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If by "falling in love" you mean can you develop feelings towards an escort in which neurotransmitters in the brain like dopamine, serotonin, & oxytocin are released that reinforce feelings of pleasure, reward, and bonding - yes, you can fall in love with just about anything or anyone, including people, drugs, etc. But obsessing over another human being who only sees you as a walking ATM is an exercise in frustration, as you've correctly observed. But, to answer your question: yes, I have fallen in love with an escort - and it was painful, frustrating, EXPENSIVE - AND enjoyable all at the same time. Enjoy your guy, but occasionally remind yourself that "infatuation is hopeless" and that some day this relationship will end, and not kindly.

I contacted him via "Chat with Me" on RN when he was in Cincy last year - got an auto-message about contacting him through Whatsapp, which I did - and received no response. I went back to the "Chat with Me" and left another message about the inability to reach him - and got another auto-message. I gave up. He does have a really hot Twitter page. https://x.com/AndresHenri_

He was very quick in replying to my query (using the "Chat" function on RN) about his services in Indy and his reply was succinct and polite with no pushiness. His quoted rate was $300. I haven't yet scheduled but probably will. Hope this helps.

I think Jeremy Tyler may be your man. He's been in bunches of (gay) wrestling videos and travels frequently throughout the country. I'm not sure but I think his base is ATL but he is scheduled to visit Kansas City, DC, Omaha, etc. in the near future. I made contact with him a couple of years ago and he even invited me to attend one of his tapings in Chicago which, unfortunately, I was unable to attend. He quoted a fee of $200 to watch or $350 if you want to "watch the loser get f*cked" after the match. I know you want to get in on the action so maybe he's amenable to your participation - it doesn't hurt to ask. He is easy to communicate with and seems to be a perfect gentleman (except, I guess, in the "squared circle." He's been around a while and I've never hired him, but he seems to get good Reviews. I realize he's not a twink, but I suspect that if you're looking for the pro-wrestling experience, he's your man. Ethan "Axel" Andrews (I think he lives in NC) of "Wrestler4Hire" used to advertise on RM but not recently - same for Aryx Quinn (aka Tristan Baldwin). As you know, RM has "wrestling" in its Search criteria - so you can "thin out the herd" a bit. I contacted a hot little stud in Indy recently for such an encounter but his fee was unrealistic. Anyway, good luck - and I hope you're able to "Get on Board the Ho Train" as "The Godfather" (wrestler Charles Wright, WWE) used to say. Jeremy_Tyler - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Atlanta, GA | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Atlanta, GA - Jeremy_Tyler: PUBLISHED AUTHOR, MASSEUR, BOYFRIEND EXPERIENCE

Recent quote: "300 hour 400 90 minutes 500 2 hours" - (I told him I would host in Indy). He was very quick to respond with his brief and to-the-point reply to my query.

Whenever a "provider" requires a photo I always send this one - and it usually satisfies their demand.

Last October he quoted me a rate of $400 for "body worship and a massage."

We’ve all been there, so you’re not the Lone Ranger - we’ve all mislabeled “paid companionship” for “love.” But, it sounds like you’ve become addicted to him and it won’t be easy to break the addiction - the “pleasure pathways” in your brain’s reward center (including an actual dopamine rush) won’t let you let him go easily. Your brain will demand that you keep getting your daily “fix” of him and your brain will lie to you, telling you that he really misses you and has feelings for you (although your prefrontal cortex will rationally tell you, unsuccessfully, that what he actually misses is your wallet). Withdrawal will be physically and emotionally rough, but it has to be done - the day will come when he moves on to someone else, with or without your permission - I suspect he has others who “take care of him” - they always do. I would suggest that you invest in therapy to learn behavioral ways to break the addiction (distance, change of self-talk, distraction, and most importantly, a support group). It will take a while, but you’ve already taken the first step: recognition that this relationship is not a healthy one. Good luck - it’ll get better.

Barbara Billingsley played the filthiest mom on TV. I remember one time she said "Ward, don't you think you were a little hard on the beaver last night?" (Yeah, I know, that's an oldie.)

The ONLY time I've ever paid upfront was last year in Atlanta. I got his number from his ad on "MegaPersonals" - my first mistake. I was actually surprised that the person in the photo showed up as he has also been in a few pretty hot porn vids (mostly him having his impressive schlong being milked in the cramped backseat of a Jeep). Anyway, he showed up at my hotel room, asked for the money, counted his loot, called me a "vintage" sobriquet for a gay person, and then left. As others have stated: NEVER PAY UPFRONT, NEVER SEND A DEPOSIT. I would also add: don't get your escort referrals from sleazy online sites like MegaPersonals.

The first time I hired DOMDADDYFORU in Atlanta, as soon as I closed the door, he whipped out his impressive schlong and ordered me to "Touch it" - he is under the impression that a cop would NEVER touch another man's tool. I was totally willing to comply with his TERMS OF SERVICE - even though I have my doubts that this is a reliable process to detect law enforcement.

I've had several sessions with "Diego" going back several years when he was not as bulked up and was, in my opinion, even sexier as a slimmer, muscular competitor in the "Ballroom Throwback" events (he dominated the "BQ Body" battles) - YT has a bunch of vids of him dominating the competition. In the past couple of years we've had several one-on-ones and a few group smorgasbords with other escorts and guys we invited off Grindr (totally hot and mutually satisfying for all, most lasting hours). I can assure you that Diego is a super nice guy, totally honest, and his photos are accurate - this is verifiable if you've ever drooled over his Instagram pics (and I'm pleased that he includes several of the photos I took before or after our gatherings). His rates are very reasonable and he doesn't try to upsell before or during your encounter. Bottom line: you can't go wrong when booking with this truly sexy, approachable, reasonable gentleman. BTW, I've only known Diego to top.

I've met with Kevin in Indy 3 times in the past month. DM me for details.

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$700/hour quote today April 4, 2025 - Columbus, OH.

I sent Mr. Volkov an IM in Rentmen yesterday inquiring about his availability and rates in Columbus. He sent a reply back stating that I was required to "Say hello first" before he would answer my questions. It reminded me of the scene in A Few Good Men when Colonel Nathan Jessup told Lt. Danny Kaffee that he would give him a copy of Santiago's transfer orders but "You have to ask me nicely." I will pass on Mr. Volkov.

The topic reminds me of a personal experience back in the late 1980s when Santa Monica Blvd. was a smorgasbord of young, hot meat. I picked up a super sexy Latino guy on the “Boulevard” - he said he had a place to conduct our business nearby. We drove to a large apartment building just off Sunset, took an elevator up a few floors and entered “his” apartment. To my surprise and discomfort there was an entire Latino family of mom, dad, and, what I presumed, were his younger sisters & brother sitting on the floor watching TV. There was even an elderly lady I’m guessing was his “Abuela” sitting in a rocking chair doing her knitting. I nodded to "the fam" and my "date" and I proceeded to a small bedroom down the hall and did our thing though, as I remember, it was rushed and perfunctory. When we emerged from the bedroom the entire family was seated in the dining room (which we needed to go through to get to the front door) with dinner on the table. The dad nodded to me and asked me if I wanted to stay for dinner - which I sheepishly declined & quickly exited. 45 years later I still wonder what the conversation was like after my departure.

I hired an escort late last summer from RM who goes by the name of Monkey Nuts. He is a self-admitted Exhibitionist who loves public encounters, especially at Plant Fitness, as his Twitter account quickly illustrates. He is a young, hot muscular guy who advertises only sporadically on RN. My encounter with him was at 4 a.m. at my home since he was driving in from another city. The last I heard, he was hanging out in Orlando, so you may want to check out the Planet Fitness in Orlando.

I drive to ATL about every 3-4 months for a few days to enjoy the vast array of escorts it offers - especially Black, muscular ones of which ATL has an abundance. I've been doing this for years so I've sampled lots of them. ATL is, in my experience, the Black Stud capitol of the universe. I've had generally favorable experiences even though during my last visit (August) one parasite asked for the money upfront and then promptly left, but not before calling me the f** epithet as his parting gift (I should have known not to hire someone from the escort site called "MegaPersonals" which has delivered two very unsatisfying (and semi-dangerous) experiences - so AVOID)!. Fortunately, during my last visit I had a 3-way with MrTwelvePlay and DOMDADDYFORU. It was a copacetic experience though DOMDADDYFORU, as many know, is an experienced & powerful top who has an extremely hot muscular body but is more of a wham-bam-thankyou-mam aggressive kind of escort. I don't know if he kisses but I doubt that he would not be amenable. MrTwelvePlay, on the other hand, is one of the hottest, most pleasant, most accommodating (and versatile) escorts I've ever met. I highly recommend him during your stay in ATL - especially if you're only staying one night. MrTwelvePlay - Male Escort, Gay massage - Atlanta | Rent.Men RENT.MEN MrTwelvePlay Gay Escort in Atlanta, Georgia, available for Gay Escorting,Modeling,Erotic Massage. | Find all the best Male Escorts at Rent.Men DOMDADDYFORU - Male Escort, Gay massage - Atlanta | Rent.Men RENT.MEN DOMDADDYFORU Gay Escort in Atlanta, Georgia, available for Modeling,Erotic Massage,Bodywork. | Find all the best Male Escorts at Rent.Men I've also had a good experience with CountryboyD - he's a college graduate, carries on an intelligent & cordial conversation, and usually stays around well beyond his paid time. I'm not sure if he kisses but I suspect he does. CountryboyD - Male Escort, Gay massage - Atlanta | Rent.Men RENT.MEN CountryboyD Gay Escort in Atlanta, Georgia, available for Gay Escorting,Modeling,Erotic Massage. | Find all the best Male Escorts at Rent.Men There are a few other Tops I would recommend from Rentmen (WarriorKing, LifeAsALeoo) - and few good choices are on "Friendboy.pro." Unfortunately, I haven't had any experience with the ones you listed - I suspect that my tastes may be a lot different from yours. ATL is a great place to visit with a ton of totally hot guys. The going rate seems to be around $300 though the porn stars (like DeAngeloJackson) will ask for $400 or more. Many of the escorts seem to live near the airport area (East Point, College Park) and in the Midtown & Buckhead area (I LOVE Buckhead!). Good luck during your brief stay in ATL. It's a great place -with lots of choices!

You are right - winter and the yuletide holidays are not the "most wonderful time of the year" esp for those among us who feel the incongruity of their personal lives as compared to the mirth and conviviality portrayed in movies & advertisements. Congratulations on identifying your feelings and seeking help! I provided individual, group, and family therapy for many years and, for a while, worked in Philly. But that was many years ago and I don't have any current therapists to recommend. But I do offer a link that may give you the opportunity to review some of the therapists in the Philly area, along with info about their specialties, treatment philosophy, and financial arrangements. I have checked the listings on the linked site for the therapists in my own local area and they are, for the most part, competent & reliable. Check out the site, click on the "more..." filter, and then click the "LGBTQ+" filter if you want someone who is likely either gay or gay-friendly. (A therapist may or may not divulge his/her sexual preference but many will.) https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/pa/philadelphia Therapy is not cheap. Fortunately, most insurance policies pay for some limited treatment. You would be wise to check with your insurance provider to determine coverage. I believe that Medicare, Part B, pays for 80% of "medically necessary" therapy. Once you have identified a few therapists that appeal to you, call and set up an initial session. Some therapists offer a free session for you to ask questions and see if you and the therapist are a good match. But remember that therapy is not "rent-a-friend." Therapy is about change, and nobody likes change,, even in our misery. So, sometimes a therapist who may be a little demanding might be just what you need. And please, don't get frustrated if your mood doesn't improve overnight. Don't wait. Call today. And, if you think that I could offer any support, advice, or encouragement, DM me. I don't often participate in the forums, but I do visit occasionally to see what's going on. Good luck.

Yes, I stayed at a Marriott in ATL a couple of weeks ago and no pen/pad. I had a pen in my shave kit but no pad - had to tear off a piece of my Confirmation printout. I worked at the Front Desk of a large moderately priced hotel chain back in the late 70s - Guy Lombardo and the Royal Canadians orchestra (anybody remember them?) stayed overnight. Guy was super friendly and graciously penned a note to my mom who was a fan. I'm guessing Guy was about 5'4" tall. We didn't really care if you brought escorts into the hotel - I mean, who's going to go up to a guest and say "Are you a hooker?". The only sexual event I remember during my brief employment was when the Security Guard caught two hot teenage boys who did odd jobs around the hotel doing the "69" on a metal table in the basement laundry. Of course, I pumped the Security Guard for all the details.

"Home is the place where, when you have to go there, they have to take you in." -- Robert Frost

"My wife was afraid of the dark until she saw me naked, now she's afraid of the light." -- Rodney Dangerfield I'm betting that many escorts & masseurs can empathize with Mrs. Dangerfield.

I have a pic of my mum sitting on a stoop in Brooklyn with a mini-flag on Decoration Day in 1927. Must have been a big deal back in the 1920s?

I have lots of relatives who are are docs/dentists/vets. Medical School debts are usually huge and normal - don't get overwhelmed - banks love ya cause you're a good risk b/c med students are normally pretty stable and not spendthrifts. On the other side of graduation I would suggest asking other docs/residents for a referral to a fiduciary financial advisor who can set you up on a long-term plan for savings/investment so that you can live a life of hard work and above-average social-economic status (i.e. you and your family will be comfortable for the rest of your life). Normally, I would suggest Vanguard/Fidelity for investment strategies, but the income of docs are so spectacular that you probably need a personal financial advisor. Just remember: the hardest part of medical school is getting in - and don't get upset if it doesn't happen on the first attempt - and there are other options such of Schools of Osteopathic Medicine and medical schools in the Caribbean and elsewhere. And, don't feel less of a doc if your degree comes from one of those schools - cause it's more than smarts that determine which school you get in.