sam.fitzpatrick

Sorry I missed this year's event. I had a travel conflict last week. I love your reports and was privileged to be phoned by samfitzpatrick yesterday while he was lounging around the Inndulge pool with sfwestcoaster and mikecarey. Sam updated me on some of the participant's naughtiness and the talent that strutted around the pool.  😘  Sounds like I missed a good time. 😁
Hope to see y'all again soon!

Whew! I replaced my boiled phone back in San Diego and all is well again. Too much client texting, I guess. Bitches be calling, all the time…
Wow, just wow. I had a great time. This was the first of what I expect to be many fun and fruitful annual visits.
Thank you @David-SF and @Oliver for hosting a lovely series of events. Well done! And thank you to the half dozen or so Company of Men members who hired me for various services over the weekend (even a repeat 😍), plus another member in San Diego Monday night after I got back. You know who you are and I sincerely appreciate your business!
Newell, my 4-hand massage partner was nervous to meet everyone but said he enjoyed himself at the dinner. He’s not so intimidating in person despite his size. He’s a sweet guy. @sam.fitzpatrick thanks for going out of your way to make Newell and I feel so welcome at the events.
@purplekow thanks for helping apply sunscreen to all those hard-to-reach places on my body 😉 
@mike carey I had no idea you can play card games with more than 4 suits. Learn something new every day. I’ll have to practice so I can play a round with you next year. And thank you for sharing the “Karen is a C*nt” comment from the forums. That was laugh out loud funny.
For those of you like me who didn’t know until now: cookies = feet. Eating cookies means licking toes, playing with feet, etc. I was out of the loop on that one. That’s the reference to cookie crumbs. 
@BodeBrentwood thank you for sharing your beautiful self and your cookies with the world, among other assets. It was a pleasure having you around the pool. You were a delightful and entertaining centerpiece to all of the goings-on in the hot tub. Thanks kindly for trying to lead me to an exit 😂 when I was carrying a massage table late night across the InnDulge courtyard to a client’s room. I know I must have looked out of place, dazed and confused scanning the room numbers to figure out where I was going. I won’t even mention Louie’s wild adventures, disappearance into the California desert, and eventual mysterious return. Too late. Thanks @Summerson for generously offering them space to stay in your room.
That hot tub at InnDulge is the place to be! Several other hotel guests booked me there who had nothing to do with CoM. I love a hot tub soak. Can’t wait to chat more there next year.
Other providers take note: the trip pays for itself if you just hang around the hot tub. I encourage more providers to visit next year. Consider this trip business development for us working men 🤣 just don’t risk writing it off on your taxes as such. 
Kudos to Danny for helping @purplekowin and out of the pools and staying dedicated by his side always. What a class act! We miss your delightful presence here on the forums 😢 but I understand it can be toxic in some corners at times, so I don’t blame you for leaving.
Clients encourage us to come to these events but it is quite expensive and we’re not exactly on vacation when we attend. We need more clients to come and support us at these things to make it worthwhile for every provider putting down serious time and money to make a several day visit (excepting those fortunate few who were dedicated hires for the whole weekend/week). We need more of you clients to join us next year.
I’m not complaining - I did well and this trip was totally worth it for me, in the short run and longer term - but I can see it make sense for more of us providers to attend if more clients were attending and spreading the wealth, so to speak. At the dinner, for example, we had 40 some odd people, including providers. We could easily make space for a lot more members there to support the 8-12 or so providers who attended, and more beyond that with enough critical mass. Just saying…
Y’all come next year if you never have or haven’t in a while. It’s a lot of fun 🤩 
Cheers! 🥂
-Simon

Thanks to everyone for a great weekend, the usual suspects who did the heavy lifting, @Oliver and Phil, @David-SF, @sam.fitzpatrick, @azdr0710 for his tireless taxi service (and bit of In N Out). Thanks @Simon Suraci for your invaluable advice on things to do in San Diego, if only I'd had time to more of them. The zoo is worth it in itself. I know there are things and people I've missed and for that i apologise.  À l'année prochaine!

Me and maturedmuscle/Steve had a wonderful time (PM me if you want to know more), but I'm actually tired and glad it's over (there were a few setbacks on my trip), and as always, it's the people we met that made the biggest difference and joy. Making friends and meeting new people is the highlight of the trip, and I can't thank @Oliver @azdr0710 @sam.fitzpatrick and @David-SF enough for their kindness, attention to detail, gregariousness, and all in all making this year a wonderful success.

Another amazing year! Unfortunately, I am still recovering from a touch of sun poisoning on Sunday so I missed the breakfast yesterday, and had to call out of work today but overall, it was definitely worth it. 😈A huge thank you to @David-SF who always kicks the weekend off in style and to @Oliver for making sure it ends with a bang. Also a special thank you to @purplekow and Vin for allowing @Robster and I to invade their space while we were 'visiting' Inndulge. 

Wonderful weekend as always! I've lost track of how many of these I've attended, but it's become the highlight of the year for me. Really sorry to have missed @David-SF's pool party and the dinner, but it was great to see everyone. Thank you @Oliver and his Hot Helpers for keeping it going. Always so much fun!

Climbing into my bed after an eventful and adventurous weekend. It was so incredible getting to meet everyone and feel welcomed. Thank you to @David-SF and @Oliver for throwing such wonderful get togethers and thank you to @Summerson for the invitation in the first place. I'm sad that I'm not more west coast oriented, but if anyone ever would like to connect or chat between now and next year, I'm always a message/text/DM away.
 
PS-I will never be able to look at grapefruits with a straight face again.

I just got home to LA and I already miss the warm weather of Palm Springs. Thank you again for a fun weekend. Everyone who hosted @David-SF and @Oliver! Plus everyone who I connected and re-connected after the year! It was my 3rd time going in a row and it was my favorite year yet! Hope to see you all again and maaaaaybe ill find myself at Inndugle next year 💞

Guys, you are all being too kind. I would have told the bridesmaid that the way to get even is show up on the wedding day with her hair dyed green. That would make for an interesting photo.

Once again I’ll be hosting the early bird pool party during At my home in Cathedral City. 
Friday the 12th this is a great ice breaker intro for any newbies or 1st timers at the annual Oliver’s weekend event. 
Bring yourself your date your favorite drink
There will be food soft drinks some wines and beers if you have a cocktail request please hit me up. 
 
Time: 12-4pm & beyond 
Just note if you show up early you will be put to work helping get the place ready 
Location: 
68445 Terrace Road  Cathedral City CA 92234
415-724-5954 
Please park in areas on the corners of the 3 blocks that have clearly lots of open space  try not to clog up Terrace Rd. Makes it dangerous for traffic. 
 
accessibility: if you have mobility devices please let me know we can open the big gate for easy access to my house. 
 
clothing is always optional at my home during this event. 
 
hanky panky always ok please please please remember consent and respect is imperative 

"Thanks for thinking about me.  I do not think I will be in need of your services anytime soon, but if that changes I will contact you.  I had a nice time with and wish you the best."  If he contacts you again, "I want to be clear that I had a good time with you but I am pursuing other alternatives and I am not expecting to be using your services in the future."
A brief, polite and honest answer is the best etiquette.  
On the other hand, when I contact a provider after an encounter in order to arrange another, I will make two attempts.  The first to express interest.  The second to insure that he received the first contact.  After that, I assume he is not interested but mention in the second contact that if he wishes to contact me he may.  Square peg round hole is not the peg's nor the hole's fault.

I’m attending all the main festivities this year, arriving Friday, staying in a poolside room at InnDulge.
Newell, of my collaborating masseurs/escorts is my guest. We are both available throughout the weekend individually and together, although I’m sure Newell will probably be busy with his regulars in PS. I have a few of my own in PS I imagine will want to book some of my time. My focus and priority, however, is getting to know you all. If you hire me in between the main events, great, but I mostly just hope to relax and have some fun with y’all.
Kicking off with the Fri pool party
Dinner Saturday evening
Pool party Sunday afternoon 
Breakfast Monday morning
Newell may join the pool parties, probably won’t join the meals since those require paying ahead and he will want to stay flexible for client appointments.
I check out late morning on Monday, and head back to San Diego. I can come earlier or stay longer should any of you want to hire me for outcall service at your accommodations. I can take incalls or outcalls Friday evening, Saturday morning, Saturday evening, Sunday morning, and Sunday evening. When I’m not busy, chat me up poolside at InnDulge.
Looking forward to meeting everyone!

Having seen @Epigonos's recommendation last fall, I kept planning to meet @COLTONN in Ohio, but just didn't get around to it.  Then he appeared at @Oliver's pool party in April.  He was well liked by many of the attendees, and I knew that I would enjoy spending one on one time with him.  Last week, I was honored to host him in Columbus.  He lived up to all of Epigonos's accolades and is truly a top-notch provider.  

as always, the comments are great......

Excellent news - I'm hanging around until Wednesday.

Excellent news - I'm hanging around until Wednesday.

Excellent news - I'm hanging around until Wednesday.

Will not be in PS for the Gathering, but am flying in on Monday the 15th and look forward to catching up with any of you who might be hanging around for a few days after the Sunday festivities.

Just a short commute to PS today. From sunny Phoenix to rainy PS. 
I think our reward will be tomorrow.   🤗🤗🤗
 
 

Welp....I pulled out my travel bag; it's time to pack. Flying to Columbus Friday, and y'all know what that means.....the westward migration is drawing nigh! 😃
Looks like it's warmer up yonder this week than last. Thanks Oliver and SamFitz for turning on some heat prior to my arrival......😋

It's happened to me...  A super ugly bend, but thankfully not a full fracture.  Happened during someone riding me reverse-cowboy.
Super painful.  Literal blue/black balls for several weeks.  It healed and I don't tread in that position anymore.

Replace the word reasonable with the phrase "affordable for you".  Because something is expensive, for you, doesn't make it unreasonable. This may seem like a small quibble, it isn't.

Of course!

Of course!

Laundry. Or I might go wild and clean my toilet as well.