I’m approaching 3 years on Seeking. Still one of my favorite daily pleasures checking my inbox (I always check daddy’s messages first!!)
I’ve had two arrangements that lasted about six months. Both times the guys just ghosted/disappeared on me - no idea why. I’ve met lots and lots of quality guys who truly appreciate older gentlemen. Many fun dates and intimate time. My “batting average” for a successful date is probably about .700.
I’ve mentioned many times that seeking.com is a lot of work, and seeking is not for everyone. You need to really refine your expectations, patience, and don’t be naive. there will be many dead ends, ghostings, etc. I’m very happy with the risk/reward/return on my seeking experience.
Many are happier just using RM, I’m using both.