MikeBiDude

Eh, not so much. “A person who organizes and operates a business or businesses, taking on greater than normal financial risks in order to do so.” more like this (quoted from a well established escort):

One of my young prospects on Seeking used this in his profile..I’m not ashamed to say, I had to google it! Glucose Guardian

?? ??‍♂️

So I’m in the “please pace my courses” school of thought. I like it that way. But, can I present the other side of the coin? Restaurants and servers are “trained“ in this behavior, BY CUSTOMERS. Yes, many of us want to pace our courses. But many, many customers are geared towards food=fuel, with no need to converse or enjoy. Order, drop the food, eat and leave. We are a bit of a unique group on this forum… And I would wager we are in the minority in the situation. Most diners in most restaurants want to eat and leave.

Not the same...and you know it.

People who walk out of brunch buffets with food in their pockets have never owned a restaurant or small business.

While there is good information in this thread....there is a LOT of overthinking of a very simple, everyday situation...that hoteliers are WELL aware of.

No, he didn’t follow up on text messages I moved on...

Or poorly trained employees on said POS

No...because if this, this, this, and this:

Exactly this....

¡Feliz Cumpleaños! @latbear4blk

I witnessed my son’s, at 2-3 days after his birth. Performed by the (female) OBGYN. She numbed the area with something, and used something like a cigar trimmer that had multiple sizes/cuts available. While not really pleasant, and clearly wasn’t pain-free it wasn’t the end if he world.

Which is why I routinely ignore any/all of the checked (or unchecked!) boxes and activities and preferences and just ask the man.

I’ve often considered that....but does the escort want the account active? Do they have a veto over someone buying a gift membership and activating the account?

Or 40? ?

Very true! Some of you may know I was cyber stalked here many many moons ago bcs by a young man I was in an arrangement with me who subsequently saw me on this site.

*exactly* ????

I’ve also found there are levels of expectations on Seeking, from both sides of the arrangement. As @Keith30309 mentions above, not every arrangement is a multi-thousands of dollars a month plan. There are many, many young men on there where far less means a great deal to them, and a modest amount can benefit their day-to-day living. Because of my busy life and schedule I *never* commit to weekly/monthly arrangements, and in fact tell my seeking prospects in the second or third message that that’s not what I’m looking for, and I prefer a by-the-visit arrangement. A minority say “no thanks” when I mention this. A majority continue the conversation. Helpful hint, avoid the ones who ask “how much” immediately, and when actual allowance discussions begin move off seeking to another more private messaging platform.

“Bragged”? Or just relayed various experiences? ??‍♂️

I’m approaching 3 years on Seeking. Still one of my favorite daily pleasures checking my inbox (I always check daddy’s messages first!!) I’ve had two arrangements that lasted about six months. Both times the guys just ghosted/disappeared on me - no idea why. I’ve met lots and lots of quality guys who truly appreciate older gentlemen. Many fun dates and intimate time. My “batting average” for a successful date is probably about .700. I’ve mentioned many times that seeking.com is a lot of work, and seeking is not for everyone. You need to really refine your expectations, patience, and don’t be naive. there will be many dead ends, ghostings, etc. I’m very happy with the risk/reward/return on my seeking experience. Many are happier just using RM, I’m using both.

Personally, I’d hire moving help, and put all his belongings into a rentable pod container, and tell him where they are going (storage?). Bring a couple of large/burly friends along, get his keys, and tell him he’s out. I can’t disagree with all the good legal/eviction advice given here, but come on. Get him out! I doubt he will fight it....and BTW what’s his current immigration status?

This isn’t a thread on grammar and “antecedent” bullshit....our friend @Unicorn is reaching out. Sad you need that and “labels” to “tap into empathy”.

Link would be very helpful

Looks ok to me...some of the companies are using beet juice. AND, the Blood dripping from “bloody rare” beef isn’t really blood at all. It’s myoglobin