DenverDad

This forum could be a real asset to providers.  Being newer to RM, I only have 500 characters to communicate who I am and what I offer.  This offers a chance to communicate more thoughtfully and give guys on the other side of this industry a more complete view of who I am. 
But this can be a treacherous place for providers!  Many of us have scaled back participation for that reason. 
There's some really dominant toxic voices.  There's a loud peanut gallery that seems to make a hobby of comments ranging from critical to derogatory about providers they've never met or hired.  ("Needs to hit the gym," "Terrible tattoos," "Too girlie!" "Looks older than he lists,"  "PNP means he's a junkie!" "Smoker!")  There's a strong risk of slander, against which it's all but impossible to defend yourself.  (I've watched it happen to providers I know well and trust!)  And there's some known scammers - about whom we all warn each other - regularly contributing as though they're legitimate clients.  
If there were more to be gained here for us to participate, it would probably draw more of us back.  A sub-forum to promote ourselves?  Would anyone actually take advantage?  Maybe not. 
Worth noting: Every client I've met who uses this site - contributor or lurker - has been a top notch guy, just doing their research a bit more thoroughly.  So the issue really does just seem to be the loudest most toxic voices.  

I don’t post as often as I used to because there are a lot of really toxic men on here. Some are cool but most conversations devolve into rude comments and uncivilized communication. There are also several guys on the site that clearly dislike each other and can’t seem to just ignore one another so many threads are just them going at it. It just gets tiresome. At least that’s why I no longer contribute.

As someone in the same spot, there are definitely providers who are very much into back hair (or just professional enough not to care).  

The downtown Dallas Y steam room, dry sauna, showers and hot tub in the late 80s-early 90s where always cruisy. 

He told you he was 17 AND his father was outside and you didn’t kick him out immediately?  JFC. 

Gen = generous

He told you he was 17 AND his father was outside and you didn’t kick him out immediately?  JFC. 

He told you he was 17 AND his father was outside and you didn’t kick him out immediately?  JFC. 

Gen = generous

He told you he was 17 AND his father was outside and you didn’t kick him out immediately?  JFC. 

The downtown Dallas Y steam room, dry sauna, showers and hot tub in the late 80s-early 90s where always cruisy. 

The downtown Dallas Y steam room, dry sauna, showers and hot tub in the late 80s-early 90s where always cruisy. 

I should think older people, no matter their orientation or gender, should have learned to deal with life in its various stages and should have made sure they were prepared, as much as possible, for the vicissitudes of life.  .  It is not a mystery what age brings.  .  As we age, we lose physical flexibility. but many gain fiscal flexibility.  We lose the interest of youthful admirers but gain interest in out bank accounts.  We lose sight and gain insight.  We lose hearing but gain freedom from all the unnecessary noise. 
Ultimately, I believe what this gentleman said is somewhat true, but that if older gay men want to be heard, they need to have something worthwhile to say. If they want to teach about gay history, they need to recognize that gay life has changed rather than bemoaning those changes.  They need to accept the concept that being beautiful and desirable is more in who you are than what you see in the mirror. 
Older gay men, and in most cases, older people in general, are best served growing up about growing old.   There is no choice about aging, there is a choice to do so with grace and style.

Love Simon Brody 
https://www.gaymenring.com/simon-massage-brody-2312688.html

Moonlight Sonata as background music to a grieving hockey player's emotional catharsis.

Could be a number of things - him naturally just turned on, ED drugs, etc.  In the end, if he is hard the entire time, does it matter?

My two go-to's in Denver:
https://rentmasseur.com/RascalRy
https://rentmasseur.com/WillTantra

And being in the shower together makes water sports easier to try 😈 💦 

Been on Mounjaro since April for diabetes management.  I started with 2.5 then 5.0 a month later then 7.5 a month after that.  My A1C went from 11.1 to 6.4 in about 2 months and I've lost 25 pounds since I've started (between the med and improved diet).  All my side effects have been gastro related (sulpher burps, constipation) but all have been manageable with OTC meds and increasing my fiber and water intake.  I've definitely noticed the decrease in food noise (constantly thinking about food) and decrease in appetite and cravings.  For me, the improvement in my blood sugar alone has been a game changer and a life saver.
PM if you have any questions.

His pictures are gorgeous and the description is very appealing, but why does he call himself "petit"? At 5'10" he's far from petite.

Targeting between 5-6k this year (monthly massage/play) plus couple of guys on my Buddy list if we happen to be in the same city.

Dang what do you guys do for a living?! 😅

https://rentmasseur.com/ManToManRelief

Anyone been with this bodybuilder from London, England?
https://rentmen.eu/wolfmassage/
I couldn't find anything about him on the board (unless he went by a different name) and he's apparently coming to Palm Springs in April.
Thank you.

Will is great. Also https://rentmasseur.com/RascalRy