprep for several reasons including a pre existing condition I have and the fact that I am not very sexually active which makes me wonder if taking the medication will be most effective like you said. I will talk to my primary care doctor about it. Thanks so much!

Great advice. Thanks again! 

I do agree. This profile seemed sus with all the reviews to all the providers. In also noticing he reviewed guys in NYC and Spain and other cities in the same days . This is 100% fake in my opinion 

That’s not a "rack rate", that’s robbery.
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Modern medicine. A great thing. Science has made great advances. We have medications for most everything that could, or might, happen. Pills, and shots. Thank God for Science and modern life. Please visit a gay friendly clinic and learn your options. They can guide you. 

I want to try my first experience with a provider after nearly 21 years but I am fearful of catching something. How do you guys reconcile this when hiring a provider? I know many are on prep but what about the other diseases that prep doesn't protect you from? Is it as simple as meeting up and keeping your fingers crossed that you won't get anything? I want to get back out there but again I have some reservations. Any advice would be helpful.

I met him- but I decided not to do the session. He didn’t look nearly as fit, nearly as young, and it just seemed like there was something UP with him (drugs? Just guessing). I had a 5 minute or less conversation with him: he asked for payment by minute 2, and by minute 3 I began to backpeddle out, citing “tummy issues.” My tummy was fine.
You might wonder WHY escorts continue to work way past their prime (which is when their photos are usually from) and the answer is simple! They still get paid (most of the time).
someone like brazilian_hunter is BANKING on the fact that by the time I show up to his door, I am going to be so prepared and pumped up and horny that the following events will occur as such: I’ll see him, I’ll be disappointed, I’ll tell myself “well I’m horny and ready and drove 30 minutes to get here, I might as well just do it.”
 
THAT’S where the life cycle of escorts with fake/dated pictures begins! Despite being a scammer, he still gets paid. Why would he stop? Sure he will keep disappointing people, but he will just start taking measures to mitigate bad reviews like blocking immediately after getting the money (inevitably in the first 3 minutes), Or asking “what’s your screen name?” at the beginning of a text conversation, which by the way is a huge red flag for everybody.
i personally choose to BREAK (or at least weaken) the cycle of fake/dated pictures because i resist the “I’m already here, let’s just do it” voice and LEAVE. If you order a steak and it’s not you like it, whether or not you suffer a loss is contingent upon ONE THING! Did you eat the steak?

 
 

Should I pay the provider before or after the service and when should this be discussed? I would imagine as soon as you meet the provider, he is going to want payment before the session begins but there is a risk if compensation is given beforehand right?

while i appreciate the fact that People was open to naming an openly Gay man, i'm sorry they picked the wrong openly Gay (or any) man ... his advocacy is admirable ... and he's surely hot by all standards ... but "sexiest alive"?      not for this man

I guess that I am the odd man out here. I am not at all attracted to him.

I have not hired a provider in years and I am strongly considering hiring one again soon. But then I remembered when I hired them in the past, the experiences weren't great. I left feeling like I have just been taken advantage of. Maybe it's just me or maybe we are getting the bare minimum from these providers. We pay so much to hire them  and often get back so little or are scammed. I have to ask myself and you all is it really worth it? What do you guys think?

Totally agree!  I am very short, which is a dealbreaker for a lot of guys.  For my very first hire, I could tell from the moment I walked in that he was not remotely attracted to me, and (though he tried and I still had a decent experience) it kind of ruined the fantasy for me.  Even though I make every effort to make it clear that I’m very short, it doesn’t register with some guys until I’m standing in front of them- I would have much rather been rejected than have an experience that is difficult for the provider.