José Soplanucas

I arrived yesterday. Find all the details in the thread I linked above. Let me share here specific info about escorts. My apps are very active, a mix of escorts, ambiguous, hits, and clearly non transactional sex. I will give a chance to the latter my first week, and then start trying the pros. This is an example of a pro hitting my Grindr: I would not pay those prices. Fercho's services are 190K Col, and that fee includes one hour in a room and a drink. My plan is to pay no more than 150K and exceptionally up to 200K.

I will sometime, but not in this trip.

Gracias, amigos. You made me feel better about myself. To add to my embarrassment, not only would I get lost when driving. Everytime I would take Metro and walk out to the surface, I needed to walk at least up to a corner to get oriented, and most times I would walk towards the wrong corner, walking back once I realized I was heading in the wrong direction. This was so bad that I started to follow a new rule: if my fucked up sense of orientation would tell me to go one way, I would choose instead to go the opposite. It would work most times.

It is useless to give ME a map. Up to the universalization of smart phones and GPS, I would get lost in the DMV continuously. I would stop, park somewhere, and deploy several maps to try to find my way. The old tough times. When I sold my car last July, I found out those maps were still there, growing mold in a trunk corner.

I am finishing packing and killing time before going to the airport in Recife and start my move to Medellin. It is going to be a long flight with two stops, first in SP and then in Bogotá. I will be landing in Medellin (if everything goes well) tomorrow at 10 am. I opened a thread here where I will post frequent reports and updates. I will be staying in a complex in Ciudad del Rio, when I booked it I had not researched the hood, I just liked it because it was one block away from the MOM and it was an area I enjoyed in a previous visit. Recently, I learned that it is a just developed new fancy neighborhood with lots of new upscale residencies, bars, coffee shops and restaurants. The area was cute when I walked through it a few years ago, but it was yet not as developed as I learned it is now. It is very close to El Poblado, some reports frame it as "the gate" to Provenza and El Poblado. In my previous visit I stayed in less gentrified areas in Laureles, so I am very curious although I am certain I will miss the more authentic local experience provided by Laureles up to a few years ago. If you have any suggestions about events or places to visit these next 40 days, please feel free to share in this thread. Just remember that I am not in a frenzy short trip trying to fuck every Colombian hottie available, but instead I am slow traveling on a very low budget, as my condo in DC is still in the market. As I am aware some friends here do not like going to Gayguides and are not interested in international traveling, I will respond in this thread when anyone shows interest. I will stay in Medayork up to December 15th, when I will be returning to Argentina, to my family and Ancient friends.

Some Queens want to rule on what matters to others. If you do not care about the political views of your partners (free or for a fee), do not ask. If you do care, feel free to do it. It is not that hard to understand.

In the saunas you should not ask, but tell them how much you pay. I was paying 150R in both saunas in Rio, sometimes 200 if they did not accept my first offer. In Salvador standard price is 100/150. When I invite a sauna GP to my place, I pay 200 to 300 in Rio, 200 in Salvador.

I was talking to myself and we decided that we really like @mike carey's contributions in this thread. But we wonder whether everyone is understanding them.

The demise of kindness and respect? What the fuck are you talking about?

Everything is at that level. If you are following my travel log, in my last post I mention a meal at Alto da Sé, in Olinda. This is a touristic hot spot, so of course the restaurants there are overpriced, specially the one I chose, with an astonishing view of Olinda and Recife. I had a spring water, a huge chicken dish, a generous dessert and one of the best coctels I have tried over here, and my bill was less than 20 bucks.

The ones playing the victim card are the ones complaining about wokism. Women who cannot command on their own bodies, or who cannot even travel to another state where their rights are respected are not playing the victim card. They are victims and they are oppressed. The hypocrisy of stating that different values should live together in a diverse country when you are actually imposing your values on others is obvious. No one forces a woman to practice an abortion if she is a Christian, but Christians in government are forcing their values into everyone. But it is OK, of course you do not see the threat of Christian theocracy when you agree with it.

Respectfuly, I think you are the one living in a fantasy. That women have lost fundamental rights is a fact. That adults cannot freely access porn in many US locations is a fact. That books are being banned in K-12 libraries is a fact. That the government is attacking educational institutions and operating in their curriculums is a fact. That history is being rewritten and museums intervened is a fact. That freedom of press and expression are under attack are also facts, although those rights are still surviving. That all these attacks, some successful some not yet, are inspired by Christian values and organizations is a fact. Praying is coming back to American schools. That you do not see the advance of Christian Theocracy is also a fact, but I do not think mines are fantasies.

Dear Americans, after whining for so many years about Muslim bigotry, get ready to suffer the consequences of Christian theocracy. Women already lost the right to choose over their own bodies in many states, not only them are under siege but also anyone who would help them to get an abortion. Pornography, freedom of speech, and gay marriage are next.

An intelligent Christian is like a sober drunk, theoretically possible. 😇

I am not a friend of religions, of any of them, not even of any kind of non racional beliefs system. However... do you not think that we all are complex and contradictory, and we all have behaviors that conflict with our values and beliefs?