Socalguy

I can relate to this. Back in high school, I had an unreciprocated crush on my best friend, who had noticeable body odor that I found strangely sexy. His uncut and cheesy dick was the first one I ever sucked. To this day, the scent of raunchy pits, sweaty balls, smelly groins and cheesy dicks turns me on big time. 

He used to come to the April weekend event but I haven't seen him for a couple of years. I texted him to see if he will be there this year but he hasn't responded. I'm not surprised though since it is so far out and he might not even know yet. I've never hired him much to my regret, but he is a really nice, hot, piggy sweetheart in person.  

Watching wild card playoff games this weekend revved up my on-off again “thing” with hunky football players, the tight pants covering those magnificent asses … and more. 

Examples of fetishes
Fetish based on a past experience: One of the earliest sexual experiences of an old friend of mine was being taken home from a leather bar by a biker, and having sex on the floor of his garage, rolling around on a rubber sheet coated with motor oil. After that, the odor of motor oil was always a surefire aphrodisiac for him.
Obsessive fetish: An old friend told me about an acquaintance of his in Scotland who was into a weird form of "grunge play"--he always put a raw egg into his pants pocket before going out cruising, and he couldn't cum until someone smashed the egg in the pocket (usually unintentionally).
Fetish that is really just a fantasy, not something one actually has experienced or wants to: being gang-raped in a football team locker room by players in uniform.
I hope these examples won't keep you awake tonight.😈

Such a tease! Stripping for the feet fetishist. 

No excuse, a good foot pig should be able to multitask. 🦶😍

Well, I took a chance and went with him and he was amazing. Not sure if he was 39 (it was a little dark in the room but I have no reason to doubt him) but he was handsome and his muscles in his legs and arms were rock solid. I will definitely hire him again. 

No excuse, a good foot pig should be able to multitask. 🦶😍

scenes like that drive me crazy. How he can have that foot so close to his face and not devour it is beyond me. 

His focus is clearly elsewhere…😜

I don't see myself having any of that done, but I don't hate them. Like every fashion trend, some look really good, some look really bad.

I think they come and go. I used to enjoy certain aspects of athletic gear years ago; now, not so much. And feet were never on my list until I was more or less urged to participate in a little footsie with a hot escort and now it’s become quite a desire. My interest in leather gear has never waned, but reading through the Fetish forum has certainly aroused my curiosity in some new things. Just like my taste in men has changed over the years. Twinks were never on my radar and now I can’t get enough of them. Guess I’m adjusting to my “daddy” role with the unwanted arrival of way too much gray hair, especially in the nether region. 

At the advice of a friend I recently took up wrestling. I’d never thought of it as a fetish per se, but it does make me ultra horny. 

scenes like that drive me crazy. How he can have that foot so close to his face and not devour it is beyond me. 

What bugged me regarding my "negative" review is the fact that I was not bashing the guy. If I wanted to do that then I would have given a one-star review. Most one-star review that I have read are filled with emotion and more of a hit piece.

In your particular case, I think you acted appropriately if the review was based on the facts (messy room, mattress on the floor, etc.).  Had it just been him checking his phone or seeming bored, I think him offering a free massage would have been an excellent gesture of goodwill and he would have deserved a second chance since everyone can have an off day but a second chance wouldn't have fixed the mattress or the messy room. When reading reviews, I find the 3 and 4 star reviews the most compelling as they seem to be more fact based as opposed to one star reviews which can seem like a hit job sometimes or the five stars (although I do read them for hints of juicy action) that seem too fanboyish. 
 

Do fetishes change as we age, or do we just discover fetishes we've always had and never knew? I used to think feet were rather gross but now my goal in life is to be the world's biggest foot pig. Mind you they have to be clean and well maintained, but if they are, I could spend days under them. The same is true (to a lesser degree) for a few things I used to find unappealing such as hairy backs, pissing and cuckolding. I was just wondering if I have changed with age and experience or were they always there and I never knew it? If it is the second one, I wondering how many other unexplored fetishes I might have. 😈
 

I was client for a guy a few times, I knew he had an OF. One visit he was fucking me and asked to video it for OF. I said yes in the moment, I would have prob never agreed to it otherwise. A few months later I signed up and watched it, it was good. Kinda glad I went out of my comfort zone.

Some things that attract us we don't even think of as fetishes--they simply seem like natural preferences to us--until they are pointed out to us as fetishes by someone else. Some things don't become fetishes until after we have experienced them. Some people can't enjoy sex without the presence of the fetish, and for others the fetish simply enhances the experience. Some fetishes we don't want to really experience at all, except as fantasies.

Do fetishes change as we age, or do we just discover fetishes we've always had and never knew? I used to think feet were rather gross but now my goal in life is to be the world's biggest foot pig. Mind you they have to be clean and well maintained, but if they are, I could spend days under them. The same is true (to a lesser degree) for a few things I used to find unappealing such as hairy backs, pissing and cuckolding. I was just wondering if I have changed with age and experience or were they always there and I never knew it? If it is the second one, I wondering how many other unexplored fetishes I might have. 😈
 

I think your perspective definitely changes when you see likable people enjoying things that previously seemed off putting. I was never much into feet until I hooked up one day with a foot fetishist who wanted to jerk off using my feet. It was surprisingly hot and it did make me think about it. Likewise, an escort I hired asked if he could tie me up and fuck me- something I would have never considered but the whole experience was so sensual that I would gladly do it again