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I have been very fortunate to have hired men that have never made me feel “less than,” but was wondering if any of you felt as though certain escorts or erotic masseurs seemed to really get off on an older, heavier clientele? I always assumed that the men I hired were just doing their job, making me feel desirable. But recently I have found an escort here in LA that genuinely likes much older guys, and if you are an overweight bear kinda guy, even better. And because of this, our encounters have been nothing less than incredible! You guys have any thoughts on this, and maybe suggest other guys that are into us old husky daddy bears?

Can a “boi” really be 35?
 

I reached out to him to ask about his rates and he said 750 for 2-3 hours so that things don't feel rushed. I'm not sure if that's how he opened up conversations for everyone else but that's a no for me. The client should be the one to determine how long of a session they want.

I have been very fortunate to have hired men that have never made me feel “less than,” but was wondering if any of you felt as though certain escorts or erotic masseurs seemed to really get off on an older, heavier clientele? I always assumed that the men I hired were just doing their job, making me feel desirable. But recently I have found an escort here in LA that genuinely likes much older guys, and if you are an overweight bear kinda guy, even better. And because of this, our encounters have been nothing less than incredible! You guys have any thoughts on this, and maybe suggest other guys that are into us old husky daddy bears?

Plenty of guys make $300 an hour. Anyway, they’re not just working for the hour they’re with you. An hours booking (in call) for me takes at least two hours out of my time. The cost also represents the time a provider puts in to prepare for your meeting, the time and money he spends on personal care (gym, wax, cosmetics etc), time taking pics and promoting himself. Then there’s taxes. Take all that into consideration and the $300 you refer to ends up as $150. If a client tips me I feel that I went beyond their expectations and am certainly going to make sure they get great service next time. For example if they book a time and I’m busy I’ll move things around to fit their schedule. I wouldn’t necessarily do that for someone who didn’t tip.

My massage work sometimes merges into escort work (there’s hardly a definitive line between the two). I think it’s in those instances where clients are more inclined to tip me. 

I actually really get off on serving bigger men and older men.  
Very early in my escort life, I had a client in his 80’s.  I was admittedly a little unsure beforehand of how I’d react.  I’d always gotten off on age difference, playing with older guys, but this was extreme even for me.  Come to find out, this guy was one of my hottest experiences.  The gravitas he brought, and the breadth of life experience, made for a really intense sex appeal.  I still actively hope I maintain his level of sex appeal when I’m his age.   Ever since, I’ve actively pursued every opportunity I could to play with senior seniors.  
As for the bear aspect?   That wasn’t such a discovery.  I’ve ALWAYS been into big guys.  All the more to explore.  More places to bury your face.  😈 
I really believe you shouldn’t have any problem finding providers who are genuinely into daddy bears and grandpa bears. 
And please holler if you’re ever in NYC!  👋🏻 😏 

I thought about writing several paragraphs but I thought I'd be creative and list my honest reflections on how different tip amounts make me feel (for reference my base rate is anywhere from 300-700/hr, and maybe about 50% of my clients tip regularly)
 
10-20 = a sweet gesture / it's the thought that counts!
40-60 = aww shucks, thank you *blush*
70-150 = beaming with pride for hours at a job well done & deeply appreciated
200-300+ = head over heels, deeply appreciative, reminded how much I love my job, mental note to look for ways to go above and beyond for this client in the future

Let me start off by saying I tend to tip pretty well for services such as my house cleaners, dog groomer, restaurant staff, etc..  But for some reason, tipping for escort or erotic massage services is something that I have trouble navigating. I guess I feel that if someone is getting paid $300-400 per hour, and most likely is not claiming this income on their taxes, that perhaps tipping isn’t necessary? But I have to say that I have always tipped for these services, and probably will continue to do so, but would like to hear everyone’s opinion. 

I would just let it go and not return.

Yup, you should ask about each one. Especially the kissing, which escorts don't always provide.

some newbie advice.....
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/142802-etiquette-for-initial-communication/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/130365-caveats-in-hiring-please-contribute/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/83821-advice-for-a-newbie-please/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/103088-newbie-question/
https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/13389-recommendations-for-newbie/
be to-the-point, brief, professional in communication......no gushy daily texts!......smile, have fun, talk slowly, ask him what he likes, no money talk, look him in the eye, firm handshake....... no deposit!!

You also should be forthright about your interest in having him cum, if that is important to you. 

Foot fetishes are pretty common. A lot of providers even put their feet in their profiles. The best thing you can do is be explicit with that you want (foot job, etc) and make sure he’s comfortable with it. From your description of him, I’m pretty confident he’ll be down. 

In most paid 3somes with escorts couples hire a guy together.... makes me wonder if some folks thinking about doing this to "split the bill"?
It's certainly twice the work for the escort. 
 
 

I remember one of the first times seeing a guy in beater (in public):  I was in junior high and this guy was a senior in HS and there were a few times a day we had to walk thru the HS and one of these times this guy is lying right in the middle of our walkway (right between the lockers and the cafeteria booths) and he has a beater and jeans on with arms up over his head…sexiest look ever…and I stepped over him, intentionally, just to get a better look…🤣…not sure if anyone else did??? 
 
The other time was at Bible camp…our counselor, I think was college age, wore a beater every day…and during morning and evening devotionals he’d have it on and while he was talking to us he’d lean down sometimes looking into the bottom bunk (where I was) with his arms up against the top part of the bunk…showing off his pits and muscles 😜.  Sometimes I wonder if he was being intentional with that…we would have all been going into HS…and he was 19 or 20

Any more LA favorites for anyone?

I have asked several of my escort hires to wear wife beaters.  Some don't seem to understand what I mean by that so I tell them a sleeveless undershirt or tank top.  One of the guys I asked showed up at my hotel door in the dead of winter wearing a wife beater.  He had a hairy chest and i just about blew my wad right then and there.  I spent the next hour slowly enjoying him in that shirt and I have to admit it made me get harder than usual which was a real treat.  He really got in to being so appreciated as well and it was one of the best sessions I ever had.  I hired him 3 more times that week!!!

Hey there sexy guyz,
Does anyone have a fetish for tank tops/wife beaters/undershirts ..? What do you think of it

Only about 10% of clients tip me but I’m in the UK and the tipping culture here isn’t like the US. 
This topic has been covered ad infinitum previously….it appears there’s no answer. Do whatever you’re comfortable with.
Also don’t assume that because someone charges say $300 for an hour that he’s making $2400 a day, $12k a week, $600k a year on an 8 hour a day, 5 days a week, 50 weeks a year gig. All tax free. Some years I only make $500k…
 

I wouldn’t hire if sex weren’t part of the arrangement.

I generally meet people through massage services. Not escort. Because of that, most of my initial sexual encounters with those providers have been NON-penetrative. Perhaps you should consider taking some courses in massage and focus on erotic massage services instead of traditional escorting. The expectations of fucking are much lower (to non-existent) with masseurs.

I have been very fortunate to have hired men that have never made me feel “less than,” but was wondering if any of you felt as though certain escorts or erotic masseurs seemed to really get off on an older, heavier clientele? I always assumed that the men I hired were just doing their job, making me feel desirable. But recently I have found an escort here in LA that genuinely likes much older guys, and if you are an overweight bear kinda guy, even better. And because of this, our encounters have been nothing less than incredible! You guys have any thoughts on this, and maybe suggest other guys that are into us old husky daddy bears?