Lohengrin1979

Does the steep quoted price include airfare to Ulaanbaatar, Mongolia?

I've met with him twice. His body is quite nice. I thought his body looks very much like his pics. Maybe he was in bad lighting for the previous poster. His massage skills are very good (i'd say 7/10) and the sensual elements are incorporated seamlessly. My only problem is that his cock when fully hard is too big to fit in my throat comfortably. I was left gasping for air. Well worth it. ❤️

Fully ready for judgment on this but I keep a spreadsheet of masseurs I’ve seen. I’ve established a rubric for scoring them and the top two scorers are my regulars. When I try someone new and they score high on their initial session, I slot them in and hire them a couple more time for consistency. If they consistently deliver at that the high score, they replace whichever of the top two may have been lower than their score.
not to say I discard the lower scoring therapists. I just don’t hire them unless my top two are busy/out of town, etc. 

Fully ready for judgment on this but I keep a spreadsheet of masseurs I’ve seen. I’ve established a rubric for scoring them and the top two scorers are my regulars. When I try someone new and they score high on their initial session, I slot them in and hire them a couple more time for consistency. If they consistently deliver at that the high score, they replace whichever of the top two may have been lower than their score.
not to say I discard the lower scoring therapists. I just don’t hire them unless my top two are busy/out of town, etc. 

Fully ready for judgment on this but I keep a spreadsheet of masseurs I’ve seen. I’ve established a rubric for scoring them and the top two scorers are my regulars. When I try someone new and they score high on their initial session, I slot them in and hire them a couple more time for consistency. If they consistently deliver at that the high score, they replace whichever of the top two may have been lower than their score.
not to say I discard the lower scoring therapists. I just don’t hire them unless my top two are busy/out of town, etc. 

I think there’s an excitement in the new - the anxiety, the allure, the not knowing. But I keep going back to familiar providers mostly because 1. the ones who made me feel like they enjoyed it too are top of the roster and 2. some of the new guys pricing has gotten out of whack for me (yesterday a provider quoted $500 for a 50 min strictly therapeutic massage). Sometimes consistency beats excitement. 

At least you know they will shoot their web everywhere 

Maybe I'm in the minority, but I don't go into a massage session with any intention of having sex, even if it's listed as sensual. For me, the massage is the most important thing and I don't wish to sacrifice the quality of a good massage for the possibility of having sex.
I typically book therapeutic over sensual, but will opt for sensual if that means the masseur is also naked. I'm a bit of a nudist, so it's always nice when a masseur will also go naked during a sensual massage session. But getting a sensual massage or us both being naked doesn't mean sex. For me, being naked together is what makes the massage sensual and sensual does not need to end with anyone getting off. I've found having a masseur jerk me off to be a bit awkward and, honestly, I feel I can do a better job of that on my own.

Sure, skin on skin contact, or when a masseur's hand (or other body part) briefly glides across your balls/ass/dick is generally exciting and creates anticipation...but that can also ruin the moment for me, which should be focusing on the massage itself. 

I also understand that masseurs have different interpretations of what's involved with sensual massage or what should be classified as erotic. What I described above may sometimes be considered more erotic (though, I see an erotic massage as the gateway towards more sexual activities), so I may opt to book the erotic if that means the masseur will be naked too - however, I will make it clear up front what my expectations are, just so we're both on the same page. 

For many guys sex happens too quickly. Guys rush to penetration, and then it’s over…all too fast. This could happen easily with an escort. Massage slows all of this down. Sensual massage is like choreographed foreplay, the build up of tension (including ‘will he fuck me? or will he let me fuck him?’) is part of the journey and the journey counts just as important as the destination. Good masseurs can have you absolutely begging for it after an hour 😉

@Vegas_Millenniallives in a constant porn scene. He orders a pizza and the delivery guy gets blown. The plumber arrives to fix a blockage and leaves minus a load and when he visits church on Sunday the priest fucks him through the glory hole in the confession box. He’s amazing! 

Speaking for myself I’ve tried both and find masseurs more reliable in that I get what I pay for. 

He advertised as Luis and then John on masseurfinder. I saw him a few times. Soft massage and more feminine than his photos appear. Can be accommodating if suitably “motivated.”

He's good. Seen him twice now. Completely therapeutic, decent technique and looks like his pics. He’s very upfront about giving a legitimate service so don’t expect sensuality but he’s very handsome and it’s a good massage. 

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$400 for a fully clothed sensual massage with no HE is crazy. I’m sorry, my friend, but you were taken to the cleaners. 90 minutes notwithstanding, that’s overpromised and under delivered. I’ve hired masseurs recently who did much more for much less, and I don’t have any illusions as to my ability to set their pulse racing with anything but my money. I won’t even begin to comment on him mentioning his engagement during the massage. He was either dishonest when scheduling or dishonest during the massage and neither behavior should be rewarded.
I truly hope others aren’t supporting this provider at that price. The LA market is expensive enough.

Saw him a few months ago. Not as trim as the pictures show and older. Massage was very light and swerved into the sensual rather quickly. Would not repeat. 

Saw him a few months ago. Not as trim as the pictures show and older. Massage was very light and swerved into the sensual rather quickly. Would not repeat. 

In theory, I agree with you, but I have had certain therapists get accustomed to very generous tips I gave them.... and then when I gave a very good but not super generous tip one time as I was a bit shorter on cash, the therapist looked at me and asked if something was wrong given it was less than the usual, creating for an awkward situation. I don't believe he was speaking from the perspective of "I deserve more or expect more," but was sincerely concerned. I explained I had less cash on me that day, and it was fine... but it made it awkward enough that I felt obligated to make sure I had the cash on me to give the larger tip the next time.
So I think you should give your standard good tip, not excessively more, but if you really love the therapist, maybe give a bonus around the holidays.

This screams cheap service trying desperately to look expensive, despite all the diamonds, gold sparkles, and luxury effects.
I don’t know who designed this, but it looks like they typed: “Make it luxury.” Then clicked: “More luxury.” Then: “MORE luxury.” Then: “Add diamonds.” Then: “Not enough diamonds.” 😂
The funny part is that the prices themselves don’t bother me. It’s the graphic. It looks less like a premium service menu and more like a VIP package for a cryptocurrency conference at a casino.
The giant stock-photo diamonds, the gold sparkles, the decorative borders, the flourishes, the glowing effects… looks awful and cheap 
Real luxury branding is usually simple and confident. This graphic looks like it’s trying to fight me for attention from every direction at the same time. 

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Those lips, those eyes...
But is it really wise to put in an ad that you've been "navigating a very challenging personal situation that affected my emotional wellbeing"?
I mean, I am sorry about that, but it's just unprofessional. That's concerning when hiring a pro for a professional service.

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So I jst saw him , he isn’t a female he is a male . As far as the massage I wouldn’t recommend his hands were pretty rough . Due to to him working out to it wasn’t relaxing and the massage wasn’t great either . The sensual part was fun, but I would pass 

I personally have never discussed extras with anyone, not once. The way they massage me is a good indicator of what the vibe is and whether there is chemistry. I always let the MT take the lead on extras and whatever happens just happens. For me I've had the best time when they initiate. 

I'll throw in a Glutes endorsement of Trevor also.
He doesn't disappoint.