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Have you considered being a traveling nurse until you find a new location to settle?  I have a few family members that are RN that made good money while traveling and most expenses are paid.  Think of a try and buy in a region.  

I’ve been seeing him for over a year.
https://rent.men/twink_hotBD
He’s a really sweet guy and has a tight Twink body.  He communicates well and is always on time.
I highly recommend meeting him.

I respect everyone's responses. And I love all races that's for sure ❤️ I've met a lot of tasty.... *oh sht*.. Uhmm.. Nice white men or people in general. With everything blasted on the news, it's just frustrating and making me anxious as an immigrant. They are depicting immigrants in a negative way. And not all people in this country are as open and welcoming to immigrants. So most of the time, my colleagues who have lived here almost their entire lives have always adviced me that if I'm going to move to another state, include in the factors the diversity of the place. And again, with my response, I really meant no offense at all. There are certain, how do I say it? Types? Of white people that scares me a little, and to be honest, not all of those types are white. It's up to your interpretation what those types mean. It's probably just because again of the news and my social media feed. But again I love American saus... I mean white men.... err.. PEOPLE! 🫣
All love, no hate I swear xoxo

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he's a beauty! 

A 20yo straight smoker, but awesome body.  Looks Easter European.

https://rent.men/Apuntob 

Well, it seems safe to say you didn't use this list when you first picked New Jersey. I think the place you're looking for was described in a book by Thomas More, called Utopia. I'm not trying to be snarky, but only to point that the things on your list are things everybody might want in a locale, making the demand high, and driving the prices up.
If your RN work is in a hospital environment, you might consider cities smaller than Metro NY. Baltimore with Johns Hopkins might work, although a number of your listed items would be hard to find there. Heading farther down the coast, Charleston, South Carolina or Savannah, Georgia are great options to get you closer to your goal, as would any number of locations in Florida. Norfolk and Charlottesville, Virginia might also be considered.
Also, don't just focus on living in or near city centers, but expand out to close-in suburbs with good public transit, or good highways with good traffic management and/or affordable ride services to and from the fun gay places usually found in the downtowns.
Good look in your quest and keep us advised of your progress.

I think you are speaking for the majority of young people in the middle class with good education and desired skills who are struggling in today’s economy. It’s the same here in Canada as in the US from all that I read. And I stay in tune with current events. 
The conundrum is that the good jobs are in high cost areas. So your income goes mostly to rent, food, cost of running a car and little left over for extras, much less saving. 
My generation, the baby boomers, starting work in the 1970’s, had it so much easier. We got jobs easily, bought our first houses at a young age, and started savings and making investments as our incomes rose beyond our needs. By our 50’s many of us were well off. I was able to retire at that age and am now 78. I don’t see that for many millennials going forward. 

never send a deposit to a provider that has no reviews. 

Being tired just from existing.  EVERYTHING is exhausting; even the most minor task has become gargantuan.  This has started to hit me in my mid-30s.

He's a great guy. Wish I could spend more time with him. His cock is pretty big. I have trouble getting it in my throat.

Shared with his permission.   This morning in New Orleans!   

https://rentmen.eu/IGsmooth
 
 

My sole activities that I enjoy are worshipping feet, being spanked, and having my face sat upon.  I always just jerk off myself to “take care of things” as I refer to it in my own RM profile.
When I first started hiring 21 years ago (and for about 10-12 years thereafter), I would be so aroused and excited that I would “take care of things” after only about 20 minutes, after which I was perfectly content to just call it a highly satisfying session and be on my way.  I never met a provider who wasn’t very content for that to be the case, and one provider even said, “I love how all this turns you on so much and so fast, and it makes it so much easier for me.”
Now, however (at age 62), “things” are much harder to “take care of,” so I always wait until after the provider leaves before even attempting.  Being honest, I don’t want the embarrassment of not being able to go “over the top” in 3-4 minutes, nor do I want the provider to somehow feel he “missed the mark.”
That’s why now the duration of a session is far more significant to me than it was 20 years ago.  When “Mr. Timer” left that second time, I could not even come close to “taking care of things,” so I just stared at a photo of a retired provider from when he and I met 15-20 years ago, and I fantasized that it had been him I’d just met with rather than “Mr. Timer.”

If this is true, I'm very impressed 😁 
 

I agree with the other positive comments here. I highly recommend.

I’m glad he’s found this forum!   I’ll add that I’ve been corresponding with this young man as he preps for his return to the US.  I’ve found him to be good at communication and very kind/sweet as we plan for a visit when he gets here 

Just recently seen him. He a super cute twink and super passionate. I had lot of fun him. Love his dark humor. I been a while since I had a good time with a twink. I definitely recommend him 👍 

Yes he was just here over the weekend.  Very pleasant company. Had to shuffle schedule around due to unforeseen circumstances on my part. We spent all day together yesterday and was a lot of fun. He's friendly, cute, polite, engages in conversation, very comfortable to be around.  No like most guys I have met/hired who are his age. I highly recommend

At the risk of returning to the topic... Quite an ordeal you had. Your trauma is real. And your body, finances, identity, and home are intact - so, now you have some time to heal, which ideally won't include any sexual partners until you feel you've addressed the trauma. 
If you can't host, and the provider can't host, consider the inquiry closed. Small market? Once every couple months, get yourself a hotel room in a big city to give you better options for hiring your type, in or out.
Only you can know what lessons to take away - both from the evening, and disclosure here. Best of luck. 

Despite the effort of one person to make the topic of Toxic Providers about color, I stand by the group consensus that offers recommendations to not set oneself to be a vulnerable victim: 
1. Don't pay in advance, unless you've hired the gentlemen before. 
2.  If one wants "comfort", rent a hotel room bed not a bathhouse bench.
3.  Cash is king.  No record of transaction.  Communicate via various messenger apps that protect one's identity. 
4. Block anyone who begins threats.  Don't feed the troll.
These tips should work with hired gentlemen of all colors.
Edit: Kudos to the original poster for not mentioning the providers color in the original post.  Several recommendations were made how to handle the situation, prior to knowing what the escort looked like.  Those recommendations should still be valid.

The vast majority of the traveling Latin escorts are all working for an "agency".   No idea if they all work for one pimp though.  Start comparing their photo-shopped profiles and you'll see the same clothes, shoes, backgrounds, etc.   

Twink_Dario shares the same reviewer, Pascii, with AngelTheGuy and Marcosgeneve. Twink_Dario, Pascii, and AngelTheGuy look AI-generated. I'm on the fence about Marcosgeneve, but I assume he's AI, too.
Btw, Twink_Dario, AngelTheGuy, and Marcosgeneve don't meet clients; they only sell pictures and videos, which I assume are AI, too.

Twink_Dario shares the same reviewer, Pascii, with AngelTheGuy and Marcosgeneve. Twink_Dario, Pascii, and AngelTheGuy look AI-generated. I'm on the fence about Marcosgeneve, but I assume he's AI, too.
Btw, Twink_Dario, AngelTheGuy, and Marcosgeneve don't meet clients; they only sell pictures and videos, which I assume are AI, too.